Like Lao Lang, a singer in the 1990s, he became famous all over the country because of "My Deskmate".

The prototype of the protagonist I am talking about here: I think it is actually Lao Lang himself. At that time, he and his fiancée met in high school (now his wife). In the spring of 1988, Wang Yang (Lao Lang's real name), a senior in high school in Beijing No. 8 Middle School, was attending an event and passing by Zhongshan Park when he met a long-haired girl wearing blue suspenders sitting on a wooden chair and reading quietly. The two fell in love at first sight, and Wang Yang fell in love with the girl. After learning that she was also a classmate of No. 8 Middle School, he launched a passionate pursuit. To this day, the seal of the eternal alliance between the two can still be found on a plane tree in No. 8 Middle School.

In the 1988 college entrance examination, Pan Qian (Lao Lang’s wife) was admitted to Peking University. Lao Lang was admitted to Harbin Institute of Technology but was unable to attend due to parents’ reasons and transferred to the private Beihang University Third Branch. But as a very professional girl, Pan Qian resolutely put aside her love life and went to study in the United States after graduating from college. I admire her very much here. She studied at Stanford and then got a master's degree. She is a founding employee of Yahoo and the former product marketing director of Google China. And after Lao Lang experienced an unsatisfactory job after graduation (actually there is a big gap between him and Pan Qian) ), and later decided to join the music career with Gao Xiaosong. Later, because of the popularity of the album "Campus Ballads", he even dedicated "My Deskmate" to his lover on the other side of the ocean through long-distance phone calls. Panxi was deeply moved and resolutely left her successful career in the United States. In the end, she saved her original love because of the campus folk song.

Of course, this is just my own impression of the prototype of the protagonist. Whether it is true or not remains to be verified, let’s talk about the movie.

The overall feeling of the movie is still very harmonious. Whether it is the background music or the matching of the characters and scenes, it looks very harmonious and interesting, and there is no lack of humorous atmosphere. Of course, there are also plots that make people feel deeply, such as:

The one that impressed me most was probably when Zhou Xiaozhi (played by Zhou Dongyu) got together with her classmates at her wedding. While watching the movie, I thought again: Ten years What will your future self be like?

I also remembered what a professor said: If you receive an invitation from your alma mater in a few years and ask you to return to school for a class reunion that happens every five years, that is a dangerous thing. You should not go. .

Why? Because if it were me, I would advise everyone not to go. Because you will see: some people join big companies, drive Porsches, and have attractive titles; some people start their own businesses, but they are not very successful; some people start non-profit organizations and live a simple life. Just like in the movie, some people insist on their dreams, such as the fat man who makes honey; some are unknown, such as the so-called "little city management"; and so on...

What will you think at this time? You will compare, and for the sake of external glory, you may forget your dreams and pursue things that are easier to succeed in the short term, or companies that everyone is flocking to. If so, you are wrong. You should pursue your dreams, the more difficult it is to realize your most valuable dreams!

Although there are still people around us who like to express their lofty ambitions with the famous saying "A soldier who doesn't want to be a marshal is not a good soldier", in fact, a soldier who "just wants" to be a marshal can say Is he a good soldier? When many people are competing for "well-paid salary" and "prominent status", we can't help but be alert: Are we getting further and further away from rationality? Is it getting closer to idealization? A person's career positioning, career positioning, and success positioning can have a wide "swing space". There is no need to limit yourself to a narrow alley, and don't hang yourself on a big tree.

Perhaps a party you haven’t seen for many years will remind you a lot. As for the people you thought about at the beginning, they will pass through the swamp of time and become another person in your mind. It's not what it was at the beginning. So memory is not very real, because you will re-picture it in your mind. In fact, the most real things are those things you have forgotten.

We are so busy, but now we like to reminisce more and more. In fact, the past is far less beautiful than we remember, but compared with the impetuousness and indifference of the present world, we still can't let go of the simplicity and warmth of the past.

As time goes by, many years later, when you recall all those things at the beginning, are you still a little touched and a little sad?

Finally, I just hope that everything is well for everyone, and if you take your time, everything will be done in time!

“The sky is a treasure, the earth is a pond, and people are like fish in the troubled waters of the three worlds. It is easy to meet, but it is difficult to get to know each other, but we should do it and cherish it!”