First of all, we should establish a correct outlook on life and a positive attitude towards life. The factors that determine a person's success are IQ (20%), EQ (60%), family background, opportunities and social environment (20%). Therefore, in the process of career achievement, EQ is more important than IQ. However, the IQ is stable, but the EQ is constantly improved through hard work, which gives us great hope. As long as you consciously improve your emotional intelligence, you can completely improve your chances of success, with high understanding and high understanding. First of all, it is the choice of the strong in life to correctly understand their own shortcomings and seek improvement. Secondly, observe and learn the employment methods of successful people. Everyone's success has its own advantages and disadvantages, and learn from it correctly and become your own. For example: sit on the bench patiently, concentrate on work for a long time, keep learning new things, be good at interpersonal communication, and show concern for everyone. After observation, according to your own characteristics, start with the simplest and easy-to-learn method and learn the successful method, and you will also reap the same success. In addition, you need to correctly accept your mistakes and mistakes, be confident, patient and resilient, and attach great importance to success. Don't make excuses for mistakes, find better solutions for them and make them progress.