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Don't love people who are too far away, and don't warm your cold heart.

It doesn't matter if the distance is far away. There is a distance between two hearts, which is the furthest distance in the world.

A person doesn't like you because you are not the scenery in his eyes, and his heart won't stop for it.

2

The most painful thing in life is "I can't get enough, but I can't let go".

Look on the bright side. You don't need to love lowly. From love to letting go, it's just a mountain and a river will be silent forever.

Maybe the process of letting go makes you feel deeply hurt and scarred. However, after the cold winter, the spring will eventually warm the earth. One day, someone will tell you with all his warmth: "Love never leaves."

3

And what you have to do now is to love yourself well.

"Let go of one thought, and life will be safe". In fact, letting go and persisting are just between one thought. If you look down, your heart will be broadened.

at last, I found that those people and things I couldn't bear to part with were just a name and a story.

The rest of your life is very expensive. Choose the person who makes you happy and warm for the rest of your life, not the one who tries hard to please yourself.

I read a sentence the other day, "The so-called obsession is love in my own eyes, annoyance in the eyes of the other party, and meanness in the eyes of others."

this is not pleasant to hear, and it may also make me angry. However, this is the case.

knowing that the other person not only dislikes himself, but also hurts himself, but still likes him for a long time. Isn't that embarrassing yourself? Why bother?

there are many ways to forget someone.

You can travel, enjoy the beautiful scenery, release your feelings and broaden your horizons.

You can also talk with two or three confidants to release your emotions.

If you can't forget anything, go to him. If you get hurt more, your heart will naturally die.

To love and be loved, if it is two of a kind, is a happy ending. But many feelings in the world are made by fate. The person who loves you is willing to give everything for you, but you are crazy and heartbroken for the person you love. Often, those who attach great importance to feelings and righteousness are infatuated, and they can't do it or let go of their loved ones. Feelings are really unreal, and time will tell. Because the person who loves you can't bear to hurt you, and the person who doesn't love you won't care about you even if you shed tears for him until dawn! Although you clearly know that there is no you in other people's hearts, you are just a doll that he occasionally fills the emptiness. But you are still as obsessed with him as you are with poppies. Obviously, you don't belong to your scenery, but you are still willing to stand in the same place and wait for the door that is difficult to open for you.

I don't know what's going on, but you're passionate about it. You originally wanted to use Sansheng fireworks to get confused for the rest of your life. And the result is that you are passionate, but he is as cold as ice to you. As Zhang Xiaoxian said: Loneliness is never innate, but it begins from the moment you fall in love with that person. Love right will make you smile, love wrong will make you depressed, not thinking, unforgettable!

San Mao once said a classic saying: Love is like Zen of Buddhism-unclear! If we can cut the gordian knot, then there won't be so much entanglement; If you can go against your inner life, there won't be so many love-hate relationships! You can delete or blacken those who are waiting for you, but you can't make yourself forget the person you are worried about all the time. The world of mortals has its own infatuation, and affection is always hurt mercilessly.

there is a good saying: it is not business that catches up. People don't like you and hurt you. Your joys and sorrows have nothing to do with him. In a word, people don't care about you at all. You are not as good as a pet he keeps, and you still have to like others. Is there no good man in the world?

As long as you think that she hates you, he bothers you, and he doesn't take you seriously at all, you will put it down, stop seeing him, stop contacting him, find something you like to do, go out to play and get together with some good friends. You can also try to start a new relationship, and the relationship that really belongs to you will definitely appear.

This is an emotional problem, so it is difficult to say that there is a specific solution. If you really feel it is necessary to let go before you can feel it, then try it. The solution I provide is to let myself know rationally and rationally, and to change my understanding from experience.

1. From the aspect of reason

Speaking of reason, of course, this is about feelings. We know that feelings are the result of my willingness. Even if others hate you and don't like you, you will still care if you like her/him. Therefore, if you let go, you must change this emotional state. For this kind of feelings that will not have results, it is better to deal with long-term pain than short-term pain. With the change of time and distance, your feelings will change greatly, and it may be Liu Fang before you know it.

2. From experience

From experience, we may be dependent on others. We can talk to friends of the same sex to see if they have experienced the same or similar emotional experience. There is also the elders, whose experience is often more profound and convincing. The elders have experienced many things and seen many things. Even if they don't have the same similar experiences and feelings, their rich experience and experience will provide you with a more mature way to solve this problem.

there are very few such people. There's nothing you can't let go of.

If I hurt myself and don't like myself, I will give up this relationship without hesitation. Because the twisted melon is not sweet, although the person who keeps him can't keep his heart, it will hurt himself in the end. Now I still like him, but the love is over and the fate is exhausted. I will bury this love deeply in my heart. Time is the best medicine and it will slowly fade away.

You have paid off your debt

Naturally, you let go

What you can't let go of is the feeling of habitual dependence! Some small emotions have nowhere to put! Come out and look back, it will be very vague!

no matter how excellent the person who doesn't like me is, I won't take him to heart.