First, spiritual adaptation is more important than economic adaptation. In fact, as we all know, the word "suitable" refers not only to the economic suitability of both sides, but also to the ideological suitability of both sides. As we all know, two people will have a long running-in time before they come together. Everyone must be interested in each other's words and can talk well before they choose to be together. If you can't even do this step, those two people are not from the same spiritual world at all, and they can't talk about each other at all, let alone get married. Therefore, spiritual suitability is more important than economic suitability.
Second, it is very important to match the spirit and knowledge, and the exchange of spirit will make people appreciate each other better. Nowadays, the right collocation refers to the right collocation of spirit and knowledge, which is related to one's education and world outlook. If a learned person is with someone who can't even read, their world and life are really bad, and it's hard to imagine what they can talk about. Two people's knowledge and spirit are not in the same dimension at all. It can be said that there is nothing to talk about in life. Over time, it will cause fatigue on both sides, so it will definitely be separated.
Third, this is a wise saying summed up by ancient people, and we are increasingly discovering how important these four words are to marriage. Nowadays, people are becoming more and more realistic, paying more and more attention to these four words, and admiring the ancient people's true wisdom. The four words they summed up are applied to everyone. We always thought that these four words were feudal and old-fashioned, but now we find that these four words are the true meaning of life. It is important that both sides are suitable. Find the right person to marry.
To sum up, we can find that it is really important to suit each other, which is also a wise saying summed up by the ancients and an eternal truth. What do you think about this? You can talk about it in the comments section and discuss it together.