2-word "selected articles" after reading Fu Lei's letters

Fu Lei's letters tell us how to grasp our own mentality and how to improve our studies and career, while Affirming ourselves tells us more about open mind and independent ideas. The following is a 2-word review of Fu Lei's letters collected by me for everyone. I hope I can help you!

2 words after reading letters from Fu Lei-

Letters from Fu Lei was written by Fu Lei and his wife in 1954? Excerpts from letters written to children Fu Cong and Fu Min in 1966. This book is not only an excellent inspirational book for young people, but also a book full of parents' love and expectation for their children. After reading it, I not only benefited from the wisdom of Fu Lei and his wife, but also touched their deep affection.

Fu Congyuan is studying abroad. Despite the hard work and physical fatigue, Fu Lei and his wife still insist on writing letters to their children. Inculcate, it can be seen that his heart is full of success; Deep concern shows that he loves his son as soon as possible. They worked hard and finally got the joy of success. Fu Cong became a famous piano master, and Fu Min became a special English teacher. Therefore, Fu Lei and his wife became the model of China's parents, and their letters from home became the classics of educating their children.

In the letter, Fu Lei, who is serious and meticulous, uses his knowledge, experience and lessons to educate his children (mainly his son) on how to behave, do things, treat life and art, which contains a father's selfless love for his children. Educated by his magnanimous and resolute father, Fu Cong took fewer detours in his growth and eventually became piano master.

from this, the first thing I feel is deep affection. The plain language of Fu Lei and his wife expresses a deep affection, which makes people moved after reading it. ? How precious your letter is to us. Although we are separated, our hearts are always together. This is the only comfort you give us. ?

Poor inherit the wind, in the eyes of parents, children are above everything else. ? Only everything about you can really open our hearts. I feel happy when I think of you, and I have nothing to complain about. ? Children are so easy to make parents satisfied and happy.

　? We parents, for the sake of our children, are not afraid of difficulties and take pains. As long as we are good for you and can help you, we always try our best to give; I hope you can tell us more, too, that your worries and your joys are ours, and let us be connected forever. ? What impressed me even more was that Mr. and Mrs. Fu Lei's love for their children was not stubborn, but mutual respect. ? I am glad that I have another friend and my son has become a friend. There is nothing in the world that can be compared with this happiness! ?

They get along with their son as friends. They don't ask him what he has to do, but mention it to his son in a friend's tone to make him easy to accept. ? Older people always look beyond the future. You think I am wrong about many things for a while. After a long time, the reality proves to you that I am not wrong. ?

Their status is equal, and their learning is mutual. Fu Cong learns from his father's manners, while Fu Lei is in the process of getting along with his son? Learned patience, learned speaking skills, and learned to sublimate feelings. ?

Father's household words written on paper are like a trickle, pure and simple, moving. Mother's love is like her holy and loving tears, clear and selfless.

Secondly, the way of teaching children behind the affection in the letter has benefited me a lot and inspired me deeply. Fu Lei told his son in his letter that a young man should pay special attention to being a man and dealing with life problems. Taking his own life experience as an example, he taught his son to pay attention to his clothes, gestures and manners, and become an educated man.

He taught his son to be modest when dealing with others. The higher the talent, the more you have to put it down? ; Be rigorous in doing things. You have to explain everything to others? ; In times of trouble, you are not arrogant, and you are not arrogant when you win the grand prize. Don't put? Competition? Pay too much attention to it, ignore the success or failure as much as possible, and just try your best to be innocent? .

love the country and people, and remember the honor and disgrace of the country and the safety of the people. You can't be sorry for your country or your compatriots in large and small places? ; Have the dignity of art and personality. Constantly check yourself? , be one? An artist with both morality and art and outstanding personality? ; In life, pay attention to the combination of work and rest, but also manage money correctly. These are also of great benefit to today's students.

Thirdly, Mr. and Mrs. Fu Lei bluntly put forward their views on the relationship between young people's love, marriage and learning, which made me think deeply. He said:? Even at any time in my life, when I was in the most passionate love, I didn't forget my loyalty to learning. Learning first, art first, truth first, love second, this is the principle that I have not changed so far. ?

Youth is the time when seed of love is full of infinite yearning for love. But Fu Lei told his son with his own personal experience that there are more important things to do than love, and that is learning. ? I hope you can devote all your energy to the study of knowledge, use more reason and less emotion? 、? Try to control your feelings and move them into art. ? What Fu Lei said in his mind at the beginning, I believe that Fu Congxue must have a deep feeling after he achieved something.

Mr. and Mrs. Fu Lei's love for their son is deep, long-term and great.

Parents who love their children are everywhere in the world, and it is human nature to love their children. Why do you say that the love of Fu Lei and his wife is deep? Because Fu Lei's love is no longer an ordinary father's love, he always puts morality and art in the first place, and puts the feeling of licking calves in the second place. This love is deep. In Fu Lei's mind, his son is a good artist first, and then a good son.

Mr. and Mrs. Fu Lei's love for their son is also long-term. Parents' beloved son is far-reaching. ? Fu Lei's education for his children is inexhaustible all his life. In any case, we should exercise restraint, focus on the future and health. . Most parents can think about their children's future, but few can really suit their children's tastes and succeed.

Or, blindly pursuing children's bright future and ignoring children's desire for affection. With correct educational ideas, profound knowledge and personal experience, Fu Lei and his wife not only helped their children to become adults, but also made them feel the deep love of their parents. It can be said that it is well-meaning.

The love of Mr. and Mrs. Fu Lei is even greater. I am optimistic about your hope and future', that is, I can't give up with such a little mother-child affection? . But for the sake of their son's hope and future, they are willing to give up this feeling. Fu Lei is not only their son, but also the son of the people of the motherland.

　? You have to seize the time and be vigilant. If you don't practice hard, you will not be able to serve your country and be worthy of your compatriots. . They hope that their son can work harder for the people of the motherland, not just for them. As the saying goes, great love is boundless, and the love of Fu Lei and his wife for their son has risen to the level of loving the motherland and the people, which is beyond the reach of ordinary parents.

Since the book Letters from Fu Lei came out, it has had a profound and far-reaching enlightenment on people's ideology, morality, sentiment and cultural accomplishment. Not only for young people, but also for parents, who have learned a lot from it. I think this is the reason why this book has been circulated for a long time. After reading Fu Lei's letters, we will always be children when we are with our parents. When he was young, he hid us under his wings, carefully isolated everything from the wind and rain, and cared for our innocence. When they grow up, they must be distressed. There are many kinds of things in this world. If they stand in front of us, they are afraid that they will hinder us from growing up. If they follow us, they are afraid that it will be too late to stop us from being hurt.

I hope that we will never know that the world is still gloomy, but we are afraid that we are ignorant. Every parent in the world is so contradictory, wandering between the far and the near, looking for a suitable scale, and Fu Lei almost made this perfect.

A strict teacher, a loving father and a helpful friend, they almost did the best that parents could do in a child's growth. Many people say this is a must-read book for China's parents, but after reading it, I hope every child will read it carefully. Understanding parents' love is an indispensable step for our growth. Don't keep them waiting too long.

I almost entered the university with a sense of relief, leaving behind ten years of cold window, heavy studies, and almost bored parents who accompanied me day and night. They are the shell that I can't wait to get rid of when I grow up, and they are the old times that I need to get rid of in the world that I think I know. I even got a letter from Fu Lei to guide their educational methods, but I deeply regret that time after reading it.

When I first read Letters from Fu Lei, I almost had to confirm the author again and again. Dear child, the day after you left, you wanted to write, for fear that you would be bored, that's all. But not a day goes by without thinking about you. I wake up at six or seven every morning, and I can't sleep over and over again, and I can't tell why.

Like Christophe's mother staying at home alone, thinking of the images of her children's childhood scenes, your mother and I are always thinking about your short stories between the ages of 23 and 67. ? We don't know how much we can tell you about this kind of words, but we dare not say that at your age, everything is going in all directions and you don't want to look back.

We will talk about the past when you were a snot and a tear in the diaper era, which will cause you trouble. Son, I know all this very well, and so does my mother. It's just that all your life will be printed in our minds, floating up anytime and anywhere, like a sketch picture, which makes us happy and disappointed. ? This passage makes my nose sour, so delicate emotions make it hard for me to imagine that it comes from that rigorous, cruel, stubborn and even grumpy scholar.

treating his son, he said: I'm glad that I have one more friend, and my son has become a friend. Nothing in the world can go hand in hand with this happiness. ? Moreover, he said modestly and sincerely: When I get along with my son, I have learned patience, speaking skills and sublimation of feelings. Teach us how to get along with children and how to communicate with them. ? When the child was in pain, he said: Bitter tears are the wine pulp that cultivates your soul. People who don't experience sharp pain will not have profound and broad sympathy. ?

He doesn't do everything for the children, but is happy with the process of their transformation, and encourages him to have a more sincere heart in art. Don't worry about success or failure, just do your best and be worthy of your heart? .

In order to guide his son to devote all his energy to research and study, use more reason and less emotion, and use strong confidence to control all his troubles, he said? Art is the purpose, skill is the means. People who always pay attention to the means will inevitably forget his purpose? .

In the face of the money orders to be sent by college students to their parents, there are no other greetings, and the father warned his son that writing letters is forcing you to sort out your thoughts, which is also an excellent training. How much it is needed nowadays.

in daily life, he admonishes his son? People always have to force themselves. If they don't force themselves, they can't solve the problem. The most basic thing is to hurry up? ; ? Do things scientifically and thoroughly? ; ? Don't be embarrassed in the outside world, and be left behind casually so as not to disturb the scheduled schedule. Modifying small habits is tantamount to modifying one's own consciousness and temperament. ?

what I think is an urgent problem in our life. And such a person who is strict with himself and teaches his children, he says: The name outside the body is only pursued and marveled by ordinary people in society; It has nothing to do with the smallness and greatness of the individual itself. Confucius said that? Letting wealth and fame drift by like clouds? , modern? Name? Also belong to the spirit? Wealth? Among them, the wise are indifferent, so we should not be bound by greed and desire? . Don't forget the life guide for the son who is famous and married.

As an adult, when my son was faced with emotional choices, he even lost no time to help: It is very important to find a partner who can recognize each other's shortcomings, admit each other's shortcomings, be willing to change gradually, and tolerate each other at the same time. To find a permanent partner, we must also consider it rationally and not be blinded by feelings. Marriage will change, and you won't believe it yourself. If you don't think of this in advance, you will suffer endless pain later. ? And when they got married, he told them not to have money at hand, to spread flowers, and the more they despised material, the more they needed to control it.

After a fierce quarrel with Fu Cong, he said this in his letter. Conscience can hardly be dispelled. Son, I abused you, and I will always be sorry for you. I will never be able to atone for this sin! These thoughts have never left my mind all day, but I dare not tell my mother. If you do something wrong in life, your conscience will never be at peace! Really, Balzac said it well: some sins can only be redeemed, but not washed away! ?

Fathers are the representatives of majesty. They are always right. It is the limit that they can ignore disagreements, but Fu Lei can put down his father's dignity, bow to his children and even repent. I think every child can understand the deep love behind it.

They are perfect as parents, and I won't think about having them after I deeply admire and love them, because I have my own parents. They are not perfect, they don't know how to educate their children, they seldom read books, they don't want me to improve my artistic accomplishment, and there is only one me in their intersection with my world.

but they love me, and all those nagging, restraining and scolding I'm tired of represent that they love me. They gave me a home, so that I can go home at any time; They gave me their life experience, so that I didn't have to go through the pain they experienced; They gave me everything they could, and let me grow up like every child. ;