1. Being a contented person, happiness is a feeling. Being dissatisfied will never be happy.

2. Don't be a slave to desire, because the human heart is weak and the snake swallows the elephant. Always be on guard against bad desires.

3. To be a person with moderate happiness, happiness and sorrow are accompanied, while extremes are opposite. It is a philosophical life to enjoy yourself to a certain extent.

4. Don't go to extremes. If you go to extremes, you will always fail miserably. You should actively seek the wisdom of life.

5. Don't keep up with the joneses, adjust your mentality and live a good life.

6. if you don't have evil thoughts, you will be uneasy if you have evil thoughts in your heart.

7. To be a self-reliant person, poverty is often associated with poverty, and poverty is often associated with short aspirations. Only when you are confident and self-reliant will a good day come.

8. learn to relax if you are not too tired.

9. don't complain, complaining is not good, optimism is the most important thing.

1. Be the master of life, don't change others, be your own master.

11. If you don't regret, what's done is done. Regret is useless. Deal with the remaining problems calmly.

12. Do what you should do and learn your skills in a down-to-earth manner according to your own wishes.

13. Regardless of other people's comments, there is no painting that is not evaluated by others, and no one is not discussed by others.

14. To be a full person, happiness comes from feeling good every day. If you live a full life, you won't think about it.

15. Be a person who appreciates yourself, learn to appreciate yourself, and give yourself a smile every day. Why worry about not being happy in life? 36 phrases about being wise in dealing with people

First, don't let others see your innocence. If you don't understand, run away; Don't judge others' looks, because they don't depend on you for food; Don't judge others' virtue, because you are not nobler than him; Don't judge other people's families, because it has nothing to do with you; Don't judge others' knowledge, because knowledge is the most important thing in the world.

second, it's urgent, speak slowly; Major events, clearly stated; Small things, said humorously; If you are not sure, say it cautiously; Don't talk nonsense about things that didn't happen; Don't talk nonsense about what you can't do.

Third, it is absolutely impossible for a tiger to pull a tooth out of its mouth. But if Tai Sui and the tiger kill you, will you still move? Will you pull it out?

fourth, people want face and trees want skin. People exist in the society, and they have to play all kinds of roles, especially in mutual communication, which needs a certain dignity to support. This is the weakness of human nature. Only by understanding this can we realize the necessity of respecting words.

5. Be patient with the villains and take a step back. It is really impossible to give them your own space. Adults need to be measured, and don't take worldly things to heart. Little people are so desperate that they will wait and get into trouble if they provoke little people, but the number of little people in the world can't be provoked.

six, life is not equal, that's right. There will be no pie in the sky, waiting for the rabbit to starve to death, but it is not enough to rely on it at all. Relatives, friends, classmates and fellow villagers are a kind of human resources. No one has three disasters and six difficulties. If they can rely on it, they will rely on it. If they can't rely on it, they will also rely on creating conditions.

7. It's difficult to be a man and do things. Facing all kinds of obstacles, we should improve ourselves. If things are forced, you should dare to say no; If it is a legitimate interest, it should be done; Sometimes you even have to be a bully, and when you have a thick skin, you have to have a hard scalp

8. Treat people who love you with respect. I love you for a reason. Don't ask why. You should pay double attention when you accept it, but don't cheat others' feelings, even if you are not interested in them, even if they are ugly. This is wealth that you can't buy with money.

9. Be calm when encountering contradictions, be strong when encountering difficulties, be fully aware of the situation, be cautious when dealing with problems, be patient when being satirized, be restrained when being wronged, be busy and meticulous in work, and be enthusiastic when dealing with people.

ten, a real hero, why short of breath, good beginning and good end, can be unbeaten. Endurance can preserve our health and accomplish things. Endurance is great wisdom, courage and great blessing. Forbearance is thick, forbearance is black, forbearance is mean, forbearance is strong, forbearance is unbearable in the world, and if you don't be a man of temperament, it will be impossible for ordinary people.

eleven, looks are not annoying, if you are not good-looking, let yourself be talented; If you have no talent, always smile.

12. If you are performing or giving a speech, if only one person is listening, you should continue to speak attentively, even if no one is cheering, because this is the road and cradle of your success. You should not watch the success of others, but want you to succeed.

thirteen, full of energy, upturned corners of the mouth. Hide pain, sorrow and disappointment behind a smile. When someone speaks ill of someone in front of you, you just smile

14th, interpersonal interaction, should focus on the future, forget old evils. Forgiving others is the best way to treat yourself. Angry for your enemy, it's yourself who burns. You should not be too narrow-minded in doing things. All rivers run into sea, relying on a tolerant heart.

XV. If we don't want to be isolated, we should learn how to get along with others. When the Woods are big, there are all kinds of birds. You are not required to like all people, but at the same time there are no best people in the world. Harmony is the most important thing, so we should leave steps for each other and give each other face.

XVI. Don't blame objectively when problems occur, but also look for reasons subjectively. Those who complain that others don't know themselves don't know others at first. Those who complain that organizational leaders don't believe in themselves, first of all, they don't believe in organizational leaders.

XVII. Be a person with personality and give yourself a little confidence. The road to success depends on yourself, and the bright future comes from self-reliance, not giving in to any authority, and finding your self-esteem with your own efforts.

eighteen, do things aboveboard, don't just please others, don't be emotional, talk to your face and don't whisper behind your back. A wise man is cautious in the face of difficulties, optimistic in the face of troubles and silent in the face of misunderstandings.

2. The wisdom of life has nothing to do with the environment, and embraces the diversity in this world. No one is decathlon in the years. The real happiness and happiness is to find that others still have many advantages.

3. There are many reasons for not loving, but there is only one expression of love: I just want to be with you.

4. Maybe one day, you find that life is particularly difficult, which may be that this harvest will be particularly great.

5. Do you know what an accident is? I never thought I would meet you, but I did. I never thought I would love you, but I did.

6. If one day we are lost in the crowd and lead a mediocre life, it is because we have not made efforts to live a full life.

7. In our time, people have a lot of emotions and little feelings. The mind becomes very complicated and the behavior becomes very single; The capacity of the brain is getting bigger and bigger, and the use area is getting smaller and smaller. What's more, all the cities in our world have become more and more similar, and all people's lifestyles have become more and more similar.

8. In many cases, it is not the surrounding environment, nor the words and deeds of others, but ourselves.

9. Being a man is like water. Whenever and wherever you are, you always change your form and keep looking for a way out. Don't refuse to join any sand, stones and obstacles, instead, wrap yourself up and move forward, strengthen your own strength and go forward bravely.

1. Be grateful in life. Gratitude is not necessarily gratitude for great kindness, but an attitude towards life and a kind human beauty. Be grateful, and there will be a lot less resentment and troubles in life. With a grateful heart, you will have a good attitude and find more beauty.

11. A person's talent is like water in a sponge. Without external pressure, it will never flow out. After flowing out, the sponge can absorb a new source.

12. Thinking is the hardest work, which may be the reason why few people are willing to think.

13. There are many roads to walk in life: there is one road that cannot be turned back, which is the road to give up; There is a road that can't be refused, which is the road to growth; There is a road that cannot be lost, which is the road of faith; There is a road that cannot be stagnant, which is the road to struggle; There is one road we can't forget, and that is the way home.

14. If you want something you never had, then you must do something you have never done.

15. Every relationship has to experience expectation and disappointment, strangeness and familiarity, freedom and bondage, hesitation and firmness, sweetness and heartbreak, crying and pain are not important. As long as we have smiled and missed afterwards, you still have feelings for this person, and then we can recall or continue to look for it. No love can be successful without repeated verification, so we don't have to be disappointed. If you are really an insecure person, the best thing you can do is to unconditionally support one person, some people and a group of people where you are most afraid. Supporting others is the safest thing in the world, and it will never fail.

second, if you respect yourself and take everything as your enemy, everything will take you as your enemy, which is self-destruction; You are humble and ashamed, and all things are friends, and all things will be friends with you. This is the same life. Everything is ruthless, because your heart is affectionate; Everything has feelings, because your heart is heartless and heartless. Life is an echo, what you send back, what you sow, what you reap, what you give, what you get. This is the law of the world.

Third, a quiet heart is the highest quality. It has no boundaries, and it is complete, pure and uncontaminated. It is concentration, awareness, love and the highest wisdom.

fourth, always be considerate, tolerant, grateful, content and cherish happiness.

5. We need a kind thought about life. Time is a kind of accumulation, not a burden. We should learn to observe life through smiles and understanding, instead of perfunctory life with tears and bitterness. A strong character can also be understood as a happy character.

6. Only when you are calm can you hear your own voice. Only when you are clear can you see the reality of everything. What is unwilling to let go is often not worth cherishing, and what is pursued hard is often not needed by life. The pace of life is often too hasty, so we should learn to stop and laugh at the wind and cloud, sit down and watch the flowers bloom, sink down and be as calm as the sea, and settle down and watch comfortably. When the mood is calm, everything naturally reflects, and the mind is extremely quiet, the moment is eternity.

7. Men feel that the best way to get back at women is to give money to other women. Women think that the best way to get back at men is to sleep with other men. Men are most proud not of how many women they have slept with, but of having a woman who is only willing to let him sleep alone; What a woman is most proud of is not how many men she has, but her men, who are only willing to spend money for her.

8. We longed for the waves of fate, only to find out in the end that the most beautiful scenery in life is actually inner calmness and calmness; We had expected the recognition of the outside world, and finally we realized that the world was our own and had nothing to do with others. We used to care about the return we paid, but in the end we realized that everything we got would eventually be lost, and we could only leave a floating name. To be true to yourself is to resolutely take the road you choose instead of the one less of a haul.

9. We often sigh that the world is cold and human feelings are alienated, and people seem to be strangers. He who sees through the world of mortals can't help but feel some regrets about life. In fact, there is nothing far and near between people! It's just that we have different attitudes towards problems.

1. If you think about it carefully, there are profound implications behind all kinds of difficulties and changes in every stage of life arrangement. In order to test our lives, the power of this will is too strong. You must be a brave man to be pushed through this dark forest in the night. The sea is ahead. This road must be finished before you can get close to it and jump into it.

Xi. Say a word of relief for those who are embarrassed; Say a word of encouragement for depressed people; Say a reminder for those who are confused; Say a confident word for people with inferiority complex; A word of comfort for the suffering people, because, more often, what we need is a timely help, not icing on the cake.

12. People can persist in doing things, but don't persist in what they want to divide, because persistence today will cause regret tomorrow. Love is the same, you can have love, but don't cling to it, because there is nothing eternal in the world, so separation is inevitable. On the way to life, the best may not necessarily be the best for us. The most suitable is the really best.

Thirteen, people can't feel inferior. Inferiority thinks too little of themselves and can't do anything. People can't be proud, and pride thinks too highly of themselves. In the end, no one can respect you. The most important thing for people is not to pay too much attention to other people's eyes, constantly compare with themselves, compete with themselves, make themselves mature and progress, and gain their own world. To live in others' eyes is always a vassal of others' eyes, and to live in your own eyes is your own master.

XIV. Life is simply a kindness, what to wait for, what to want, what to complain about, what to regret, what to have, and nothing. In the end, it's just a calm.

fifteen, the ups and downs of life, we must observe whether every idea can be applied. More softness and more commitment in my thoughts. But troubles are always floating clouds, and it's not worth

16. One thing, I just want to know its true face. I don't want to see who is crying, who is complaining, who is trembling in the wind, or who is shouting loudly. I don't want to hear anyone say that he was careless, that he did bad things with good intentions, and that he just didn't know and didn't understand. These are not reasons why they should be supported and forgiven.

17th, happiness doesn't wait. If you love someone, you should boldly express it. As long as you strive for it, you won't regret it in the future. If you miss a beautiful love because of your silence, you may be bitter all your life. If you have love in your heart, you should say it out loud. Only when you bravely express your love, love will have no regrets.

18. You have the virtues of adult beauty, kindness, helpfulness, eagerness for public interests and loyalty. However, we are all mortals, so we should recognize our abilities and leave ourselves some leeway when making promises. Undoubtedly, a person who keeps his word and keeps his promise must be a person with integrity and prestige, no matter he or she.

XIX. Struggle is a pleasure; Pursuit is a kind of motivation; Helping others is a kind of savings; Loss is a kind of accumulation; Modesty is a kind of cultivation; Tolerance is a realm; Patience is a wonderful move; Calm is a good medicine; Jealousy is a poisonous arrow; Selfishness is a curse; Impulse is a devil; Frustration is a kind of tempering; Comments are a kind of support; Broadcasting is a virtue.

twenty, the value of life,