The story of tolerance: The philosopher Kant said: "Being angry is punishing yourself for the mistakes of others." The elegant Kant will probably not have storms, and his mood will always be clear and clear. Others make mistakes. , we are furious about this, and it is ourselves who are at fault.

Modern Dale Carnegie does not advocate tit for tat. He said: "There is only one simple way to truly hate others, that is, to use the other person's ability to their full potential. The advantage of "hating the other party is that you are too ruthless to eat flesh, sleep, skin, bones, and marrow. The result will only make you exhausted and exhausted. The "hatred" Carnegie said is another form of "tolerance." Hatring others is not gnashing your teeth and feasting on your opponent. Instead, it absorbs the strengths of the other party and turns them into calcium for its own physical strength.

No matter how much the wolf plays the role of "kind grandmother" and swears to "be vegetarian from now on", it is difficult to change its nature of eating sheep. But if all the sheep are killed, the flock will be prone to plague; if two tigers fight, they will not be equal, but once the hero is lonely, the ferocious tiger will degenerate into a sick cat without being imprisoned in a fence. Treat your opponent as a friend , this is a higher level of tolerance.

President Lincoln was known for his tolerance towards his political opponents. Later, he finally aroused the dissatisfaction of a congressman. The congressman said: "You should not try to make friends with those people, but should eliminate them." "They." Lincoln replied with a smile: "When they become my friends, aren't I destroying my enemies?" To hit the mark, be more tolerant, and open opponents may be our potential friends.

The Three Gorges Project successfully closed the river. Who has made the greatest contribution to the Three Gorges Project? Pan Jiazheng, a famous hydraulic engineer, answered the question from a foreign reporter: "Those who oppose the Three Gorges process have made the greatest contribution to the Three Gorges Project." Opponents The existence of tolerance can keep a clear and rational mind and do things more thoughtfully; it can inspire you to have the courage to accept challenges and unleash your potential in life. This is not a simple tolerance. This tolerance is like a hammer, sharpening your will and sharpening your life.

Although I don’t agree with your point of view, I have an obligation to defend your right to speak. Many people know this sentence, which contains the democratic core of tolerance. A good word can warm you in the winter. , Tolerance is the warm sun on the snow-capped mountains in winter; bad words hurt people in the cold weather of June. If you have a tolerant heart, use it as an air conditioner to cool down in the hot summer.

Tolerance is a kind of beauty .The deep sky tolerates the temporary raging of thunder and lightning storms, so that the wind and the sun are beautiful; the vast sea tolerates the violent waves, so it is vast; the vast forest tolerates the law of the weak and the strong, so it is lush and green. Taishan does not hesitate. Only by scratching the soil can one become taller; only by not choosing small streams can a river become as big as it is. Tolerance is the Mount Tai that stands thousands of feet high, and it is the rivers and lakes that accommodate hundreds of rivers.

Tolerance is Bao Shuya's points when interacting with friends. The gold given to Guan Zhong. He did not care about Guan Zhong's selfishness, but he could also understand Guan Zhong's greed for life and fear of death, and recommended Guan Zhong to be his boss to Duke Huan of Qi.

Tolerance in interacting with others is what Emperor Guangwu burned when he surrendered to the enemy. The torch. Liu Xiu defeated Wang Lang and invaded Handan. When he checked the official documents of the previous dynasty, he found a large number of letters that flattered Wang Lang, insulted Liu Xiu and even planned to kill Liu Xiu. But Liu Xiu turned a blind eye to this and ignored the opposition of all ministers. , all burned to the ground. Regardless of past grudges, he can turn enemies into friends, strengthen his own strength, and eventually become an emperor. This fire burns away the grudges and forges a solid foundation for his career.

You want Tolerate other people's discord, exclusion or even false accusations. Because you know that it is your strength that makes your opponents panic. You should also know that the grass growing in the cracks of the rocks can best withstand wind and rain. Rude words can give your heated mind a "cold compress" "; The little shoes given to you may allow you to dance a wonderful "ballet" on the stage; the blows given to you are like the barbells on the hands of athletes, which will only increase your explosive power. The punishment will be retaliated, which only shows that you are unable to Being humble and mean; harsh words are a double-edged sword, which will eventually cut yourself; retaliating with tooth for tooth will only mean that your "teeth" will fall off soon; having strong blood vessels is the most likely to cause "hypertension"." The violet is crushed by the foot, but it leaves the fragrance on the heel. This is forgiveness." Andrew Matthews said such an enlightening word in "The Tolerant Heart".

Tolerance and Kindness

When I was a sales manager, I had a falling out with an employee. I didn't like how patronizing she was and decided to talk to him. To avoid a public argument, I planned to call her at home.

"Should I fire her?" Suddenly, an incident that happened 9 years ago came into my mind.

At the time, I was working a full-time job to support my husband, Mike, through school. Finally, his graduation day is coming. Our parents would be traveling from out of state for his graduation, and I had a lot of plans for the day. For example, after the graduation ceremony, go for ice cream and then go to town for a bit of fun.

I happily ran into the bookstore where I worked. "I'm taking the Saturday after Thanksgiving off," I announced to my boss, "Mike graduated!"

"Sorry, Mary," my boss would say. "The weekend after the holidays is our busiest time and I need you here." I couldn't believe my boss could be so unreasonable. "But Mike and I have been waiting for this day for five years!" I argued, my voice trembling with emotion.

"Of course, I will not arrange work for you during the graduation ceremony," he said.

"I can't come at all, Rose," my face tightened with anger. "I won't come!" I roared and rushed out.

In the days that followed, I ignored him. When he asked me something, I just answered in a few words and indifferently.

Our relationship became increasingly tense. Although Ross still seemed enthusiastic and always greeted us with a smile, I knew he was feeling uncomfortable, and I was determined to take a day off.

We had a cold war like this for several weeks. One day, Ross asked me if I wanted to talk to him alone. So, we went to the reading area and did it. We stared at my feet and told ourselves to be strong and bear it no matter what happened. Apparently, my boss wanted to fire me. He could not allow me to despise him and remain indifferent. After all, he is the boss, and the boss is always right.

When I glanced at him coldly and disdainfully, I was surprised to see the hurt look in his eyes. "I don't want any anger or unhappiness between you and me," he said quietly, "You can take that day off."

I didn't know what to say. My anger, my narrow-mindedness, my childish behavior were so insignificant in the face of his humility. "Thanks, Ross." I finally squeezed out a sentence. I will never forget this.

I took out the employee’s card and dialed her number. and apologized to her. When we hung up the phone, our relationship was as good as ever.

God has a way of burying the things we have learned in life deep within our souls and bringing them to the surface when needed. And she also made me understand that sometimes, being nice to people is more important than standing up for being “right.”

Quotes about tolerance: ●Tolerance is the only test of civilization (Helpers)

●The art of wisdom is the art of knowing what to tolerate (William James)

●The magnanimous spirit is the greatest of all things (Owen)

●There are many occasions in life when the goal you intend to achieve with resentment may well be achieved with forgiveness. , it is entirely possible to achieve it through forgiveness----(Sidney Smith)

●Sincerely forgive, and then forget it (UK)

●Forgiveness is human nature, And forgetfulness is divine (James Grann)

I hope you can adopt it!