A sentence under the activity "Happy people are born to cure their whole lives with childhood;" Unfortunate people who come from families spend their whole lives healing their childhood. ".It makes them think that they are unfortunate people from a family. So in order to prove their misfortune, they found some stories about "Origin and Death" on the Internet or on TV dramas, and imagined themselves as the protagonists of the stories. Over time, they became the people in the story. The difference is that the protagonist in the story has changed his misfortune through self-improvement, but he has no ability to change himself. He can only resent his birth and his parents.
I don't know when, such poisonous chicken soup with some famous sayings (most of them are taken out of context or confusing, and a few are invented by themselves) began to flood in the internet, making some people floating in this materialistic society think that they have become miraculous and that their thoughts are truth.
The education we received in this era and the availability of educational resources should not have been bewitched by these lies, but the collapse of morality and traditional culture has completely released people's sexual desire. We are not bewitched by myths, but actively accept myths, because such remarks are more in line with our own desires and make ourselves more comfortable.
Some people say that all the "I can't do it" rhetoric is just that I don't want to do it. Let me extend that all "self-righteous" rhetoric is actually an excuse that suits your own interests. Just like the only child who spoke out bravely, criticized her parents' faults and echoed those who criticized her, she just wanted to use this "self-righteous" rhetoric to find an excuse for herself to get rid of her parents, even under the current social pressure, to get rid of the responsibility of supporting her parents.
"At what moment, you want to run away from your parents" is actually the moment when you feel that the value of your parents (material or spiritual) is not enough to offset the cost you pay and you want to get rid of the burden of your parents.
Do you think the spiritual value your parents gave you is valuable? You want to have your own answer, too. And I don't think spiritual value and material value exist in one dimension at all.