Being good at listening can not only satisfy others’ desire to speak, but also allow you to think, absorb, and improve yourself while listening, killing two birds with one stone.
The reason why people who are good at listening are praised is because most people are eager to express their thoughts but rarely take into account the feelings of others, so people who can listen are rare. The person who talks incessantly is either showing off, being depressed, being conceited, or eager to be recognized by others...while the person listening uses this humble gesture to express their respect for the narrator. Admiration, sympathy, comfort...
The best is like water, and the person who listens is as open-minded as a valley, has a mind that is open to all rivers, has a generous and benevolent goodwill, and has the tolerance to tolerate the opinions of others.
The listener does nothing but does everything. How can he be so perfect if he is not an angel?