1. Don’t try to change others

Chat is a form of information exchange, not for winning or losing. So don’t forcefully change the other person’s point of view or suppress the other person’s interest just for the sake of impulse. We must understand that to correct others, we must first correct ourselves. What we can control is only ourselves, not others.

2. Find the most common points

There is attraction between people. If you can find the most common points with the other person, then your communication will be better. More efficient. For example, you have the same hometown, the same hobbies, and even the same favorite celebrities, etc. These are all small ways to improve your communication skills.

3. Establish boundaries

Don’t pry into other people’s privacy, don’t reveal your own at will, don’t discuss any sensitive topics in public, no matter how resistant you are, try to make more friends, Especially if you make two close friends, you will feel that there are many meaningful things in this world, which is not gloomy and miserable, and you will have a new understanding of society, yourself, and life.

4. Be good at listening

Confucius said: When three people are walking together, there must be my teacher. When communicating with others, you must learn to listen to other people's opinions and stories, and make the other person feel valued by you. Feel. And try not to let yourself have negative emotions. Negative emotions often turn into negative attitudes and extreme psychology.

5. Respect each other

Everyone wants to be respected. When communicating with others, you must first respect yourself, but also respect and be considerate of others. In the case of empathy, Help others by caring empathetically about their needs.

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Notes on communicating with others:

1. When talking, look at the other person speaking, and respond promptly after the other person speaks. , don't act particularly indifferent or indifferent.

2. Talk around a topic. Don’t ramble in random directions. If you don’t get to the point, you change the topic at will, which makes people unable to keep up with their thinking and don’t know what to say.

3. When talking, you must understand the other party, listen carefully, be a good listener, and do not interrupt others at will, let alone ask random questions, which is offensive.

4. Speak in a polite manner, speak decisively and concisely, be confident, and be humorous, but do not be vulgar and vulgar, and do not joke with others casually, do not expose the other person's shortcomings, do not inquire into other people's privacy, and speak Avoid talking nonsense.

5. When talking with others, don’t talk about other people’s faults, don’t talk about other people, and don’t comment on others casually, because too much words will lead to mistakes, and disaster comes from the mouth, so be careful and speak less.