1. Pre-Qin Xunzi's "Xunzi Ai Gong": Water can carry a boat, but it can also overturn it.
2. Pay attention to the children's spare time (such as: after school and before going to school, Sundays and holidays), these times must not be out of control; strictly control pocket money, and it is best to strictly prohibit enjoyment or comparison expenditures; It is absolutely forbidden for children with poor self-control to form groups frequently. I remember it was probably Hu Sheng who said: "The capacity of a person's brain is limited. If you think more about this aspect, you will think less about that aspect. This is very reasonable.
3. It was the best of times, it was the worst of times; it was the age of wisdom, it was the age of foolishness; it was a season of light, it was a season of darkness; it was the spring of hope, This is the winter of despair; people have everything in front of them, and people have nothing in front of them; people are on the road to heaven, and people are heading to the gate of hell. —— Dickens
4. Life can be without poetry, but it cannot be without poetry. Poetry; there may be no road in progress, but there must be steps forward; there may be no experience in work, but there must be no learning; there may be no flashes in life, but there must be no stains.
5. Xunzi of the Pre-Qin Dynasty. "Encouragement to Learning": Earthworms have no claws and strong muscles and bones. They eat earth and drink from the underworld.
6. Absolutely pay attention to developing good living habits and study habits to strengthen your life. We must pay attention to the management of details to prevent mistakes. Our class has clear regulations: boys are not allowed to have long hair, and girls are not allowed to wear jewelry; they are not allowed to wear slippers to class, do not dye their hair, and are not allowed to wear shorts and vests to school. It is even stipulated that the buttons must be buttoned to at least the second button from the top. Until now. Isn't there a book called "Details Determine Success" that is very popular? If you have time, you can buy it and read it. A few days ago, I came to class and found a boy whose neck and hands were all black. Damn it, I asked him to wash it. When he came back, it was basically the same. It turned out that it was all black and cold water couldn't solve the problem at all. I was a little angry and gave the health committee member a hard order: Poor personal hygiene should happen again in the class! Students, please deal with the health committee! This method seems to be effective, and it is much better now. Personal hygiene must not be taken lightly. The ancients said: "How can you sweep the world if you don't clean one house?" , and said: "The big things in the world must be done in the details. This is very reasonable. Here I want to say to some of our parents that the children's personal hygiene is not good. In fact, the parents should bear the main responsibility. The children have poor self-control. First, You should always remind him that no matter how busy you are, you should tidy him up. The key is to keep his clothes clean. Dressing up does not necessarily have to cost a lot, but the key is to be neat. You can take a look at students with poor personal hygiene. , the prestige in the class is generally not high. You know, in a group, if the prestige is lost, it will be quite uncomfortable. Children may not understand it, but we as parents must know it.
7. It’s not that you are worse than others, it’s just that you don’t pay enough.
8. Failure is also what I need. It is as valuable to me as success.
9. Although we cannot. Change your life, but you can change your outlook on life. Although we can’t change the environment, we can change our state of mind.
10. “When you see a rose, you say it’s beautiful, and when you see a snake, you say it’s disgusting. You don’t know that in this world, roses and snakes are close friends. At night, they transform into each other. The snake's cheeks are bright red and its rose scales sparkle. When you see a rabbit, you say it's cute; when you see a lion, you say it's scary. You don't know how they bleed and love each other on a stormy night.
”——Yukio Mishima