As the old saying goes, "those who can live in a good place can make good use of them."

On the road to success, everyone has been accompanied by ability, and the goal of life has been realized. This is the realm that everyone with ideals dreams of.

However, when you meet a superior who is better than you and worse than you, you will feel very depressed. Even if the surface is calm, the game between ability and power never stops.

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Yang Baode, a doctoral student from Xi Jiao Tong University, who was born in a poor family, should have a bright future. However, this young man, who was eager for knowledge, committed suicide in the process of realizing his dream because he could not stand the endless exploitation of his mentor.

We lament that the authorities are confused, but the onlookers may not understand. Many of them didn't realize the value orientation reflected behind this problem, and blindly attacked Yang Baode's fragile psychological quality.

Yesterday afternoon, Liu Liu, a screenwriter, also commented on this matter in Weibo, saying that the other party is a rural baby and thinks highly of himself. He even said, "The so-called study is not only a textbook, but also the truth of being a man. Is it inappropriate for you to serve the teacher? " .

Obviously it is a social disease, why do you still speak so confidently?

As "China Youth Daily" said, doctors should be the cutting-edge talents trained by the country, and they should roam in the academic sea of Wang Yang and constantly explore the truth of the world.

However, here, he has become a coolie carrying a handyman's bag, his personality has been insulted, his dignity has been trampled on, his studies have failed, and there is no hope of going abroad. When everything is on an honest, kind, helpful and upright doctor, his despair of the world can be imagined.

When a person's ability meets strength, but he can't realize himself and pursue his ideal, it is really unwise to choose to escape by suicide.

However, a capable person is humble and has no dignity before power. The feelings in his heart must be beyond the understanding of such an easy-going person.

Kissinger said, "Power is the best aphrodisiac." Once a powerful person loses his mind, he will indulge in it and feel happy, ignoring where his strength comes from.

I believe that this female tutor is by no means mediocre and incompetent, nor should she be heartless. I think the reason why she can be so bold and lose her dignity as a teacher is more because of the paralysis of power.

For Yang Baode, it is power that hinders ability; On the other hand, however, female tutors lost their dreams in the ecstasy of power.

Therefore, the only way to realize your dream, whether it is the ability owner or the strength owner, is not to forget your initiative. The two should not be the opposition of "white horse is not a horse", but the unity of "whether it is a dark horse or a white horse, the one who can run to the end is a good horse".

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Ability is the cornerstone to realize your ideal, and motivation is the wing to realize your ideal, so that your ideal can fly higher and farther.

Max Weber said, "Power means any opportunity to carry out one's will in a certain social relationship, even if this opportunity is opposed." For a mediocre person, this sentence "refers to a deer as a horse" and reverses black and white.

1962, Soviet head of state Khrushchev visited the art exhibition. Pointing to the works of Nietzsche, an abstract sculptor, he said, "Even a donkey can swing it with its own tail. It can be better than this painting."

Nie Izvishne couldn't bear it anymore and asked bluntly, "You are neither an artist nor a critic. Why do you say such things? "

Khrushchev was furious and roared, "I didn't understand when I was absent from work, I didn't understand when I was a grassroots cadre, and I didn't understand every step of my gradual promotion." But now I am the chairman of the Council of Ministers and the leader of the party. Don't I understand? " ″

But again, for a capable person, power is the best way to realize oneself. We all abide by the law of the jungle, but if you find a rule to make, you are the king.

My nephew is Beipiao, graduated from a famous school in China, and used to be a warm-blooded young man. Last year, he was admitted to a unit in his hometown and lived a standard Buddhist life, with gouqi tea and newspapers.

Speaking of life in Beijing, he can complain all night, because all the bosses he meets are incompetent, so he misses the opportunity of promotion every time. According to his own statement, if we don't find a way out, Maxima will become a mule.

Where is the way out? He still complains about repression in the system. Even now, he realized in his complaints that he had already drifted away from his original ideal.

Young people in the workplace always complain about how bad the boss is to them, and they can't suppress themselves everywhere. But as long as you calm down and think about it, is the other person really that miserable? Then how did he get to the top?

Don't believe such nonsense as flattery and being caught by hidden rules. Because, when the ability and power do not match, it is a disaster for anyone, no matter who is spared.

The bosses of the company are not people with low IQ. How can they hand over the company to a group of people who have no ambition and hard work? A person without ability, even if he gains power temporarily, will eventually lose it.

Napoleon famously said, "I admit that I am short, but if you dare to make fun of me, I will cut off your head to offset the difference." This is what people with matching ability and power are qualified to say.

So, young man, when you are hindered by power, don't be discouraged, try to change the environment around you, save your strength and make yourself stronger. Only by returning the fist can it be more powerful. At that time, you were entitled to say that my site was my decision.

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What should you do when you feel that your ability is blocked? At this time, you should strive for more resources to realize your dream.

My senior is the editor-in-chief of a newspaper in Fujian and the chairman of the University Literature Society.

She once talked about her experience at a club writing sharing meeting. When she first entered school, she was a very passive little girl in Nuo Nuo, and she was very modest and cautious when she met everyone.

Her writing style is very good, but it is not always recognized by everyone. I have written articles for a year, but I can't even publish them in the school. She always thought she was incompetent, so she continued to write hard.

Until one day, she saw an article in a magazine, which was similar to a manuscript she had submitted to the school newspaper in both structure and plot. A closer look at the author turned out to be the former chairman of the literary society.

It turned out that her article was not good enough, but was unfairly suppressed. She was angry and wanted to quit the club. She didn't display her talents until such an environment, but she was unwilling.

So she summoned up her courage and stabbed the matter directly to the Youth League Committee. After the incident was exposed, she discovered that she was far from the only one who suffered such treatment. After the chairman left office, she took part in the election and won by a landslide.

This experience was an important turning point in her growth. She said that she was educated from an early age, and the concept was obedience. Listening to parents at home is a good boy, and listening to teachers at school is a good student. He never says no in front of his parents and teachers. Even if he is a little unhappy, he will be paralyzed and will not argue.

It's the first time to express herself so heartily, but this time, she realized that to realize her ideal, she must bravely challenge the power and strive for her own resources with strength, because this is a kind of ability.

Former Israeli President Dahlmeyer said: "Don't be so modest, you are not good enough, don't be modest."

Indeed, when we are not good enough to change everything, we must show our Excellence without modesty, and you can't change everything until you are recognized by everyone.

Young people should have dreams, but the way to realize them is not just ability.

We can't go back to the primitive society of abdication system. In the era of rapid social development, the display of talents also shows a diversified trend. Therefore, when we have the ability to realize our ideals, please remember to plug in the wings to realize our ideals, and that is strength.