Your question involves teenagers' ideological and moral, behavioral language, academic performance and other educational issues that parents and teachers are very concerned about and eager to solve. The correct education guidance of parents and teachers plays a decisive role in the process of children's healthy growth education. Here, I sincerely recommend to you the documentary "Sage Education Change Destiny" organized and planned by Teacher Chen Dahui. This is a very favorable online research place for moral education and family education, which can help children improve their healthy growth and learning progress, understand why disasters and accidents happen, and seek truth from facts and avoid evil. It can prescribe the right medicine for children's various problems and is a good treatment! There must be the answer you need, and it is also a powerful teaching material for our parents and elders to learn. It is indeed a rare classic tutor program! There are many wonderful cases in this program to discuss various ways to solve children's education. It is really the best one-on-one tutor for us and our children, and it is also a very good family education network resource, and it is completely free, which is of great help to the improvement of children's academic performance. In life, children and even adults are prone to various problems, such as lack of perseverance, greed, rebellion and disobedience, internet addiction, puppy love, strong dependence and inattention. These problems can not be fundamentally corrected by some simple methods or measures to become a filial and obedient child, but we need to carry out comprehensive and systematic family education to treat both the symptoms and the root causes. In this film, many experts, teachers and parents speak in person and report to the public with their unique experiences, revealing that parents' educational concepts will directly affect their children's family education. Therefore, it is recommended that parents and children watch together. The family education they received from childhood will affect their children's life, and they will certainly get unexpected gains from it!
There is a classic epigram in the film: people can teach well! Good people are taught, and so are bad people! This shows the importance of family education!
However, at present, we are facing various realities: serious lack of social integrity! Various media exaggerate and mislead, and the environment where children grow up is constantly being destroyed and polluted. It is difficult to do a good job in family education! Parents are getting worse. To tell the truth, many parents don't know how to be parents, so they bring their children into this world and put a lot of educational responsibilities on schools and society. However, parents are children's first teachers, and many growth experiences require parents to set an example. They shirk their responsibilities, how can they educate their children well? Really sad!
As children, we often can't understand our parents' thoughts and real experiences, just for our own convenience and enjoyment. To tell the truth, it's a bit of a violation! When we are parents, we can truly understand this feeling, but it is often too late to regret it, alas. ...
Many so-called generation gaps in our lives are caused by the disjointed and inconsistent education received from generation to generation. Nowadays, too many people are eager for quick success and instant benefit, only paying attention to their own enjoyment and ignoring the feelings of others.
You know, all education should start with roots, just like a tree needs roots to grow trunk, branches and leaves, and flourish. If we abandon the fundamental virtue education, everything else will be just castles in the air. I would like to recommend friends who are predestined friends here. No matter whether you have seen it or not, please take time out to watch the excellent program of China Traditional Culture Education Forum: "Sage Education Change Destiny" (which can be searched and played on Baidu video or Youku Tudou). I hope everyone who has seen it can get real and meaningful benefits from it and continue to benefit others. Let's work together to create a harmonious social environment.
I hope my answer is helpful and enlightening to you.
Sincerely bless you!