What a person shows off shows what he lacks in his heart.

2. The place where a person cares more is the place where he feels most inferior.

Everyone has the habit of judging a person by his first impression. When he thinks a person is good, he will love me and my dog. When he thinks a person is bad, he will totally deny it.

The prouder people are, the more they hide, and the more painful things they are, the more they make a mountain out of a molehill.

This world is neither the world of the rich nor the world of the strong, but the world of the volunteers.

6. The killer of marriage is sometimes not an affair, but time.

7. When you have nothing, you start to gain something.

8. Learn more, be less proud, take advantage of opportunities and get rid of laziness.

9. Childhood ignorance is lovely, and juvenile ignorance is ridiculous; The ignorance of youth is pitiful; Ignorance in middle age is sad, and ignorance in old age is sad.

10, people allow a stranger to get rich, but they can't tolerate the promotion of people around them. Because there are contrasts and conflicts of interest between people at the same level, strangers do not have this problem.

1 1. Women like a man and want to listen to lies; When a woman hates men, she wants to hear the truth.

12, if you lend a person too much money, you will make that person a bad person.

13, modern marriage is the product of emotion and the crystallization of competition.

14, enemies become comrades-in-arms mostly for survival, and comrades-in-arms become enemies mostly for money.

15, you get low-level happiness, and you ask for high-level happiness.

16, a genius who fails is a fool!

17, 1% people are taking advantage of small things, while 99% people are taking advantage of small things and suffering big losses. Most successful people come from there 1%.

18, if people live by eating, that meal is not called rice, but called feed.

19, it is easy for China to learn from Americans, but it is difficult for China to learn from China.

20. The premise of a person's luck is actually that he has the ability to change himself.

2 1, people's growth should be educated by parents, teachers, books and society. Interestingly, the latter always seems to run counter to the first three.

22. Managing your strengths can add value to your life; Managing your shortcomings will devalue your life.

23, life is like a green leaf, with the passage of time, slowly turn yellow, but his veins are still so clearly visible.

24. It is simple to complicate things, but complicated to simplify them.

25. If it is a grass, no matter how good the enterprise is, it will not grow into a big tree. In that case, it is better to experience the storm and cultivate yourself into a valuable flower.

26.2 1 century The survival rule of work is to build a personal brand and turn your name into money.

27. I am afraid that my father is filial piety and my wife is love.

28. There are no unqualified students, only unqualified parents.

29. The earth is moving, and a person will not be in an unlucky position forever.

We can avoid everyone, but we can't avoid a fly. What makes us unhappy in life is often trivial things.

3 1, there is a kind of person who only does two things: you succeed and he is jealous of you; You failed and he laughed at you.

32. Stupid man+stupid woman = marriage; Stupid man+smart woman = divorce; Smart man+stupid woman = extramarital affairs; Smart man+smart woman = romantic love.

33. Any fool will seduce a girl; But only mature men know how to leave her.

34. People have two eyes, both of which are parallel, and they should look at people equally; People's ears are two-sided, so don't listen to one side of the story; Although people have only one heart, they have left and right atria, so they should not only think for themselves, but also for others.

35. Enterprises should have unique resources that cannot be stolen, bought, demolished, taken away or slipped away.

36. A slip of the tongue is telling the truth by accident.

37. Sincerity does not mean blaming others for their shortcomings, but not praising them.

38. Human nature is greedy, but without greed, society will not progress.

39. Love is missing a person's heart, marriage is tying a person's heart, and love is swallowing a person's heart.

40. The best attack is attacking yourself.

4 1, the meaning of life lies not in holding a good hand, but in playing a bad hand.

42. Success is an idea, getting rich is an obligation and happiness is a right.

43. Competition is actually a kind of friendship. With the help of your opponent, you can improve your intelligence. Those who are afraid of competition have lost to their opponents.

44. Money can help the poor solve problems, but it can also help the rich create problems.

45. Invest your love in one person and take risks; It is dangerous to put love into many people.

46. Only those who can't figure it out, there is no road that can't be taken.

Real wealth is a way of thinking, not a monthly income figure.

48, a person wants to be mediocre, and there are few obstacles; There are many obstacles for a person to be outstanding. Many mediocre people have a harmonious relationship with the people around them, and many excellent people have a tense relationship with them.

49. Married men and women are both "happy" and "outward looking".

50. Third-rate makeup is the makeup on the face; Second-rate makeup is spiritual makeup; First-class makeup is the makeup of life.

5 1, the word "crisis", one represents danger and the other represents opportunity, don't give up any efforts.

52, is a hero, is a talent, is a fool.

53. "Always" should be considerate of the lover, "classics" should resist the lover's nagging, "reason" should be humble to the lover, and men should be "general manager".

54, threesome, there must be my teacher, three musketeers, there must be a strong, love triangle, there must be a wound.

Professor Yu Dan's life motto

▲ A person's vision has two functions: one is to go out and expand the world infinitely; The other is to come inward and discover the heart infinitely and profoundly.

▲ Put it down and put it down. If you tolerate others, you actually leave yourself a large piece of land. ?

▲ Admit the shortcomings in real life and make up for them through your own efforts. ?

▲ In a sense, what a person sees is what he has in his heart. ?

▲ Most of the confusion is because the vision is not big enough. How does a frog in the well know what a broad sky is? ?

▲ With an optimistic and positive attitude, grasp the measure of communication with others, make yourself a person who makes others happy, make your happy heart an energy source of sunshine, radiate others, warm others, and let family, friends and even the wider society get some reasons for comfort from yourself. ?

▲ The Analects conveys an attitude, a simple and warm attitude towards life. ?

▲ "God is in heaven, and holiness is on earth" is the personality ideal of China people: there is an idealistic sky, and you can fly freely without compromising many rules and obstacles in the real world; He also has the ability to be down-to-earth and expand his behavior in this land. ?

▲ China's philosophy advocates a solemn, rational and gentle beauty. ?

▲ True harmony is not only the harmony between neighbors in a community, but also the harmony between people, including the harmonious and happy growth of everything on earth; People have a reverence for all things in nature, a conformity and a tacit understanding. ?

▲ A happy life in the material sense is only an indicator. The real sense of stability and heartfelt recognition of the regime come from faith.

▲ Only a true saint can not be tired of material life and always maintain inner peace and tranquility. ?

▲ The fiercer the competition, the more you need to adjust your mentality and your relationship with others. ?

▲ To be tolerant is actually to leave a vast land for yourself. ?

▲ Caring for others is kind; It is wisdom to know people and be good at their duties. ?

▲ The most important person in this world is the person you need help at this moment. The most important thing is to do it at once. The most important time is now, and we can't delay it. ?

▲ It is inevitable that each of us will have regrets and disappointments in our lives. Maybe we can't change this fact, but what we can change is our attitude towards these things. Treat the shortcomings and sufferings in life with a peaceful mind. ?

▲ If you cry because you missed the sun, you will also miss the stars. ?

▲ Benevolent people are not worried, wise people are not confused, brave people are not afraid, and inner strength can resolve many regrets in life. ?

▲ To be strong inside, one premise is to underestimate the gains and losses of things outside. ?

▲ He has a self-confidence and calmness under rational constraints, because he is broad-minded and ambitious. ?

▲ In fact, it's like we have half a bottle of wine in front of us. Pessimists say: How can there be half a bottle of such a good wine? The optimist said: there is still half a bottle of such a good wine! ?

▲ If your mind is bright and kind, and you are honest and brave, then you may gain a lot of unexpected things. ?

▲ You want to be someone who is willing to communicate with you and can communicate with you. The most important thing is that you have an open mind. ?

▲ Directly report complaints, repay kindness with kindness, and advocate a respect for the efficiency of life and personality. ?

▲ I have always been next to the monarch (leader). Although it is near, it is not far from bring disgrace to oneself. I'm always with my friends when I have something to do. Although it seems close, it is not far from your alienation. ?

▲ We should respect everyone equally and rationally and leave some room for each other. The flowers are not in full bloom and the moon is not round. This is the best state in the world. Once the flowers are in full bloom, they will soon wither. Once the moon is full, it will soon be incomplete. But not completely open, not completely round, or let your heart look forward to, look forward to. ?

▲ How to govern, first of all, the principle of doing things, paying attention to morality, followed by the way of doing things, saying less and doing more; Caution means to be careful what you say. Don't say what you can't do. ?

▲ Think more, think more, listen more, watch more, be cautious, and the advantage of being cautious is to let yourself regret less. Before we do something, we should consider the consequences. When we do something, we should think far and be cautious again, so as to avoid hurting others and reduce future regrets. It's important to use your head when you speak and consider the consequences when you do things. ?

▲ "Cultivate yourself with respect" and maintain a serious and respectful attitude. "Cultivate yourself with respect" on the premise of cultivating yourself, and then try to make others happy. "Self-cultivation" is the first premise of being responsible to the country and society. It is a belief, a feeling and a social responsibility to "worry about the world first and enjoy it later", but the premise is very simple, starting from the foot. Self-cultivation and self-improvement are the starting points. ?

▲ With an optimistic and positive attitude, grasp the measure of communication with others, make yourself a person who makes others happy, make your happy heart an energy source of sunshine, radiate others and warm others. ?

▲ Without "worry", "confusion" and "fear" in one's heart, it will naturally reduce complaints and accusations to the outside world and enhance the ability to grasp happiness. This is the ultimate goal of learning. ?

▲ The villain is a person who has no big vision and grasps the small and cheap in front of him. ?

▲ Building a harmonious society is to harmoniously integrate everyone's different voices into the existing collective voices. True harmony is a kind of tolerance and integration of others on the premise of adhering to different voices and different viewpoints.

▲ The power of a gentleman is always the power of action, not the power of language. ?

▲ Make friends with people who can improve their moral character, self-cultivation and enrich your connotation. Make friends who are happy, can enjoy life and can live in poverty. ?

▲ The real happiness in life is the happiness of the soul, which is sometimes not necessarily closely related to the external material life. The power of true happiness comes from the richness of the soul, from an education, from the ideal expectation, and from the communication and communication with good friends. ?

▲ Every adult has his glory and hidden pain in his life. A true good friend should not touch his hidden pain easily. ?

▲ When people are young, they all live by addition, but at a certain level, they must learn to live by subtraction. If your mind is full of income, you will eventually get tired of it. ?

▲ Choosing a friend means choosing a lifestyle. Self-cultivation is the premise of making good friends, which is equivalent to opening the friendliest world for yourself. Can make your life brilliant. ?

▲ A person's ambition is very important and determines the development direction of his life. ?

▲ In today's view, a new development often lies not in how high the ultimate ideal is, but in what kind of starting point there is. We often don't lack lofty aspirations, but accumulate the practical road to that volunteer step by step. ?

▲ A successful career is not necessarily your ideal. ?

▲ When doing things, a person should know what etiquette and shame are, that is, he should restrain himself, have firm and uncompromising standards in his heart, be useful to society and do things for society. ?

▲ The ideal way is to give us some resources and reserve spiritual happiness. ?

▲ Learn to integrate your limited knowledge into life. While studying, thinking and applying. ?

▲ When you are 30 years old, the word "Li" is first an internal position, and then you can find your position in social coordinates. Standing at the age of 30 is to build the confidence of the soul. Standing at the age of 30 is not an external social coordinate to measure whether you are successful, but an internal spiritual standard to measure whether you have a clear introspection in your life, whether you are leisurely, and begin to have a kind of confidence and firmness in what you are doing. ?

▲ The more material things, the easier it is to get confused. ?

▲ Growth means that the heart becomes strong through experience. The so-called return to life is to turn external things into internal forces?

▲ knowing destiny means that there is a determination to deal with the outside world in your heart?

▲ Only by establishing your own inner value system can you turn stress into the tension of life?

▲ "Where does a person's confidence come from? It comes from inner peace and calmness "; "People who suffer from loss will not have an open mind, a calm mind and real courage"; "If a person has some constraints in his mind, he will reduce mistakes in his behavior"; "Being able to reflect on your own mistakes and be brave in correcting them is the real courage advocated by Confucianism"?

▲ Our eyes look at the outside world too much and look at our hearts too little.

▲ Courage is sometimes a kind of calmness and confidence under rational constraints.

Only people with virtue and benevolence can truly be brave in their hearts. ?

▲ The arrogance of a gentleman is proud of his inner strength. ?