We should all cultivate good habits as soon as possible (of course, it is never too late to cultivate good habits). Here are some examples:
1, the habit and ability to study hard.
People who don't have the habit of studying hard will definitely not have long-term development in the future! Diligence means having the habit of reading, learning to read sporadically, and persisting in reading when encountering various difficulties. Fast, is to have a faster reading speed, to get new reading information, and to exchange reading experience with peers in time. In order to cultivate reading ability, we can practice fast reading and master the learning method of direct reading with eyes and brain. For specific exercises, please refer to Elite Speed Reading Memory Training. Combining speed reading with memory can improve our reading ability better and faster.
2. Good communication habits and ability.
Without good communication skills, you can't go deep into the real society, and you will lose many opportunities for personal development.
To communicate well, we must first learn to listen patiently. Listening is an indispensable step to understand each other's intentions and wants. Secondly, don't get caught up in the debate, pay attention to your communication style. If you want to change a person's mind, you must accept him first. When you tell each other, yes, you have a point. The momentum of the other party will gradually ease down and enter the communication mode.
3, the habit and ability to manage time.
Time is a very valuable resource, and whether you can manage your time well is the key to accomplish various goals and tasks. The key to managing time is to match the time and tasks reasonably and let yourself finish as planned. To this end, we must do two things well:
The first is to know your time efficiency, that is, to know your work efficiency and how long it takes to do a good job. Knowing our time efficiency helps us to make plans and accomplish them better. Specifically, you can do this: ① Set an hour and a half or an hour to see how much you can accomplish during this time; (2) Before doing something, first "estimate" how long it will take to complete a task, and then compare it with the "actual" time.
Secondly, we should learn to rank tasks according to their importance. Make a list of tasks to be completed next, and then put the important or urgent tasks first, mark them with colored pens or post-it notes to remind yourself.
4. The habit of thinking and checking regularly.
It is very necessary to think about yourself regularly and examine yourself. For example, "What have I learned? What skills or methods have you mastered? How did I solve the problem? Are there any omissions or mistakes in solving the problem? How to avoid it in the future? What should I do better in my future study? "
These processes of self-reflection and evaluation will make us gradually realize our strengths and weaknesses and find out the specific reasons for specific problems. Only in this way can we solve problems better and make better progress and promotion.