The gentleman is open-minded, honest and clean, and looks very comfortable and stable. The villain has too many inner desires and a heavy psychological burden, so he is often anxious, and his appearance and movements are also uneasy. He is often restless and emotionally unstable.
2, a threesome, there must be my teacher, follow the chosen one and change the bad one. -The Analects of Confucius
With three people together, there must be one person who is worth learning in some way, then he can be my teacher. I choose his advantages to study, and I will take warning from his shortcomings and deficiencies. If there are, I will correct them.
3, a good word warms three winters, and a bad word hurts in June. -Ming dynasty proverb
A kind and beneficial word can make the listener feel warm even in the cold of three winters; On the contrary, bitter words hurt others' feelings and self-esteem, even in the summer of June, people will feel cold.
4. It is far from complaining to bow your head and feel sorry for yourself. -The Analects of Confucius
Those who work hard and take the main responsibility for mistakes are "doing their best", forgiving others more and "lightly blaming others". In this case, they won't resent each other.
5. A gentleman's adult beauty is not an adult's evil. The villain is the opposite. -The Analects of Confucius
A gentleman always starts from the good or beneficial wishes of others, and wholeheartedly urges others to realize their good wishes and just demands, instead of looking at the world coldly. Or fear that the world will not be chaotic and will not add fuel to the fire when others fail, make mistakes or suffer. The villain is always "the evil of adults, not the beauty of adults."
6, see xian Si Qi how, see not xian and introspection. -The Analects of Confucius
When you see someone who has an advantage over yourself in some respect, you should consult modestly, study hard, try to catch up with him and reach the same level as him. When you see that a person has some shortcomings or deficiencies, you should reflect calmly and see if you also have his shortcomings or deficiencies.
7. Don't do to others what you don't want them to do to you. -The Analects of Confucius
Don't impose what you don't want on others.
8. Do your duty and don't give in to your teacher. -The Analects of Confucius
Don't hesitate to do good things, even if the teacher is around, you should rush to do it. Later, it developed into the idiom "due diligence".