Mahjong is the "national quintessence" of China, and its charm is really great. It is said that Mr. Lao She was so addicted to mahjong that he fell into coma. Liang Qichao, a master of traditional Chinese culture, commented on mahjong: "You can forget to play mahjong as long as you study. You can forget to study when you play mahjong. "If celebrities are like this, how can ordinary people be spared? So it has become unprecedentedly popular among dignitaries and poor people, and I am one of them.
I can play mahjong, but I am not obsessed with it. Over the past few decades, what I feel most deeply is that the small mahjong table is the big stage of life. It is difficult for you to see a person's character at ordinary times, but once you get on the mahjong table, most of your true colors will be revealed. So if you want to get to know someone, you can ask them to play mahjong.
When an expert plays mahjong, the real person does not show his face. It is a kind of communication and entertainment, and the knowledge involved is unfathomable. Let’s not ignore it for the time being. I will only talk about the appearances of all living beings when ordinary people play mahjong.
Drinking has the virtue of drinking, and playing cards has the style of playing cards. A person with bad playing skills is not popular wherever he goes.
If the playing style is not good, the first choice is to default on money if you owe money. Some people can win but cannot afford to lose.
The second is tile throwing. Some people lose their temper after just a few games of discordant tiles. They throw mahjong so hard that it often falls to the ground with a whoosh.
There is also a kind of person who draws the cards in advance before the last player has played them. This kind of person is playing tricks on others and should not be closely friends with them.
Some people are superstitious when playing cards. They wash their hands after a few bad cards and ask for a change of direction, or they may want to pay a debt to a good poker player, which is called "squeezing the fire", causing trouble for others.
Some people like to complain about others at the card table: "If you don't play this card and he touches it, I will touch something else." Why should others play cards according to your needs?
Some people like to nag, reason, and are used to regretting when playing cards. The game started, and I was still interpreting the previous game "If nothing happened, you would touch this one, I would touch that one...". Of course, the conclusions were all on their own, which was annoying.
When playing cards, people have various expressions and playing styles.
Some people laugh and joke, do not care about winning or losing, and like to liven up the atmosphere. Such people are welcome everywhere. There is another kind of person who is more popular, that is, a "loser machine" (a machine that loses money). People who can be a "loser machine" are "general losers" who are willing to pay and have some qualifications. This kind of person is relatively stubborn and old-fashioned, plays cards according to rules, and does not know changes.
Some people are more sophisticated, talk and laugh informally, are silent throughout the whole process, and play cards unhurriedly, which makes people feel a sense of awe that "they don't know the true face of this gentleman."
There is a kind of person who is the opposite, with all the joy, anger, sorrow and joy on his face. After winning the card, I laughed happily and was very excited. If the luck of the card went downhill, there would be images and sounds at first, then images but no sounds, and finally there would be no images, no sounds, and my face would be expressionless.
Some people are used to playing cards first, then out, and Mahjong is arranged in order. Such people are more cautious, follow the rules, and are afraid of failure.
Some people play cards first and touch them later. They play cards quickly and without thinking. Such people are more upright, responsible and confident.
Some people do not collect the cards in order and watch the game with their eyes. Such people have excellent memories and do things in an eclectic way.
Some people are hesitant to play cards and often pull several cards in and out. Such people are sloppy, indecisive and have no independent opinion.
Some people strive to close the cards regardless of whether they get good or bad cards, even if they know they are firing. Such people care about everything and often lose more times.
Some people catch bad cards, remain calm, follow the trend with bad cards, and wait for the opportunity to make a big hand. Such people are relatively calm and strategic.
Some people don’t care whether they are big or small, they will get along with each other if they have the chance, and they will be the food in the basket. This kind of people are more stable, afraid of losing, and are content with the status quo; some people will get along with each other as long as they have the opportunity. Take the big one. This kind of person likes challenges, easily seizes opportunities and changes the future.
A person’s character can also be seen from the size of the card game.
Some people like to play big cards. Some people do it because it’s good for face. If others can afford it, I can also afford it. Some people just do it for excitement and play games beyond their psychological endurance. . Either you can't play this kind of card for a long time, or you are in debt everywhere, and you are looked down upon by others.
Rational people can play as many cards as they can withstand their psychological endurance. Such people often have long-lasting luck with cards, can win or lose, do not affect their mood, and achieve real entertainment.
In fact, no matter what kind of personality or poker style, people are competing with luck and their own lives.
I have discovered an interesting phenomenon, "playing cards with no luck", which means that people who often hang out at the card table and think they are good at playing cards lose to people who don't play cards often.
I'm that guy who doesn't play poker very often, but I always win. One time, my relatives were playing cards and asked me to join in. The size of the game was also reduced by a level. In the end, three people lost and I won alone. The one who lost the most was a regular at the poker table and was extremely unconvinced. I complained from beginning to end and questioned whether I really didn’t play poker. In fact, I won because of my mentality.
This type of people usually think that their card skills are good, but most of these people lose more than they win. They have a good excuse: "Playing cards is about three-thirds of skill and seven-tenths of luck." They The difference is due to luck, and he never admits his greed and technical weakness.
No one likes to lose when playing cards. People often like to link the winning or losing at the table with their own lives and compete with others. Losing money makes you feel unconvinced, especially losing to someone who thinks you are not as smart as yourself. It is simply a shame. The more you lose, the more you have to fight. The win will come in the next hand. You have to win once to prove yourself.
People always want to find themselves, defeat themselves, and prove themselves on the mahjong table. If you can clearly understand the situation, weigh the pros and cons, and get some luck on the mahjong table, you will be like a dragon swimming in the mahjong table. Entering the water and feeling comfortable, it seems that this is what life is like.
People are so obsessed with mahjong because mahjong can anesthetize the nerves and temporarily forget the boredom and troubles in life. There is no ever-victorious general at the mahjong table. No one has ever won glory in life at the mahjong table. Small gambling brings pleasure, but big gambling harms the body. It is not uncommon for people to lose their fortune and separate their wives and children due to playing mahjong.
I often think that life is like a card game. It would be great if I could overthrow it and start over. I could learn lessons and make new choices. Unfortunately, a card game is a card game, and life is life. The card game can be reshuffled, but life cannot be repeated.
Life is also a gamble. Life, marriage, and work are all choices. If you give it up, you will get it. If you apply the spirit of refusing to admit defeat on the mahjong table to your life, you will never give up and firmly believe that no matter how bad you are, you will win. There is also a chance to turn around in life, and that kind of life is a life with hope.