As the saying goes, "a fence has three piles, and a hero has three gangs." Life is inseparable from friends, and their friendship and support are indispensable. However, the world is a mixed bag of fish and dragons, and friends have gains and losses. The ancients warned us that "a gentleman should choose his face before making friends, and a villain should choose his face before making friends, so it is rare for a gentleman to complain about a villain" and "you should not make friends carelessly if you lose your horse". It can be seen that how to know and choose friends is a very important topic in life.

Be careful when making friends. No matter who you make friends with, you should be careful. A well-known proverb, "He who is near the ink is black", vividly illustrates the importance of "making friends carefully", which is the experience of the ancients. The fact is true, how a person's friends often play a great role in their own development, which is an invisible and subtle influence.

What's the best friend to make? The ancients said, "The winner has three friends, and the loser has three friends. Friends are straightforward, friends are considerate, and many friends are heard, which is beneficial; Friends are withdrawn, friendly and soft, and friends are hurt. " In other words, making friends with honest, trustworthy and knowledgeable people will benefit a lot; It is harmful to make friends with flattering, insincere and flashy people. This still inspires us how to choose and make friends today. Generally speaking, in real life, we make the following kinds of friends, which is most conducive to the development of friends' municipal administration.

Best friend. Refers to friends who are sincere and live by feelings and principles.