Allusions:
During the Spring and Autumn Period, Xi Rui, the minister of the State of Jin, was killed for a crime, and his son Xiang Que was also abolished as a civilian, making a living by farming. I don't blame others for the great changes in my living environment and personal experience. But respect each other and work hard to make a living. At the same time, learn from ancient and modern sages, and their virtues are increasing day by day. Not only my wife admires me, but even people who meet for the first time admire me.
A man is weeding in the field. At lunch time, the wife sent rice to the field and knelt in front of her husband respectfully. He quickly caught it and thanked it frequently. The husband and wife respected each other, and although the food was rough, they also enjoyed themselves.
This situation touched Xu Chen, a doctor of the State of Jin who passed by here, and talked about it. He thinks Xiang Que is a talent for governing the country and strongly recommends him as a military doctor. Later, Xiang Que made great contributions and was promoted to Doctor Qing.
To expand: the allusion of "treating each other as guests" comes from Zuo Zhuan and is dedicated to the relationship between husband and wife. Later, in the era of Xuan Di, a Zhang Chang appeared. Little is known about his talent, writings and achievements, but Thrushcross is widely circulated. He pushes his wife every morning. When the emperor found out, he thought he was rude, so he should be interrogated. He said that there are more couples' houses than thrushes! The emperor was speechless, that's all. Mr. and Mrs. Zhang Chang became a model of "customer-oriented". It is difficult to count how many role models have been set since the Zhang Chang Conference.