Everyone holds you when you succeed and looks at you coldly when you fail. I always feel really useless. No one will remember what you looked like when you tried to make money. It's like you have to do good all the time, and if you do wrong, you will become a sinner. At that time, when I was making money, I would give money to my family every day, and I would put more than half of it under her pillow every day and keep some for myself. Her purse can't fit every day, and you are the best at this time. When I failed, the problem came out. Divorce, I can't go on, suffer with you. Actually, it really makes me sad. Why do I always look at the bad ones? Maybe this is a habit formed in my life. There is a skeleton in the cupboard. Basically, every once in a while, I talk about divorce or something. I said, please don't always say such things when my life is at a low point. I can climb it again if I have the chance. My marriage is heart-to-heart, and it has been thirteen years now. After a quarrel, to calm down is to talk, give in and comfort. When she is upset sometimes, I always say that you can't solve anything in this world except life and death. Simple, don't cling to that tendon. Divorce in anger is irrational, especially if you have children. Divorce of adults will hurt children's psychological growth. Learn to comfort and adjust yourself when you fail, and find a place to shout and release when you are upset. People can't control themselves when they are upset, and they are impulsive. The more things, the more chaos. One by one, we should face everything calmly. Failure in life does not necessarily require divorce, and success in life does not necessarily require divorce. Marriage is a classic, which needs to be understood and managed. Live every short day.
A failed life begins with divorce? Who gave the definition? It's so biased!
Former colleague, female doctor, married after working for 2 years. Her husband is a small leader in a private enterprise and has made small achievements. In the eyes of outsiders, the combination of the two sides is not bad, but they divorced after getting married for more than two years. The reason is that the man has a big temper and is often not at home because of various social activities, and he has not been caught in bed by his female colleagues. Colleagues are educated and can't stand this. Before they had a baby, they resolutely divorced and quit their jobs. Everything starts from scratch. Under the introduction of doctoral tutor, they went to an American university as researchers, married an American and had two handsome half-blood little princes.
Get rid of an incomplete marriage, abandon all kinds of unbearable, sad, angry and regret in marriage in the wind, start a new life, pursue the life you want with ideals, and complete a more free and perfect self.
How can this be the beginning of a failed life? Obviously, welcoming a bright future is a kind of rebirth!
As the Japanese writer Junichi Watanabe said:
For example, Ma Yili chose to forgive after the article was derailed. Her "love is easy, marriage is not easy, feasible and cherished" has become a famous aphorism to advise you to cherish marriage. However, in the end, Ma Yili and the article were "happy for each other" and "one parting and two widths" in July 2065438+2009. However, did Ma Yili sink and fail? No, her acting career is still going on, and she has won many awards, including 10 Actress of the Year Award of China Film Directors Association, and nomination for Best Actress of the 32nd Golden Rooster Award of China Film.
Therefore, divorce is not the end of the world. Whether men or women live in the wrong marriage, they can only let their lives sink to the bottom of the sea forever. On the contrary, ending this relationship is a relief for both sides. On the contrary, they can be more frustrated and brave, live more and understand more, and finally achieve better themselves.
1. A person who cheated in marriage and lost his reputation. For example, Ma Rong, Wang's ex-wife, and Song Zhe, the cheating agent, transferred Wang's property and eventually became a street rat, which was despised by everyone. Another example is Li XiaoLu's cheating hip-hop boy. All kinds of shows and loving actions in the hotel look really disgusting.
2. People who rely on each other to support themselves in marriage and have no ability to live and work. Most of them are women, aiming at being rich all their lives, thinking that they will have no worries about food and clothing after marrying into a rich family, but you were just a delicate vase at that time. After being abandoned, people are old, nothing, nothing, and there is no breath of the past.
3. People who can't get out of this relationship after divorce and sink from now on. I still can't get over it and want to hang myself from a tree. It's a pity that this tree has no branches to hang a rope on, so I lost my strength under the frustration and blow of divorce. Without the motivation to struggle, my life is bleak from now on.
In a word, divorce is the beginning of life failure, or nirvana reborn to realize each other's new era depends on one's attitude towards life. With a positive attitude towards life, life will always sweep away the haze and usher in the sunshine, just as romain rolland said: "There is only one kind of heroism in the world, and that is to love life after knowing the truth of life."
In fact, I quite agree with this statement, and I also agree that a failed life begins with divorce.
At present, divorced people can be divided into two types.
1. People who are very successful in their careers will get divorced.
People who fail in all aspects will get divorced.
As an ordinary person, most divorces are due to various conditions, or the continuous exposure and increase of shortcomings, which both husband and wife can't stand.
My colleague, she divorced her husband because he did a job that didn't make much money, but he didn't do anything but play games after coming home every day.
The quality of life is declining. I never cook and clean the housework, and I don't like cleaning very much.
As a result, colleagues divorced her, and now this man's life is more and more sloppy, more and more neglected, more and more comfortable and less self-motivated.
As an ordinary person, don't think about divorce. You can't just change a person's life and a family's life.
From ancient times to the present, we often talk about getting married and starting a business, but now many people try to start a business without getting married. I just want to say that without a family, your career will basically not succeed, because you have no motivation and no pressure. You live in a comfortable environment, and your efforts are only deceiving yourself.
There is also the so-called responsibility, which is also essential in marriage. When you avoid responsibility and don't want to take responsibility, it shows that you are a selfish person at heart.
Accurately speaking, marriage is an important criterion to test whether a man or a woman is mature.
When a divorced man or woman chooses marriage again, others will think of you, and will certainly consider your personality, your life and your job.
What are the reasons why men divorce?
1. Not making money is fundamental.
2. Divorce caused by playboy's cheating.
3. Regardless of life and wife.
What are the reasons why women divorce?
1. cheated, there are people outside.
2. derailed, there are people outside.
Finally, I want to say that marriage is very inclusive. When we are not married, we will feel that marriage is really bad and stressful, but the happiness brought by marriage and the sense of responsibility brought by marriage are indispensable for our life growth.
Therefore, the failure of marriage is doomed to be the failure of growth, which may have taken a detour and may have gone downhill. Therefore, running a good marriage is also a kind of growth and success.
Marry, cultivate one's morality and govern the country,
These two sentences are about the importance of becoming a monk and the road to success.
Divorce can't solve all unpleasant problems,
Without a home, a person is like duckweed, wandering in society,
Think about yourself, think about each other, manage your family well and seek development with peace of mind.
Divorce doesn't necessarily make life fail, but without a family, it will definitely fail.
Now, some S I3 drivers who drive Mercedes-Benz BMWs all day are outside, having sex with men and women, and it is on each other.