The question you asked is related to the family education of teenagers, which parents and teachers are very concerned about and eager to solve. Here, I sincerely recommend that you watch the documentary series of "Sage Education Changing Destiny", a large-scale public welfare forum for Chinese excellent traditional culture education, so that children can feel the true meaning of life in a happy and grateful atmosphere, help them improve their healthy growth and learning progress, understand why disasters and accidents happen, and seek truth from facts to avoid disasters! There must be the answer you need. It is really a rare classic family education program! There are many wonderful cases in this program to discuss various ways to solve children's education. It is really the best one-on-one tutor for us and our children, and it is also a very good family education network resource, and it is completely free, which is of great help to the improvement of children's academic performance. In life, children and even adults are prone to various problems, such as lack of perseverance, greed, rebellion and disobedience, internet addiction, strong dependence and inattention. These problems can not be fundamentally corrected by some simple methods or measures, and become a filial and obedient child. Instead, family education needs to be carried out comprehensively and systematically in order to cure the symptoms and cure the root causes. In this film, many experts, teachers and parents speak in person and report to the public with their unique experiences, enlightening parents that their educational ideas will directly affect their children's family education. Therefore, it is recommended that parents and children watch together. The family education they received from childhood will affect their children's life, and they will certainly get unexpected gains from it!
There is a classic epigram in the film: people can teach well! Good people are taught, and so are bad people! This shows the importance of family education!
However, at present, we are facing various realities: serious lack of social integrity! Various media exaggerate and mislead, and the environment where children grow up is constantly being destroyed and polluted. It is difficult to do a good job in family education! Parents are getting worse. To tell the truth, many parents don't know how to be parents, so they bring their children into this world and put a lot of educational responsibilities on schools and society. However, parents are children's first teachers, and many growth experiences require parents to set an example. They shirk their responsibilities, how can they educate their children well? Really sad!
As children, we often can't understand our parents' thoughts and real experiences, just for our own convenience and enjoyment. To tell the truth, it's a bit of a violation! When we are parents, we can truly understand this feeling, but it is often too late to regret it, alas. ...
Many so-called generation gaps in our lives are caused by the disjointed and inconsistent education received from generation to generation. Nowadays, too many people are eager for quick success and instant benefit, only paying attention to their own enjoyment and ignoring the feelings of others.
You know, all education should start with roots, just like a tree needs roots to grow trunk, branches and leaves, and flourish. If we abandon the fundamental virtue education, everything else will be just castles in the air. I would like to recommend friends who are destined for you. Whether you have seen it or not, please try your best to take time to watch the excellent program of China Traditional Culture Education Forum: "Sage Education Change Destiny" (which can be searched and played on Baidu video or Youku Tudou). I hope everyone who has seen it can get tangible benefits from it and continue to benefit others. Let's work together to create a harmonious social environment.
I hope my answer is helpful and enlightening to you.
Sincerely bless you!