I think Kong Rong was finally executed by Cao Cao, and his wife and children were doomed after he gave pears at the age of four. When he was four years old, his father's friend brought a plate of pears to the Kong Rong brothers. Father asked Kong Rong to divide the pears, Kong Rong picked the smallest pear, and the rest were given to the brothers in the order of generations. Kong Rong said: "I am young, I should eat small pears, and big pears should be given to my brothers." Father was very surprised and asked, "Is that brother younger than you?" Kong Rong said, "Because my brother is younger than me, I should give him up." Kong Rong made the story of pear spread quickly throughout the Han Dynasty. As the grandson of the twentieth generation of Confucius, he was born on time. In the Han dynasty, hundreds of schools were ousted, and Confucianism was the only one. All previous dynasties respected order, meekness and modesty. Kong Rong Jr. has also become a good example for many parents to educate their children. A four-year-old child, does he really have to bring up? You know that taking a small one will be praised by adults, right? In addition, this time, Hou Li aggravated his ideas.
When I was ten, I went to the capital with my father. At that time, Yin, Henan Province, was modest and rigorous, and did not meet literati casually. Those who tell the door are not allowed to tell anyone who is not a contemporary celebrity or a family with friends for generations. Kong Rong wants to see what kind of person Mars is. He knocked at Li Ying's house and said to his master, "I am a relative of Li Jun." After the gatekeeper informed him, Mars met with him. Mars asked him, "What is your relationship with me?" Kong Rong replied: "In the past, my ancestor Confucius and your ancestor Laozi were both respected as teachers (Confucius once asked Laozi about Zhou Li), so you and I are also family friends!" There were many guests present at that time, and they were very surprised by Kong Rong's answer. Later, Dr. Yang Chen, a Chinese medicine doctor, came to Mars Building. The guests told him about it, but Yang Chen said disapprovingly, "When you are young, you may not be smart when you grow up." Kong Rong immediately retorted, "Then you must have been very clever when you were a child." Yang Chen has nothing to say. Mars said with a smile, "You are so smart that you will succeed in the future."
When Kong Rong was thirteen, his father died. He was very sad and needed help to stand up. The state praised him for his filial piety.
At the age of sixteen, James Zhang, a celebrity, was hated by Hou Lan, a regular servant of China, and ordered the county to seize James Zhang. James Zhang and Kong Rong's brother Kong Bao are good friends, so they fled to Kong Bao's home, but Kong Bao was not there. James Zhang thought Kong Rong was young and didn't tell him about himself. Kong Rong saw James Zhang's embarrassment and said to James Zhang, "Although my brother hasn't come home yet, can't I be your master?" So I left James Zhang to live in my own home. Later, things were exposed, and people below the national phase secretly suppressed the matter. James Zhang was able to escape, and Kong Bao and Kong Rong were arrested and imprisoned. But I don't know which of them has been convicted. Kong Rong said: "I am the person who sheltered James Zhang, and the blame lies with me." Kong Bao said, "It's not my brother's fault that James Zhang came to me. I am guilty, I am willing. " Officials asked their mother, and the mother said, "The old people bear the housework, and the responsibility lies with me." Every household is fighting to the death, and the county can't make a decision, so it asks the court for instructions. Finally, the imperial edict convicted Kong Bao, and Kong Rong became famous. He is as famous as Tao and Chen in the plain, and he was hired by counties.
In the seventh year of Guanghe, Henan Yin Hejin was promoted to general. Yang Ci sent Kong Rong a business card to congratulate Hejin. Because the owner failed to report in time, Kong Rong took the business card and went back to blame himself. His family thought he had lost face and wanted to send a swordsman after Kong Rong. A guest said to He Jin, "Kong Wenju is very famous. If the general is against him, people from all directions will follow him. It is better to treat each other with courtesy and let everyone know that the general is broad-minded. " Blades agreed, so he appointed Kong Rong as a general. He was appointed as the highest rank and moved to the position of suggestion. Kong Rong was at odds with his boss, Cheng, and returned home after illness.
Kong Rong himself thinks that he has noble spirit and is determined to pacify the national crisis. He failed because he was broad-minded and empty-minded. After six years in the county, Liu Bei recommended him as the secretariat of Qingzhou. In the first year of Jian 'an, it was captured by Yuan Tan. Since the spring in Zhixia, there are only a few hundred soldiers left, and the city has been hand-to-hand combat. Kong Rong laughed with some books. That night, the city fell and fled to Shandong, and his wife was captured by Yuan Tan. Cao Cao attacked Yecheng and slaughtered its residents. Many of Yuan Shao's women, such as children, were plundered. Cao Cao's son Cao Pi privately married Yuan's wife Zhen Shi. Kong Rong wrote to Cao Cao and said, "The King of Wu attacked Zhou and gave da ji to the Duke of Zhou." Cao Cao didn't understand, and later he asked Kong Rong what was going on in He Dian. Kong Rong replied: "It is natural to measure things according to the current situation." In the 12th year of Jian 'an, Cao Cao went north to beg Wu Huan. Kong Rong laughed at him and said, "General Cao Cao went out to war and was depressed overseas. In the past, I was cautious and didn't pay tribute to wood and bitter arrows, but Ding Ling stole Su Wu's cattle and sheep, so we can fight together! " At that time, there was famine and war, and Cao Cao asked for prohibition of alcohol. Kong Rong wrote to Cao Cao many times, thinking that alcohol should not be banned, and most of his words were arrogant and rude. Everyone knows the ending.
I remembered a passage in Laozi's Tao Te Ching: Don't praise talented people, and guide ordinary people not to compare with each other; Do not cherish rare property and guide people not to steal; Don't show off things that can cause greed, so that people's hearts will not be confused; Only when the avenue is abandoned can there be a need to advocate benevolence and righteousness; The phenomenon of cleverness appeared, and fraud prevailed for some time; Filial piety and kindness can only be shown when there is a family dispute; Only when the country is in chaos can you see loyal ministers. Kong Rong's behavior of releasing pears is correct, but it should not be respected. Small pears can be age snacks, but Kong Rong should not eat the youngest. To form rules instead of boasting about the smallest ones, the above-mentioned series of events happened. In the ruling space of absolute power, it is the hobby of many people who pretend to be lofty in history to straighten their position and always be arrogant and say strange and sour words. It seems that if you don't do this, it doesn't show that you have IQ or that you are excellent. They don't understand: objecting once or twice can be regarded as a suggestion, but more times means denying, and denying the important decision of those in power is an act of seeking death. Although Kong Rong is a celebrity, he can't just kill him, but if he wants to add more charges, he can always find his own words. Besides, Kong Rong himself was careless, disrespectful to sages and unfaithful and unfilial.
When Kong Rong was killed, his daughter was seven years old and his boy was nine years old, but he was saved because he was young. Send it to someone else's house. Two sons are playing chess, and Kong Rong is caught and indifferent. People around me said, "My father was arrested. Excuse me, why? " A: "Where is the nest that kills eggs and does not break?" The host gave gravy and the boy was thirsty. The girl said, "How long can such a disaster last today? Do we still need to know the taste of meat?" My brother wailed and stopped drinking. Someone told Cao Cao and decided to kill them all. When the captor arrived, the woman said to her brother, "If the deceased knew, it would be our greatest wish to see his parents!" So the neck is punished and the color remains the same. No one is not sad about it. I wonder if Kong Rong will regret it after knowing this? Regret your youth and ignorance and education for your children? Parents are children's first teachers and lifelong teachers, so parents' education is very important for children's growth, especially in their adolescence. Please remember: great wisdom is stupid, great wisdom is clumsy, loud voices are loud, and elephants are invisible.