Fate is fair to everyone. Those who complain about their bad fate, the sky, the land and the untimely birth are all in vain. Your own destiny depends on yourself. All successful people are masters of their own destiny. Throughout the history of successful Jews' struggle, we will find that they all take their own destiny into their own hands, start from themselves, constantly surpass themselves, and finally become powerful.
In Jewish society, the existence of individuals is higher than that of families, even families. Of course, this does not mean that family or clan is not important, but that in terms of personal success, family and clan are not the main factors. The most important factor is the individual himself, which is his efforts and struggles. It is precisely because of this ideology that great wise men such as Marx, Freud and Einstein have emerged. They are not from prominent backgrounds, and the only thing they rely on is themselves. "Since God has given talents, let them be employed!" . Everyone has his own mission. Only by giving full play to our own advantages and serving the people as much as possible can we show the wonderful use of life.
Professor Yu Dan once said: "People can surpass themselves only by carefully examining themselves!" In other words, only when people fully understand their own advantages and disadvantages can they give full play to their own advantages and make up for their own shortcomings. The story of Helen Keller knowing herself and working hard is a good example. Whenever I read a book and take notes and want to be lazy, Helen's name will hit my heart; Whenever my students face difficulties and pessimism, I always use Helen's story to inspire their confidence and determination to overcome difficulties. Helen is far away from us, but I can always feel her tenacious belief of grasping the throat of bad luck, challenging herself and defeating herself. She is deaf and dumb. How difficult it is for her to learn to read, learn to read, teach herself college courses and create herself. The story of American chain store pioneer Lu bang becoming a millionaire from a pauper; Meyer Rothschild, the first founder of the Rothschild family, was born in a dirty boy's house in a dirty Jewish street. After selling ancient coins for 20 years, his fate suddenly became a monopoly with the world's love for ancient coins, and finally became a financial tycoon in Europe and even the world. I was shocked by the scene that the armless painter Duzner worshipped the famous French painter Ji Lei as his teacher at a banquet. Duzner, who was short and armless, politely walked up to Ji Lei, bowed deeply and asked Ji Lei to accept him as an apprentice, but Ji Lei politely refused. But he didn't give up and quickly added, "I don't have hands, but I have feet." The master immediately brought a pen and paper. He sat on the ground and drew with his toes between strokes, which was very good, showing that he had worked hard. Everyone present was amazed. Ji Lei was very happy and confessed his apprentice. From then on, Duzner worked harder and became a world-famous armless painter a few years later.
These stories tell us that everyone's fate is in their own hands. As long as they have the perseverance and confidence to overcome all difficulties, they will certainly create miracles and achieve the best life. In fact, in order to let children take their destiny into their own hands, Jewish parents provide us with a good shared resource: first, we should set our own lofty goals in life; The second is to have the spirit of self-improvement; Third, we must have a tenacious sense of independence; Fourth, we should be aggressive on the journey of life struggle.
May our children today find the golden key to their own destiny and lay the foundation for their valuable lives!
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Drink wine
The wine is really great. After a few drinks, you will feel excited and drunk. People who are always sanctimonious will smile; People who have always been silent will also argue. After drinking a few more drinks, I forgot all my worries, and I was so drunk that I just felt high and arrogant. If I don't get Zhi Zhi in time, Yushan will inevitably be depressed, vomit and even scold, and all kinds of alcohol will be revealed. Caliban, a monster symbolizing primitive man in Shakespeare's famous play The Tempest, tasted wine for the first time and felt great. He thinks that the person who gave him wine fell from the sky, and that wine is manna and manna, not human possession. When American Indians first came into contact with white people, they were dumped by wine, and they often offered some wine pulp to the land people in exchange. The decline of Indians is at least partly due to their lack of wine.
We in China have a long history of drinking. The inventors of wine are said to be Yiti and Du Kang. Yiyi came from Xia, Shang and Zhou Dynasties in Du Kang. They are far apart, in short, beyond reproach. The raw materials and methods of brewing may be different, so the wine of Yiting is not necessarily the wine of Du Kang. There is an article about "drinking" in Shangshu, which earnestly takes wine as a warning and repeatedly says "Zhuzi wine" (don't drink like this again) and "Wuyi wine" (don't drink often). I want to see that drinking has become a habit in ancient times, and it has reached the point of "disorderly and immoral". There are many things that can't be tested for more than three generations. However, since the Han dynasty, there has been a saying of liquor monopoly, and later generations have enriched the national Tang Dynasty with heavy taxes, and there is no intention to prohibit the collection. It's hard to ban alcohol. Since 1920, the United States has banned alcohol, which is vigorous and popular. Up to now, alcohol can still be seen everywhere. At that time, the author told me about new york. One day, a friend invited me to a domestic restaurant for dinner, and I went straight to the back room and drank a cup of five skins. Don't be surprised when the police break into houses. The policeman slowly sat down in his seat, untied his pistol, slammed it on the table, and let Wujiapi drink alone, and soon fell asleep on the table. 1933, prohibition is like a joke. What people like is not mandatory by law. In China, Han and Xiao He made a law: "If three or more people drink alcohol collectively for no reason, they will be fined four taels." This law has not been thoroughly implemented. In fact, restaurant prostitutes are singing everywhere and are always drunk. Scholars practice by the water's edge and climb mountains, which are always inseparable from wine. Celebrities are romantic, thinking that they have drunk all their lives, or even drunk too much, and threatening to "bury me when I die". It seems that drinking too much is not a very shameful thing, which is really called "the virtue of indulging in wine". I have many years of wine experience. The first time I got drunk was when I was six years old. My first husband was eating in a private room upstairs in Zhimeizhai (west of Meishi Street in Beiping), and there was an unknown big leaf tree outside the window, which rustled at any time. After a few drinks, I was a little drunk and was forbidden to drink any more. I stood on the chair silently, scooped up a spoonful of soup and sprinkled it on one of his two shirts. Then I fell asleep in the nearby Xiao Mu Garden and didn't wake up until I got home. My parents both like wine, so I always have a chance to drink. "Wine is different from intestines and does not need to grow up." Look at the Spring and Autumn Period of Ten Kingdoms, which means that the amount of drinking does not have to be directly proportional to the body size. Strong people may not be able to drink, but thin people may be able to smoke. As thin as mung bean sprouts when I was a child. Alcohol can be honed slowly, but there are limits. I don't drink much, and I haven't seen what most people call generosity. The ancient legend that "the king of Wen drank a thousand points, and Confucius regretted it" was greatly refuted by Wang Chong's Lun Heng and Yu Jia. He said: "The body of King Wen is like the king of the wind, and the body of Confucius is like a man of virtue, but it can be compared." And "Confucius, the king of literature, is also a man of courtesy", why bother getting drunk? In my humble opinion, whether it is "Qingzhou" or "surface mail", one catty of white wine or three or five catties of yellow wine is enough to make anyone dizzy. Only wine is boundless, it is better to be chaotic, depending on everyone's self-control. He who doesn't drink is a master.
Alcohol can't relieve anxiety, but it can make people forget everything temporarily in the process from excitement to anesthesia. That is, Liu Ling said "carefree, endless fun", but after waking up, the so-called "worry", the taste of sick wine is very bad, and the price paid is not small. When I was living in Qingdao, the picturesque place with the mountains facing the sea was the most ideal place for divination in many people's minds. The only regret is that there is no cultural background, no interesting historical sites and no proper entertainment. Seeing the mountains and the sea for a long time will make you tired, so you will get together with friends to drink, have a small cup for three days, have a big feast every five days, make a boxing throwing order, and use 30 pounds of flower carvings to make an altar, which will be used up overnight. Seven drinkers and a female history, just the number of eight immortals, all claimed to be eight immortals in wine. Sometimes they explore in groups as far away as Jinan, Nanjing and Beijing. They bite off more than they can chew, and talk about "drinking to help the region and punching the north and south." They have high expectations and look like heroes and dry clouds. At that time, I humiliated my body, and this account will be calculated later. One day, Mr. Hu Shizhi took a nap in Qingdao and was surprised to see the grand occasion of the Eight Immortals crossing the sea for dinner. He quickly took out a gold ring engraved with the word "Xie" from his wife and put it on his hand to show that he was free from war. Soon after, Mr. Hu wrote to me and said, "Look at the way you drink, you will know that Qingdao is not suitable for long-term residence. Come to Beijing! " I went to Beijing. Looking back now, when I drink, I don't feel brave or crazy.
Wine can weaken people's self-control, so some people laugh wildly after drinking, some people cry bitterly, and some people speak in a foreign language, which may reveal one or two things that Ping rewelding is afraid to tell others, and even reveal other people's secrets in public. The most embarrassing thing is that the strongmen drink, or fight one-on-one, or encirclement and suppression, or throw stones into the well and try their best to get others drunk. Some people resort to force and hold their noses and drink! This may be part of the animalistic venting under the long-term repression of human beings. It is more civilized to try to get the satisfaction of victory than to pick up a stone stick and give people a head-on blow. The aggressive screaming fist, when winning the fist, the prolonged farewell call is also a satisfaction. If they are not satisfied in other places, let them get what they want when drinking together! It's just that this noisy drinking should be carried out in a soundproof room so as not to disturb others.
Cai Gentan's so-called "half blooming, slightly drunk" is the most depressing realm.