1. No matter how much money you have, you cannot prevent death, no matter how beautiful you are, you cannot please the King of Hell, and no matter how great your reputation is, you have to go through life and death. Therefore, don’t be too greedy in life, and don’t live too tiredly.
2. The right position in life is neither close to money nor close to power, but close to the soul; true happiness is neither wealth nor having everything right, but a clear conscience.
3. Life tells us that perfect people and things never exist in this world. Overly perfect relationships only occur in fairy tales and imaginations. The normal state of reality, apart from being dull, is riddled with holes and Rebirth after disaster.
4. Don’t listen to other people’s lies. Every step of your life must be completed by your own ability. I have no information in my stomach, no skills in my hands, and it is useless no matter how many people I know.
5. If you look down from the 80th floor, it’s all beautiful scenery. But if you look down from the 2nd floor, it’s all garbage. If you don’t have height, you’ll see all problems. If you don’t have structure, you’ll see everything. , all I saw was trivial matters.
6. If you have more patience, you will have fewer regrets; if you fall out a few times, you will have more steps; if you are not heard more often, you will have fewer troubles; if you say a few harsh words less, you will have more steps to take. Just have a little more leeway, and keep a line in your life so that we can meet each other in the future.
7. The normal state of life is that even if you try your best to do some things, they may not be perfect; if you try your best to love some people, they will eventually part ways. When you begin to accept and adapt to these, you grow up.
8. When you see someone clearly without exposing them, you understand the meaning of forgiveness; when you hate someone without falling out, you understand the ultimate respect. In life, there will always be people you can't stand, and there will always be people who can't stand you.
9. No matter how evil Cao Cao is, he always has close friends, and no matter how good Liu Bei is, he always has a mortal enemy. Don't care too much about other people's evaluation of you, be yourself, do your own thing well, and follow your own path. Living in the eyes of others is the saddest thing in the world.
10. People will never cherish three kinds of people: the first is the one who gets it easily; the second is the one who will never leave; the third is the one who always treats you well. However, often these three types of people never come back once they leave.
11. Don’t dwell on an awkward thing for too long. If you struggle for a long time, you will be annoyed, in pain, epiglottis, tired, sad, and heartbroken. In fact, in the end, you are not struggling with things, but with yourself. No matter how awkward it is, you have to learn to withdraw.
12. People will encounter unpleasant things and unpleasant people in their lives. If you don’t learn to forgive, you will live a painful and tiring life. Forgiveness is a kind of grace and a feeling. It is like an umbrella to help you travel in the rainy season. Learn to forgive and be happy first.
13. When something unpleasant happens in your life, don’t be dissatisfied and resentful, and don’t be brooding or depressed. You have to face it, whether it’s a blessing or a disaster, and everything will pass, whether it’s good or bad. Being angry is punishing yourself for the mistakes of others.
14. Every person who appears in your life has a reason. People who like you give you warmth and courage; people you like teach you love and self-control; people you don't like teach you tolerance and respect; people who don't like you teach you introspection and growth.
15. If a person cannot control his own emotions, even if he gives you the whole world, you will destroy everything sooner or later. If you cannot be the master of your mentality, you will inevitably become a slave of your emotions. If you don't have the ability to clean up the mess, don't indulge your fickle emotions. Remember: your temper should never be greater than your ability.
16. The more you think, the more troubles you will encounter; if you don’t think about anything, you won’t have any trouble at all. The more you are afraid, the more people will bully you; if you are not afraid of anything, no one will dare to bully you.
17. The biggest difficulty for people is to know themselves, and the easiest thing is to know themselves. Many times, we cannot recognize ourselves simply because we put ourselves in the wrong position and gave ourselves an illusion. Therefore, we are not afraid of bumps in the road ahead, but we are afraid of going in the wrong direction from the beginning.
18. A person’s open-mindedness is reflected in his downfall. A person's self-cultivation is reflected when he is angry. A person's thoughtfulness is reflected in times of sadness. A person's maturity is reflected in the decision-making process. Everyone is willing to do what they like, but doing what you should do is called growth.
19. Instead of being lively and eye-catching and pressing every step of the way, it is better to be a real and natural person among the crowd, not ostentatious, not pretentious, and always keep a retreat. The mind is set and just focus on doing things. ——Annie Baby's "The Good Years"
Twenty. If you can spend a day peacefully, it is a blessing. How many people today will not be able to see the sun tomorrow, how many people are disabled today, how many people have lost their freedom today, and how many people have their families broken up today.
21. Everyone will have an extremely difficult time, the embarrassment of life, the frustration of work, the pressure of study, and the constant fear of love. If you survive, your life will suddenly become enlightened; if you cannot survive, time will teach you how to make peace with them, so you don’t have to be afraid.
In this life, some people envy you, some hate you, some are jealous of you, some look down on you, it doesn’t matter, they are all outsiders; life is like this, everything you do cannot let everyone Everyone is satisfied. Don't lose your true nature in order to please others.
Twenty-three. One day you will understand that people cannot be too kind, because people only pick on the weak. If you are generous and tolerant in everything, others will not appreciate you. Sometimes you should be a little tempered. You really cannot be too gentle and patient with some people. Being too kind will lose your own value and dignity.
Twenty-four. You can be kind, but don’t be too weak! Otherwise, people around you will think that everything you do is taken for granted. Human nature is base. When you start to accommodate others, they will make things more difficult for you. Therefore, stick to your principles and be a less talkative person