To live with righteous people cannot be without righteousness; if you grow up in Qi, you cannot but speak Qi. - Jia Yi
A gentleman is ignorant of himself, but trusts in his close friends. - —Sima Qian
If you don’t know a person, regard him as a friend. —Sima Qian
When digging a well, you must reach the end of the flow, and when making friends, you must go to the end. —Jia Dao
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If you are close to the wise, you will be wise; if you are close to the stupid, you will be wise. - Pi Rixiu
For hundreds of years, the hearts are the same, who is limited to the north and south of the river? ——Yao He
Gratitude needs to be learned over time. ——Yu Xuanji
Don’t make friends with people who are superficial, frivolous and frivolous. ——Guan Lin
When seeking friends, you must be there Be good, and when you get good, you will be good to each other. If you seek friends who are not good, you will find a way out of bad things. If you want to know the heart of seeking friends, you must first refine the gold. - Meng Jiao
If you make friends with non-virtuous people, you will inevitably develop love and hatred. .——Meng Jiao
Mountains and rivers are not important, but meeting a confidant is important.——Bao Rong
Life is connected at the end and the beginning, and there should be no separation in the middle.——Helan Jinming< /p>
Choosing friends is like panning for gold. No treasure will be found in all the sand. - Li Chengyong
Those who are close will continue to be cut off, and those who are distant will not be strong. - Han Yu
When you know each other from a distance, you don’t know that the sea of ??clouds is deep. - Wang Changling
The love for each other is deep, but you can know your heart without saying a word. - Li Bai
What's the use of being alone when we know each other in times of crisis? .——Li Bai
Score points for making friends, sharpen admonitions.——Zhou Xingsi 2. Classical Chinese essays on friendship
1. High mountains and flowing water
Boya is good at playing drums Zhong Ziqi was good at listening to the harp. Boya played the harp and aimed at high mountains. Zhong Ziqi said, "How good it is. It's as tall as Mount Tai." His intention was on flowing water. Zhong Ziqi said, "How good it is. It's as vast as a river." Zhong Ziqi will definitely get what Boya wants. When Ziqi dies, Boya says that if there is no more music in the world, he will break the strings of the harp and never play the drum again.
2. Clique theory
< p> I heard that the theory of cronies has been around since ancient times, but it is only a matter of luck that a gentleman can distinguish between a gentleman and a villain. Generally speaking, gentlemen and gentlemen are friends of the same way; villains and villains are friends of the same interests. This is the natural principle. However, I say that a villain has no friends, but a gentleman has them. What's the reason? What a villain likes is profit and wealth, and what he covets is money. When they share the same interests, it is a hypocrisy to temporarily treat the party as a friend. If they see the advantage and compete for the lead, or if the advantage is exhausted and they become estranged, they will turn against each other and harm each other. Even if they are brothers and relatives, they will not be able to protect each other. Therefore, I say that a villain has no friends, and he who is a friend for a while is a hypocrite. A gentleman is not like that. Those who guard are moral, those who act are loyal, and those who cherish are honorable. If you use it to cultivate your character, you will be of the same mind and benefit each other; if you use it to serve the country, you will be of one heart and help others; if you are consistent from beginning to end, you are the friend of a gentleman. Therefore, as a ruler, you should withdraw from the villain's friendship and use the true friend of the gentleman, and then the world will be governed.In the time of Yao, four villains, including Gong Gong and Huandou, formed a party, while gentlemen, eight yuan and sixteen people, formed a party. Shun and Yao retreated from the four evil villains and became friends with the gentlemen of Yuan and Kai. Yao brought great rule to the world. When Shun became the Son of Heaven, twenty-two people, including Gao, Kui, Ji, and Qi, stood side by side in the court. They were even more complimentary and favored each other. All twenty-two people became one companion, and Shun used them all, and the world was in great order. . "Shu" said: "Zhou had hundreds of millions of ministers, but they had hundreds of millions of hearts; Zhou had three thousand ministers, but they had only one heart." During the time of Zhou, hundreds of millions of people had different hearts and minds, and they could not be friends. However, Zhou destroyed the country. Three thousand of the ministers of King Wu of Zhou made a large party, and Zhou used them to prosper. During the reign of Emperor Xian of the Later Han Dynasty, all the famous people in the world were imprisoned and regarded as party members. When the Yellow Turban bandits arose and the Han Dynasty was in chaos, the rear repented and liberated all the party members, but there was no way to save them. In the later years of the Tang Dynasty, cliques gradually emerged. During the reign of Emperor Zhaozong, all the famous people in the dynasty were killed, and some were thrown into the Yellow River, saying: "This generation's clear stream can be thrown into the turbid stream." Then the Tang Dynasty died.
The master of the past life, who can make people with different intentions not to be friends, is no better than Zhou; who can forbid good people to be friends, no more than Han Xiandi; who can kill friends of the Qing Dynasty, no more than the Emperor Zhaozong of the Tang Dynasty. However, they all destroyed their country in chaos. It is more appropriate to give without doubting, like Shun's twenty-two ministers. Shun did not doubt and used them all. However, later generations did not accuse Shun of being deceived by the twenty-two men, but called him a wise saint. To be able to distinguish between a gentleman and a villain. During the reign of Zhou Wu, three thousand ministers of his country were recruited into one party. Since ancient times, I have had many and great friends, none more so than Zhou. However, there are many good people who use this to prosper the Zhou Dynasty.
Sigh! A ruler can learn from the signs of prosperity and decline in order to control chaos!
3. Bao Jing is devoted to friendship
Bao Jing is devoted to friendship and is good with Wu Donghu. When Wu died, his family was even more harmonious. When I heard that the daughter of Wu was going to be a good match, but she was too poor to dress up, I gave her her daughter's dowry as a gift, and I married her a year later. It is called the current theory. 3. Classical Chinese essays about friends
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Classical Chinese essays about friends Part 1: Classical Chinese essays about friends 1. Working together to achieve economic success , always the same. ——Ouyang Xiu 2. The most important thing for people to know each other is to know each other. The most important thing for people to know each other is to understand each other. ——Mencius 3. One is noble and the other is humble. ——King Luo Bin 4. Friendship between common people and clothing should not be forgotten. ——Li Yanshou 5. The friendship between gentlemen is as light as water, while the friendship between villains is as sweet as sweet wine. A gentleman is indifferent to intimacy, but a villain is willing to give up. ——Zhuangzi 6. When Zhong Ziqi died, Boya would no longer play the harp for the rest of his life.
——"Book of Han" 7. Have fun today, don't forget each other after farewell. ——Cao Zhi 8. The water in Peach Blossom Pond is a thousand feet deep, not as deep as Wang Lun’s love for me. ——9. The friendship between forces is difficult to endure. ——Lu Ji 10. Happy new acquaintance. ——Qu Yuan 11. The joy of life lies in knowing each other. ——12. We know each other no matter how far we are, but we are still neighbors thousands of miles away. ——Zhang Jiuling 13. Young people enjoy getting to know each other, but in old age they miss their old friends. ——Han Yu 14. One death leads to a lifetime of friendship. One is poor and the other is rich, which is a state of acquaintance. One is noble and the other is humble, friendship is about seeing each other. ——"Historical Records" 15. It is better to dissolve enemies than to make enemies. Let each of us look back. ——Feng Menglong 16. We are brothers after landing, so why should we be close by flesh and blood? ——Tao Qian 17. Friends are those who unite with each other through righteousness. ——Zhu Xi 18. Gentlemen keep in touch with each other without making any bad remarks. ——"Warring States Policy" 19. The most valuable thing in life is to know oneself, and to meet flesh and blood relatives from all over the world. ——"Yanmen Collection" 20. Good friends are rare in the world. ——22. A gentleman is as light as water, and love becomes truer with time. Small people are like honey, and they are like enemies in a blink of an eye. ——"Xunzhizhai Collection" 23. Two people are of the same mind, and their sharpness can break through metal. --"easy. "Xici" 25. Knowing each other is precious in life, so why use gold and money? ——Li Bai 26. A gentleman and a gentleman are friends of the same way, and a villain and a villain are friends of the same interests. ——Ouyang Xiu 27. Even if we don’t meet each other, we will remember each other again. ——28. We are both fallen people at the end of the world. How can we meet each other before? ——Bai Juyi 29. Friendship becomes closer with age. ——30. When we meet, we smile; when we see each other, we cry. ——31. It is of no use to know each other even in times of crisis. ——Li Bai 3 4. Classical Chinese essays on making friends
1. Boya is good at playing the harp in the high mountains and flowing water, and Zhong Ziqi is good at listening. Boya is good at playing the harp, and his ambition is high in the mountains. Zhong Ziqi said: "That's good, E'e." It looks like Mount Tai." Aiming at the flowing water, Zhong Ziqi said: "How good it is, it looks like a river." What Boya thought about, Zhong Ziqi will definitely get it. When Ziqi died, Boya said that if there is no more music in the world, it will be broken. If you play the string, you will never play the drum again. Translation: Boya is good at playing the qin, and Zhong Ziqi is good at listening.
Boya played the harp and his ambition was in the mountains. Zhong Ziqi said: "Wonderful! It is as tall as Mount Tai!" Boya's ambition was in the flowing water. Zhong Ziqi said: "Wonderful! It is as majestic as Mount Tai!" River!" After Zhong Ziqi's death, Boya dropped his qin and stopped playing the qin throughout his life, thinking that there was no one in the world worthy of playing the qin for him. This is true not only for playing the piano, but also for sages. Even if there are virtuous people, no one will treat them well. Why should a virtuous person be loyal to others? The horse does not become a thousand-mile horse by itself, but waits until Bole appears.
2. Bao Jingji is devoted to friendship and is good to Wu Donghu. When Wu died, his family was even more harmonious.
When I was getting married, I heard that the Wu girl was going to be a good match, but she was too poor to dress up, so I gave her her daughter's dowry as a gift, and she married a year later. It is called the current theory.
Translation Bao Jingji is very loyal to his friends and is a good friend with Wu Donghu. After Wu Donghu's death, Bao Jingji took very good care of the Wu family.
Later, when Bao Jing was about to get his daughter married, he heard that Wu Donghu’s daughter was about to get married, but because his family was poor and could not prepare his own dowry, he gave his daughter’s dowry to Her own daughter got married a year late. People at that time praised him for this. 5. Ancient essays about friendship. It is best to have explanations. (Articles, not sentences) Don’t waste a long article
When Boya Guqin meets his close friend Boya Guqin, Zhong Ziqi is a good listener. The tooth drum and the harp are aspiring to high mountains. Zhong Ziqi said: "How good it is! It is as towering as Mount Tai!" Aiming is on flowing water. Zhong Ziqi said: "How good it is! It is as vast as a river!" What Boya thinks about, Zhong Ziqi will definitely get it. .After Zhong Ziqi died, Boya broke the qin and lost all its strings. He never played the qin again, thinking that he had no time to return to the qin player. This is not an explanation. The article is very simple and you should be able to understand it. One night Boya took a boat trip Facing the clear breeze and bright moon, he had a lot of thoughts, so he played the piano again. The sound of the piano was melodious and gradually became better. Suddenly he heard someone on the shore shouting. Boya heard the sound and walked out of the boat. He saw a woodcutter standing on the shore. Knowing that this person was a close friend, he immediately asked the woodcutter to come on board and play for him with great interest. Boya played a tune praising the mountains, and the woodcutter said: "It's so good! It's majestic and solemn, like Mount Tai towering into the clouds!" When he played to express the surging waves, the woodcutter said again: "It's so good! It's broad and vast, as if you can see rolling water and the boundless sea!" Boya was very excited and said excitedly: "My friend! You are really a good friend!" My bosom friend." This woodcutter was Zhong Ziqi. From then on, the two became very good friends. They agreed to meet here at this very moment next year. The next year, Bo Ya went to the meeting as scheduled, but unexpectedly After waiting for a long time, Ziqi didn't arrive. So Boya followed the way Zhong Ziqi went home last time to look for him. On the way, he met an old man and asked about Ziqi's home. After asking about Ziqi's home, he found out that it was Zhong Ziqi's home. The old man was Ziqi's father. The old man told Boya that Ziqi had to cut firewood and study. In addition, his family was poor and he became ill from overwork. He had died half a month ago. When Ziqi died, he was worried that Boya would be here. Li waited for a long time and told the old man to inform Boya on this day. After hearing the news, he was heartbroken. He followed the old man to Ziqi's grave and played a lute song to mourn his close friend. After the song, at Ziqi's grave He broke his qin in front of his grave and swore he would never play it again. Since then, there have been stories about meeting a close friend in the mountains and flowing water, and Bo Ya broke his qin to thank his close friend. Later, people praised this event and built a pavilion here to commemorate it, called Qintai, where the Qin now stands. Taitung faces Guishan Mountain and west faces Moon Lake, making it a famous historical and scenic spot in Wuhan. The following is, is this friendly? Or is my question too sloppy? The friendship here is - iron, brother... not life, someone becomes friends with elders, someone becomes friends with someone.
The poster’s question is wrong. What you are asking about is not friendship, but brotherly loyalty. No matter it is right or wrong, just copy the bricks and do it, the style of the young and Dangerous. What you want is ancient prose, the ancients do not Pay attention to that. The ancients paid attention to the importance of knowing when making friends. The friendship between gentlemen is as light as water. The answers on the first floor and mine are both good examples of friendship, which have been passed down through the ages. 6. Ancient texts about friendship
High Mountains and Flowing Waters
In the pre-Qin era, there was a luthier named Yu named Boya. Although his qin skills were good, he had no one who could understand his language. One day while playing the piano in the barren mountains and wilderness, the woodcutter Zhong Ziqi actually expressed his thoughts, "The towering ambitions are in the mountains" and "the oceans are in the flowing water", so he was introduced as a close friend by Boya. But Ziqi died young, and Boya was in great pain, so he broke the strings...
At this point in the story, another version appeared. Why did Boya break the strings? What happened after you broke the string? It has been a long time, and what most people know is that Boya "abstained from sex for the rest of his life" in memory of his friend Zhong Ziqi. But in my story, it goes like this: Upon hearing the news of Ziqi's death, Boya burst into tears. Others were puzzled and said, "The reason why I became friends with him was because I wanted to take this opportunity to let him give me a few gifts for free." Carrying firewood, who knows, someone else may be dead before the firewood is delivered! (Note: In ancient times, agriculture was emphasized and business was suppressed, and there were no musicians.
Peach Blossom Pond
There are two friends, one of whom is a poet and a heavy drinker. The two have a similar relationship. Well, it belongs to the type of "deep feelings and a dull mouth". The night before the separation, the friend treated the poet to a nice drink and gave him a lot of money. The poet fell asleep happily. The next day, he boarded a boat for a long trip and heard singing on the shore again. Wandering around, I felt deeply in my heart, so I wrote an eternally famous poem: "My wife was about to go on a boat, and suddenly I heard the sound of singing on the shore. The water of Peach Blossom Pond is a thousand feet deep, and it is not as deep as my mother's love."
In addition to posting couplets during the Spring Festival, portraits of two people are usually posted on both sides of the gate, that is, the two legendary "door gods". One of them is the legendary "horse riding on both sides of the Yellow River, beating Shandong." Qin Qiong and Qin Shubao, also known as the "Second Brother of Qin" in the world, were also the founding heroes of the Tang Dynasty in real history. Naturally, this story is also related to " It is related to "Second Brother Qin".
It is said that "Second Brother Qin" dyed his face and painted his beard to pretend to be a thief in order to go to Dengzhou to save his friends. When passing by Liangli Village, there were three forked roads, one going to Licheng, One road goes to Dengzhou and the other goes home. The "second brother" couldn't help but think of his old mother, wife and children. It is really "hard to have both filial piety and justice". After hesitating for a moment, he finally went to Dengzhou for his friend's death as if he were returning home.
7. Stories, famous quotes, ancient texts, and poems about friendship. More needed urgently
"Farewell at the Jingmen Gate" Li Bai of the Tang Dynasty crossed far outside the Jingmen Gate to travel from the Kingdom of Chu. The mountains followed the plains, and the rivers flowed into the wilderness. . Flying mirror under the moon, the clouds are forming sea towers. I still feel sorry for the water of my hometown, and I see off my boat thousands of miles away. "Send Off a Friend" by Li Bai of the Tang Dynasty. Friendships between old friends at sunset. Wave your hands away, and the horses sing. Quotes about friendship. Friendship is the greatest joy in life. -- (English) Hume Friendship -- is the melody of pure life that makes youth colorful, and is extremely beautiful. Hymn of youth. --(Japanese) Daisaku Ikeda Friendship is a feeling of mutual attraction, so it is something that can be encountered but not sought. --Roland Without mutual respect, friendship is impossible. --(Soviet) Ma The life of the Kalenko people is inseparable from friendship, but it is not easy to obtain true friendship. It requires sowing with loyalty, watering with enthusiasm, and cultivating with principles. --(Su) Ostrovsky When friendship no longer grows, it will immediately begin to decline - a person's friendship will always retreat if it does not advance, and there is no static and balanced state between the two. - (U.S.) If Henry and James cannot forgive each other's petty Shortcomings cannot make friendship last forever. --(France) La Bruyère The strongest friendship is forged in times of adversity, just as pig iron can only be tempered into a pot in the fire. --(UK) Ke Loyal friendship is needed in times of happiness, especially in times of adversity. --(Ancient Rome) Seneca If friendship can adjust people's emotions, then another function of friendship is to enhance people's wisdom. . --(UK) Bacon Life is inseparable from friendship, but it is not easy to get true friendship; friendship always requires loyalty to sow seeds, enthusiasm to water, principles to cultivate, and understanding to care. --(Germany) ) Marx Sincere friendship is like health. You cannot appreciate its preciousness until it is lost. --(UK) Bacon In friendship, all thoughts, all wishes, and all hopes occur in silent joy without the need for words. And *** enjoyed it. --(Le) Gibran neither asked nor allowed others to do despicable things, as a principle of friendship. --(Ancient Rome) Cicero's gentle attitude towards a heart that was A person's contemptuous heart is indeed a great comfort. --(France) Romain and Roland bribe their friends with gifts, and they may also be bribed by others. --(English) Shakespeare have been together for a long time, sharing the joys and sorrows*** Only through adversity can we have an irresistible friend. --(Ancient Rome) Cicero The best effort in friendship is not to show our flaws to a friend, but to make him see his own flaws. --(France) Larochev Hypocritical friendship is like your shadow; when you are in the sun, it will follow you closely, but once you go to the dark place, it will immediately leave you. - (English) Bacon. 8. Classical Chinese Essays on Friendship
When scholars fight for friends, they will not be separated from their names. ——"The Book of Filial Piety·Remonstrance and Admonishment"
Zhengyou: criticizing friend, a friend who gives outspoken advice
Name: good reputation
A person who has outspoken advice around him friends, you will always enjoy a good reputation.
Score points for making friends and sharpen rules. ——The Thousand-Character Essay by Zhou Xingsi of Liang Dynasty in the Southern Dynasty
To vote: to be congenial
To grind: to learn from each other
To admonish: to advise and admonish each other< /p>
Make like-minded friends, learn from each other, and advise each other.
Three friends will benefit you, and three friends will harm you. It is beneficial to be friends with Tao, friends and understanding, and friends who are knowledgeable. If you are friendly and gentle, you will be harmed if you are friendly and sycophantic - "The Analects of Confucius·Ji"
Forgiveness: honesty
Benevolence: flattery and flattery
Kind and gentle: flattery in person
Flattery: good at sweet words
There are three kinds of friends who are helpful and three kinds of friends who are harmful. It pays to make friends with upright, honest, and well-informed people. It is harmful to make friends with people who flatter you, flatter you in person, slander you behind your back, and talk sweet words.