Fundamentally speaking, whether a person can succeed depends most importantly on whether he has established a positive attitude as a winner and is full of confidence in himself.
If you want to be a winner, you must first establish a positive mentality as a winner. The so-called positive mentality of a winner means that a person must have the self-confidence that "he will win in life." This is an inestimable spiritual power, and it is the cornerstone of all great achievements.
Mao Zedong said boldly as early as his youth; "If you are confident that your life will last two hundred years, you will swim three thousand miles into the water."
Archimedes also said: "If the universe If I have a foothold in the world, I can lift the earth." Marie Curie said: "We should have confidence, especially self-confidence! We must believe that our talents are used to do something, no matter what we pay. No matter how much the cost is, this kind of thing must be done."
It is precisely because these people have established a positive mentality of becoming winners from an early age that they eventually realized their wishes and truly became winners. winner.
If a person establishes a winner's mentality, then he will have such an invincible psychological momentum - anything that others can do, I will definitely be able to do; even if others do I will try my best to do the things I cannot achieve, and strive to succeed in the end.
In the 1920s in Britain, France, the United States and other Western countries, there was a saying that was once popular and was repeated by thousands of people. That was the French psychotherapy expert Emile Couch. A famous saying said by Ai:
"Day after day, I will do better and better in all aspects."
At that time, people worked within the prescribed time every day Repeat this sentence; repeat this sentence every time this idea flashes in your mind. They believe that doing so can enhance the positive awareness of the mind and mobilize the vitality of the body, thereby preparing themselves for success in career and life.
If you want to change your current unsatisfactory situation, if you want to achieve happiness in life and success in career, then the first thing you must do is to change yourself and establish a positive mentality as a winner.
In fact, only if you think you can do it, can you fully realize your potential and achieve success. If you don’t even believe in yourself and deny that you can win, then you will be negative and decadent, not seeking to make progress, doing nothing, and even less likely to go all out. As a result, you will definitely become a loser and achieve nothing in the end.
The positive mentality of a winner is a positive and striving attitude towards life, and it is also the source of driving people to success.
Generally speaking, although there are many factors that drive a person to success, the first of these factors is the positive attitude of becoming a winner.
If there is a lack of positive attitude, no matter how great a person's ability is or how outstanding his knowledge is, he will not be able to display it, which is tantamount to painting a cake to satisfy his hunger.
On the contrary, even if a person lacks knowledge and talents, as long as he has a positive attitude and a determined will, many unexpected results will come from it. Just like a magnet can attract fans around you, a positive attitude can also help you attract the people you need and change the situation around you.
Even if a person lacks actual talents, as long as he can establish a positive attitude towards becoming a winner, others will sincerely provide some tangible or intangible assistance when they see him being so active in action. Wise people will use their wisdom, and talented people will use their talents and take the initiative to cooperate with them.
This situation is enough to make up for the individual's lack of talent and knowledge, so that the work can be completed smoothly.