It is a rare happiness to meet a confidant in life; But if you haven't met, there's no need to be sentimental. After all, it is hard to find a bosom friend in the world.

But you can't make friends with everyone. You must be selective. If you make careless friends at first, you will become enemies later.

Such people can't be close friends.

1 people who use you as a tool.

Toolman is a buzzword on the internet, which generally refers to being used or used like a tool.

This is the case with Zhen Xuan in the TV series "The Queen of the Palace". She took advantage of Wen Chu Shi's feelings for herself and regarded him as a tool. She has something to do with her "brother" and nothing to do with her "great humanity".

There are many such exquisite egoists in life. There is no sincerity in dealing with people, only use it. When you lose the use value, your relationship will exist in name only.

People who use you as a tool usually come to you when they have something to do and never think of you when they have nothing to do. You are considerate of each other and ready to answer any questions. But if you have something to TAlk to TA, ta always has reason to prevaricate and perfunctory you.

Between people, only sincere changes can warm feelings and last a long time. People who use you as a tool are not sincere to you and are not worth making friends with.

A mercenary.

Never make friends with people who are only interested in money.

There is such a person, in his thinking system, there are only two words of fame and fortune, and everything only seeks results, regardless of the process. So he will weigh whether he can bring benefits to anyone when he is in contact with him. If someone around him questions or is not satisfied with his practice, he will call it a day. This is the embodiment of your value, and worthless interpersonal communication is a waste of time.

This kind of person often disappears when you want something from him, but when he needs your help, he will definitely appear in time. This kind of mercenary always says one thing and does another, and his face changes quickly. Therefore, such people can't pay.

People who like gossip.

The human heart is complex and fragile.

Some people, after saying all the flattering things in front of others, turn around and speak ill of them, even turning black and white upside down, regardless of right or wrong.

Gossiping people often fail to see the good in others. When they see the scenery of others, they run behind them, cynically and speak ill of others. When you see someone down and out, you have to step on it again, for fear that others will not live miserably enough.

Gossip people spend all their time on useless language. They don't tell the truth in front of people, but they talk nonsense afterwards.

A person's life is doomed to be: doing things aboveboard; Be sincere in making friends.

Gossiping people often don't have a sincere and kind heart, and such people are not worth making friends with.

How he speaks ill of others today, he may not be able to ridicule you behind your back in the future.

People's hearts are complicated, and you can live comfortably with pure and sincere people.

Four people have different opinions.

Everyone has many faces, but some people's faces are very similar, and some people's faces are completely opposite.

People who do one thing to their face and one thing behind their backs often say it beautifully, but doing things is a different story.

They will naturally show their good side in front of others and hide their evil side behind others, so as to gain the trust of others and facilitate their plans.

People who say one thing to their face and do another behind their backs will always vilify others for their own benefit.

This kind of person may pretend to be nice and considerate in front of you and betray you in the blink of an eye.

In the process of getting along with others, if you find that people around you have different views, you must keep your distance in time.

Even if they don't lie to you for a while, there is no guarantee that they will treat you like this in the future.

Life is long and you will meet all kinds of people; Life is short, and there are only a few people who can associate with you for a long time.

Time is limited and should be given to those who deserve to make friends. People who are not worth making friends should stay away as soon as possible.