1. If you do something wrong in life, your conscience will never be at peace! Really, Balzac said it well: some sins can only be redeemed, but not washed away! (p1)
2. Life is never over. When it is almost over, It's time to leave the world again. (p2)
The flowers and fruits irrigated by the gardener with blood and tears have to be sent to the world for others to enjoy sooner or later. (p2)
3 ... Everything depends on your own firm will and stand ... Everything depends on your personal perseverance, belief and will-the will to practice. (p9)
4. Blame yourself for not acting. This is the basic style of life. It's not just about someone or something. I used to tell you that only facts can prove your mind, and only actions can show your heart. You can't be so careless with your friends. A person who is not fickle by nature is the most wronged and unworthy to act like fickle. Just as a person who is not naughty plays naughty and ends up suffering, it is a truth. I hope you will remember this from now on and for the rest of your life. (p12)
5. People who don't experience sharp pain will not have profound and broad sympathy. (p13)
One's venting is to ask for mental health, not to make oneself more and more depressed. (p14)
6. Regarding emotional problems ... In any case, be restrained, focus on the future and focus on health. (p15) < p It is not an easy task to control all troubles, but it must be overcome.
8. When a person is lonely and concentrated, all his feelings are true feelings. (p19)
9. Don't let what you feel float on the surface of your feelings, but carefully analyze what is different from your original ideas, emotions and expressions. (p23)
Young people are most likely to give people the impression of "ingratitude". In fact, he is staring at the front and hungry for new things, which is not necessarily "ingratitude"; But few people understand this psychology ... (P23)
1. As long as it is the truth, it is a real lesson, whether it comes from parents or friends or strangers, you have to accept it. (p29)
You have to get rid of your easygoing temper ... If you are always in a crowd, you will lack the opportunity to reflect; Thoughts, feelings and feelings can't be properly sorted out and summarized.
11. Patience and depression will happen to everyone from time to time, but they will soon pass. (p3)
Try not to worry about success or failure as much as possible, just try your best to be innocent. (p31)
12. People are at an climax all their lives. Or you must have a high level of self-cultivation in order to be fruitless and truly liberated. As long as the climax does not make you nervous and the low tide does not make you decadent, it will be fine. If the sun is too strong, it will scorch the grains; Too much rain will drown crops. We only need a psychological balance so as not to get hurt ... You will gradually develop another kind of mood to deal with the past. It is to be able to think without being thrilling, to analyze the cause and effect from an objective standpoint, and to learn from it in the future, so as to avoid repeating the same mistakes. Only when one dares to face up to reality, face up to mistakes, analyze with reason, and thoroughly understand, will he not be eroded by memories ... If you look at these things as the ashes of the soul, you will certainly feel a lot when you look at them, but don't hurt yourself unforgettable. Instead, you should cherish your mourning as if you were facing an ancient battlefield. (p32~33)
13. Although the competition problem is a heavy burden, you should make some mental preparations anyway. As long as you try your best to ignore the gains and losses, you can be calm and completely relaxed mentally and physically. Only in this way can you hope to have good results ... If you can often think of the famous sentence "An article will last forever, and you will know the gains and losses" (p38)
Work hard to make yourself mentally loose, and keeping it will make you get good grades. Being nervous will do harm to everything ... With the concept of "I will do my best", call yourself lenient immediately when you are nervous, and treat your spirit like your hands and fingers, and always pay attention to relaxation. (p39)
You can't be too busy on weekdays. People pull you out. I'd rather have a quiet time and think for myself ... Don't be too sentimental. It's a habit not to go out with people during working hours, and it won't offend people. Life energy is limited ... (P39) < P > 14 ... Art is your lifelong career, and art itself is already exciting. You must never be too nervous when practicing the piano. Life is limited and energy is limited. You should take a long-term view. More restraint. (p42)
15, ... more restraint of feelings, more emphasis on skills and more use of reason, I believe that fatigue will be reduced. (p42)[ This is what Mr. Fu Lei should pay attention to when instructing Fu Cong to practice the piano and how to reduce fatigue ]
Not enough effort; Never get good grades without suffering enough! (p43)
16. Anyone who plays tricks all the time is an art craftsman, not an artist. If one can't jump out of this hurdle, he will never dream of art in his life! Art is the purpose, and skill is the means; People who always pay attention to the means are bound to forget its purpose. (p47)
17 ... Don't force yourself when you are already tired. It will still take advantage in the long run to save more energy. (p54)
18. The size and level of achievements are beyond our control, half by manpower and half by talent, but From now on, you can struggle alone. (p56)
19. The greatness of motherhood lies not in reason, but in that kind of intuitive feeling ... (p6)
Thinking about the past difficulties will give you more courage to overcome the difficulties in the future and not lose confidence! Life is an endless marathon ... (P61)
... Young people tend to overestimate their own strength. (P61)
... Today, you have passed this stage of complacency, but I am always a disciple of Confucianism in China, and I have encountered extremely prosperous things. There must be a feeling of being "on the brink of an abyss, treading on thin ice". (P61)
... In fact, perfection does not exist at all, and the whole life, food street and universe are far from perfection. What we want is to exist in the ideals of philosophers and politicians. The pursuit of our whole life and the pursuit of many generations in history is nothing more than perfection. But it can never be pursued, because people's ideals and fantasies are endless, so perfection, like the moon in the water and the flower in the mirror, is always within reach. But it is not bad to get the overall "integrity" or comparative "integrity" at a certain stage. (p62)
2. A person must think carefully before doing something. Be sure to make a balance of your own reason, and weigh the old road and the new road in two plates very accurately. (p69)
There are no people who suffer the most, such as unknown and uncertain! （p71）