Originally, when doing business, we pay attention to paying with one hand and delivering the goods with the other hand. This is a normal rule in the business world and is also common sense for ordinary people when shopping. Even if you want to inspect the goods, you must make an agreement with the other party in advance. , Don’t break the rules. But life is always so colorful, and as the saying goes: The forest is big, there are all kinds of birds. The news that happened this time also made many people angry.

The location is in Foshan, Guangdong. A man took his child to a steamed bun shop, which contained various kinds of steamed buns, steamed buns, and flower rolls. I saw that he ignored the people next to him, picked up a flower roll with his own hands, and asked the child next to him if he wanted to eat it. The clerk in front of me is obviously seeing this for the first time. We are still in the epidemic prevention and control stage, and food hygiene must not be sloppy. Even if you reach out and touch it before buying it, it will not be clean. After all, pasta such as steamed buns is put directly in your mouth. Food is no better than fruit with skin. So she reminded the man not to touch him casually, which would make other customers feel uneasy. As a result, the man seemed to have his pride stung, and threw the flower roll back. Instead, he asked the female clerk, "You know whether it's clean or not."

Then he boldly ordered two steamed buns. Faced with such a person, the female clerk just chose to make peace with it. After packing the steamed buns, she threw away the flower roll that the other party touched. As if he felt "discrimination", the man suddenly broke out and didn't want the breakfast he had received. He was about to have a conflict with the female clerk, but the other party was unmoved. In the end, the man asked for trouble and left.

This incident has triggered a lot of discussion. Originally it was just common sense in life, but why do some people still do such "extraordinary" behavior? It is enough to show that there is something wrong with people, but their appearance is still traceable after all, which is in line with the saying: people cannot be generalized. First, there are always people with low qualities that are looked down upon.

Quality simply means the most basic social ethics and common sense in life. For example, don’t curse people at will, throw garbage everywhere, don’t jump in line when waiting in line, etc. In the news, a man will touch every bun he buys, which is enough to prove that his quality is worrying. You have to know that this is not your thing, so why should you reach out? Even if you want to hold it for your children to see clearly, have you asked the store clerk on the side? If it was just a wrong move, you should pay for it. Otherwise, how can others eat what you took without worry. The man not only refused to admit his fault, but also tried to argue with others. It is typical for him to refuse to admit his mistakes and to blame others.

With this lax attitude, I don’t know how his leader in the company can reuse him; with such low quality, how can others get along well with him among friends; what if he becomes a negative role model? Explain to your children why you are different from what the teacher teaches? Secondly, there are always some people who have a frivolous and unconstrained personality

This is usually seen in children who are inexperienced in the world. They have perverse personalities and act impulsively regardless of the consequences, which often leads to big troubles. Mainly because I have too little experience, I am immature and don’t know the stakes, and I have no established values, so I have no judgment on many behaviors, resulting in insufficient restraint on myself. This is why we feel that many children and even young men are unconscious. However, personality is affected by environment and age, so people will become more stable as they grow up. But there are exceptions. There are quite a few people in the world who have huge character flaws throughout their lives and never corrected them in the end. Third, there are always people who lack education and don’t know the importance of it

The problem of quality is ultimately a problem of education, and what kind of education you receive basically determines what kind of person you will become in the end. Class crossing requires money, status, ability, and knowledge, and the original stock of these things is educational investment. Only by parents who manage family education well can their children become people with independent personalities. Only when teachers take into account the ideological and moral construction work can students not go astray. The man in the news either did not study well in school, or his parents may have taught him this way, so he behaved in such a dishonest manner.

So, everyone’s dissatisfaction with men is ultimately a matter of the other person’s behavior. As the saying goes: things can be corrected if they are wrong, but it is difficult to turn back if they go astray.