? Would you rather be angry with your husband's family than relieved by your mother's family? What is the reality?

it's hard for an honest official to judge housework, and every family has its own problems. There are many people and roles in a family. You have different responsibilities when you play different roles in the family. In addition, under the guidance of fate, both husband and wife get married together and form a family. I am not very familiar with both parents, and there are many strange places in this family, which need to be studied constantly.

There's a saying that it's better to be quarrelled by her husband's family than relieved by her mother's family. What is the reality of this sentence? Next, listen to the author to answer it for you slowly. 1, at home, your parents can tolerate your bad temper, but your husband's family can't < P > The woman is spoiled as a little princess by her parents. Your parents will indulge you unconditionally. I believe that even if you fight, it is for your own good and for your sake. Therefore, most girls are in a very high position in their own homes. When your parents talk about you, you are very sad, want to resist, and can't stand their parents' quarrels.

When you go to your husband's family, it's a strange family. They have no reason to tolerate your bad temper, so they suffer indignities at your husband's family, and most of them endure it by themselves. You can't fight him. You can't fight him. 2, respect for the elderly, filial piety

After marriage, most women return their focus to the family. Learn to live in harmony with the man's family and his relatives and friends. Be a filial person who respects parents. There is a saying that there are always many contradictions between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.

Why do you say that? It's because my mother-in-law raised her son for many years, but she finally married her daughter. She is usually only kind to her. Now she will give you half of his love for her. Of course, she will be a little jealous and sad, so at the beginning of your marriage, they will give you a hard time, but over time, after discovering your kindness, they will treat you like their own son. 3, the mother-in-law is different from her own mother

Her own mother is the one who gave birth to you and raised you. They raised you from childhood and don't want you to grow up. You are a little princess and baby in their hearts. They will unconditionally believe that you are good to you, but their mother-in-law is different. You're not her child, you're just his son's wife, and you'll be with him all his life. She is not the person who will accompany her all her life, so it is inevitable that she will have some opinions on you.

The contradiction between mother-in-law and mother runs through the ages. In fact, the purpose is to make you both live better. Mother-in-law is for her son and mother is for you. Therefore, after marriage, both parties should build enough trust, think for each other and give each other enough sense of security. When two people live together, it is inevitable that they will make noise, which requires both sides to solve this problem calmly and not to start work.

The above is only the author's personal opinion. Your comments and supplements are welcome.