People are utilitarian, birds eat for food and die for money. But not everyone does. Different life experiences will have different personalities. Different personalities will make them have different attitudes towards people, and often only modest and generous people will be respected by others.

People always find infinite shortcomings in others, but often ignore their own shortcomings. While enjoying the advantages of others, we are really complaining about their shortcomings. No matter how fake relatives are, they will not be worse than strangers. It may be better for the landlord to see the difficulties of others and consider the problem from their perspective.

In addition, moral standards are different from laws. The moral level is always up to you. You can use it to restrain yourself, but don't impose it on others. For example, if you ask your relative to lend you 1000 yuan, he refuses. After being rejected, he was very unhappy and felt that his relatives were stingy. From your relative's point of view, if he lends you a salary of 3,000 yuan a month, he will lose the class-controlled property of three branches 1. He has to consider a month's expenses, accidents and so on. It is reasonable for him to refuse this request unless it is an emergency, but in some special circumstances, such as medical expenses, it is shameful to refuse as a relative.