Sammi Cheng had no choice but to take a step back and redeem each other.
So in love and marriage, if you are betrayed by the other party, will you choose to forgive?
Wang Jian and Xiaojie met at a blind date introduced by a friend. They fell in love at first sight and decided to get married at once.
Their love period faded, and their married love was shattered in front of daily necessities.
Wang Jian, an alcoholic husband who is addicted to games, is even worse, playing games in the dark, getting as drunk as a fiddler, and even finding various reasons to spend the night in Internet cafes. The communication between the two people is getting less and less, and even they can't meet twice a week.
Under the double pressure of helplessness and loneliness, Xiaojie went astray to find a one-night stand.
It was supposed to be unknown, but she was pregnant. Driven by remorse and conscience, Xiaojie confessed the truth to Wang Jian.
After a painful inner struggle, Wang Jian chose to give up.
Xiao Jie aborted the child, and the two returned to their previous lives as if nothing had happened.
Out of regret, Xiaojie no longer cares about Wang Jian playing games, or maybe she doesn't dare to care.
She silently undertook all the housework at home and tried to make up for her mistakes.
Originally, the quarrel between two people was at the head of the bed and the end of the bed, but after this incident, the disparity between the two people can no longer be ignored.
Wang Jian cannot forget his wife's betrayal. He didn't know whether to punish Jiang Weiwen or himself. He began to play games and drink in the dark without restraint. Both of them fell into the black hole of life and could not save themselves.
Salvation and torture are only between your thoughts.
To what extent can you bear the mistakes made by the other half? How cruel is the means of self-punishment?
Here is another story: Ms. Wang and her husband have been married for five years and have a smart and lovely child. Since having children, Ms. Wang quit her job and became a full-time housewife, taking charge of the daily life of her husband and children.
I don't know when it started, but my husband was critical of Ms. Wang's life and even began to stay up late to work overtime. It was not until Ms. Wang discovered her husband's chat record that she knew she had been betrayed.
After experiencing inner struggle and realistic persecution, Ms. Wang chose to forgive silently, and her husband realized his mistake and decided to spend the rest of her life atoning for her wife and children.
In real life, few heroines in the story can forgive silently, and more often they want to continue but can't forget, just like the sword mentioned at the beginning.
In the face of betrayal, first of all, you should have a steelyard in your heart: is it worth forgiving to betray your other half?
Do you have the heart to forgive ta?
If ta was not completely spurned by social morality or the public, if all this did not defeat the last line of defense in your heart, would you choose to forgive?
The easiest to end! Make a clean break. Since then, the two have nothing to do with each other. You go your way, I'll cross my wooden bridge.
Let ta pay a painful price for what she has done and spend the rest of her life in repentance. From then on, old age and death will never come together!
Forgiveness is harder. Not only to save each other, but also to save yourself. First of all, you have to face this matter thoroughly. Since you have chosen to forgive, you must make up your mind never to mention the past and concentrate on living your life!
Ending with forgiveness is a black and white choice. It takes determination to end, and courage to forgive.
I'm afraid you are not the second. If you insist on the second, you can only torture each other!
How many people have to go through the most difficult running-in period after choosing to forgive? Maybe when they see TA, they will think of things that made you sick in the past and keep telling themselves in their hearts:
This page has been turned over. Just this once, I believe that ta will realize his despicable behavior from the heart and love me more with guilt and atonement!
Forgiveness at this time is nothing more than hurting each other, just unwilling to let go and hold on tight.
In fact, true forgiveness requires wisdom, which can not only withstand the sudden storm, but also maintain a beautiful marriage.
Love is not atonement, let alone forgiveness.
A simple sentence: "I forgive your innocence." On the surface, this sentence means that I have given you forgiveness, but the word "forgiveness" already shows that you are guilty.
If loving a person's life is a process of forgiveness and forgiveness, then you become the natural creditor of your lover.
Lovers don't pay their debts, let alone forgive them.
When a person says two words, if anything goes wrong on either side, the other side will be responsible and hard to blame.
If the simple life is divided into sin and innocence, life will probably not be so happy, because some are black and white and the boundaries are too dead.
A person is much more tolerant and generous. In the end, he will always produce, and there will always be a day when he can't restrain himself.
The more painful it is to run today, the more painful it is. Sooner or later, these pains will become the price of future happiness. But if you can't do it today, everything you have done before will be in vain.
Therefore, it is your right to choose what kind of life you live.
There is a famous saying in 755-79000 that Gandalf told Baggins 3354.
True courage lies not in whether you dare to kill people on the battlefield, but in whether you dare to choose to forgive bravely.
No one can predict the future happiness index. For your happiness, I hope you can make a clear choice and don't regret it!