Maybe you don't know who Wang Xiaobo really is.

but you must have heard a lot of his words. For example, the one that many people think speaks for themselves? I have low requirements for myself: I live in this world only to understand some truth and meet some interesting things. If I can do as I wish, my life will be a success. ? And with Japanese national treasure master Natsume Soseki? Isn't the moonlight beautiful? Famous classic love stories? How are you, Li Yinhe?

In Xiao Weng's Major Barbara, every generation of the Andershev family left a wise saying. Those words are very interesting, and one of them is: everyone has the right to win or lose, and no one has the right to discuss right and wrong. This is also very interesting, but it is a joke. In fact, as long as a man has won the right to argue right and wrong, he has won without fighting. I have low requirements for myself: I live in this world only to understand some truth and meet some interesting things. If I can do as I say, my life will be a success. To this end, we should also discuss right and wrong, otherwise the truth will not be understood by you, and I will not let you encounter interesting things. I started too late and probably couldn't do anything, but I had to state my attitude, so I got this book? For myself and on behalf of the silent majority.

This is the last paragraph of Wang Xiaobo's preface to My Spiritual Garden.

Wang Xiaobo is not handsome, with thick lips and always messy hair, but his mind and thoughts are so humorous and thought-provoking. Facing his lover Li Yinhe, he said? I give you my whole soul, together with its quirks, small temper, flickering, 18 kinds of bad habits. It's really annoying, only one thing is good. I love you. ? In the golden age of twenty-one when he went to the countryside to be an educated youth, facing an unknown life, Wang Xiaobo wrote? I believe this is not my own experience: in the evening, you sit under the eaves, watching the sky slowly get dark, feeling lonely and desolate, and feeling deprived of your life. I was a young man at that time, but I was afraid to live like this and get old. In my opinion, this is more terrible than death. ?

most people will have a confused period when they are young. When they don't know where their road is going, they will be hesitant, depressed and even doubt the meaning of their existence. The same is true of Wang Xiaobo, but he didn't indulge himself in these worries, he said? Don't be afraid that everything beautiful will disappear. Let's let it exist first. ? When you can't find the direction, you might as well settle down and enjoy the present, warm a pot of hot tea, have a conversation with yourself and listen to your heart.