I want to ask. The love desires of many men and women in Buddhism should be abandoned. What is the reason? What does the Buddhist scripture say? What does it say in this regard?
You will understand this truth when you figure out what Buddha is. Buddha is conscious, a conscious person who is aware of others and is fully aware. The highest realm pursued by Buddha is liberation. Buddhist scripture is the content of Buddha Sakyamuni's lecture to his disciples in India more than 2500 years ago, which was compiled by disciples' records. It's similar to The Analects. As far as I know, Buddhism and Buddhism are different. Buddhism says that the four universes are empty and all beings are equal. Don't advocate love, there is a saying that wives are separated. At that time, monks were troublesome, and all kinds of monks had them, which was difficult to manage. Finally, I thought of a way to set up a precept. Abstinence is to stop evil. Everyone has greed and ignorance, which is the internal cause of evil human nature. It must be to stop worrying, stop delusions, and calm down. Only in this way can we be rational, have a correct understanding and view, and prove wisdom. This is a step-by-step approach. In fact, it can also be reversed. If you have wisdom first, you will naturally have determination and precepts. This is what those who use sharp tools do. At that time, Huineng, the sixth ancestor, was born because of the sentence "You should have nowhere to live", and was enlightened from the heart, becoming the fifth ancestor and the sixth descendant of Zen. The Buddha believes that "all phases are illusory" and everything is a false combination of cause and effect, cause and effect and changeable conditions. So educate all beings not to take pictures. And those unconscious and ignorant beings will make a distinction between all the illusions. If they have hobbies, they will have persistence, so they will have pain. The origin of love is human sexual desire, which is formed by delusion alone. This is an obstacle for a practitioner, so Buddhism abandons love. Then we have to ask why practice is? Is to become a Buddha. The Buddhist scriptures also say: "Nirvana is like a dream yesterday." Even "Buddha" and "Nirvana" are illusory. Infinite life, bliss, heaven and hell are illusory. Buddhism requires people to do good and stop evil. Because good and evil are rewarded, and cause and effect are not empty. So what is a Buddha? Buddha is in your heart. What is liberation? Relief is a feeling in your heart. Buddha is used to make hearts. Therefore, conscious people don't know cause and effect. They came when they came, and left when they left. Hold nothing, live without shelter, and be satisfied with nothing. To become a Buddha is to cultivate a normal mind. Speaking of which, look back at love, do you understand?