If a person wants to become unique, he needs to enter a situation where there is only one thing to do. There is no choice. Even if he wants to escape, there is no way to escape. He can only follow the only thing in front of him. path forward.

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John Rockefeller, the world’s oil king, has a famous saying, “Everyone wants to sail with the strong, but God created your feet just so that you can walk on your own.”

Bill Gates once said that there is only one money-making idol in my heart, and his name is Rockefeller.

As the world's richest man, Rockefeller's net worth is estimated to be US$318 billion, 5 or 6 times that of Bill Gates. The business empire he created once monopolized the United States, and he was an example that Buffett has been following throughout his life.

At the same time, he also founded the University of Chicago and Rockefeller University, and educated the children who have been rich for six generations. His family is still one of the richest financial groups in the world today, and many of his descendants have served as governors and presidents of the United States. Bankers, Vice Presidents, etc.

As an ancestor of the rich, Rockefeller is also a descendant of the poor.

His father is an unlicensed wandering doctor who has been wandering around for many years, making the family life difficult. The mother is an ordinary woman who lives in seclusion, shouldering the heavy task of supporting the family alone.

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Only the paranoid can succeed. This saying is not unreasonable.

In fact, many people will shrink back when they encounter suffering, because people have the instinct to seek advantages and avoid disadvantages, and escape is the easiest thing to do. Paranoid people are different from ordinary people. Their goals are not understood by ordinary people, and their motivation to move forward is beyond the reach of ordinary people.

Always prepare for a goal, practice for one thing over and over again, and when the time is right, success will become a matter of course.

Mr. Yuzi, who works with me on the radio show, is also a paranoid person who pursues perfection. Every time I record a recording, it takes him seven or eight hours, even though it can be done in two hours.

Before recording, he would read each manuscript five or six times. When he encountered a sentence that was difficult to pronounce, he would communicate with me how to replace it with synonyms. We once had a dispute over whether to change "Liu Lang doesn't have the habits of a playboy" to "Liu Lang doesn't have the habits of a rich man" or "Liu Lang doesn't have the habits of a playboy."

Recording at home on weekends, he often kept waiting because it was too noisy outside. If he was not satisfied, he would pause or re-record. After recording, he would spend several hours editing, even cutting out the sound of exhalation. .

His radio program has always been loved by the audience. Each program is a high-quality one. With nearly 700,000 views, he quickly became a contract anchor of Lizhi.

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Born as a human being, there are thousands of people with different faces. Human nature is the most easily overlooked, and the ability to work depends on whether you dare to work together. Fight to the end on something.

Even if you are born with a good voice, if you have a buoyant attitude towards singing, you may not be able to become a good voice in China; even if you are born with well-developed motor cells, you still need to cross countless railings before you can run into the world. 12 seconds 88.

God will give everyone some talents. If you don’t cherish them, they will be taken away. If you suffer enough in the process of struggle, one day you will be turned over. If you are not turned over for the time being, it must be because your sincerity is not enough.

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Of course, as the ordinary majority, even if we are paranoid enough to lose our lives, it is difficult to become Jack Ma or Steve Jobs.

What we have to do is to raise the requirements for ourselves, do our best, and do everything well at hand.

As long as you have the mentality, consciousness and desire of "if you don't do it, it's enough, but if you do it, you must be serious", even if your original ability is not strong, you will eventually be able to gain blessings and improve your ability through persistent efforts.

Paranoia is different from seriousness and diligence. Seriousness and diligence have utilitarian purposes. For example, if you study very diligently in order to get good grades in the exam, if you know the answer in advance, you probably won't work so hard.

Paranoia is a quality that pursues getting to the bottom of things. For example, if you cannot solve a question, you will have to figure it out even if you bite off the tip of your pen, even if the teacher has clearly told you that this question will not be tested in the exam.

At work, outstanding people often try their best to do their best, and strive to do their best in every job, no matter before, during or after the event.

Life is originally a competition. In this competition, no one cares where you come from, and no one cares who you are. In the eyes of others, you are just your identity and behavior. , a collection of thoughts.

The more you think you can do it, the smarter you will become, and a positive attitude will push you to success step by step. The deeper you delve into anything, the more fascinating it becomes and you become more and more comfortable with it.

Instead of living in a gloomy mood that neither wins nor fails, and becomes a coward who knows neither joy nor sorrow, it is better to boldly challenge the goal regardless of failure.

When the red rose is in bud and ready to bloom, only by cutting off other branches and leaves around it can it stand out in the future.

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Why do most people in this world choose the same path? It's because it's safe, the risk is low, and it's less painful.

If an individual wants to become different, he needs to enter a situation where there is only one thing to do. There is no choice. Even if he wants to escape, there is no way to escape. He can only follow the only road in front of him. Go forward.

When you choose an extraordinary life, it is equivalent to choosing loneliness and becoming an alien. If you choose an unusual path, you are destined to pay an unusual price.

Andy Grove, former chairman of Intel, said that only the paranoid who immerse themselves in one thing can survive.

American psychologists say that geniuses have the characteristic of focusing on one problem.

Paranoia is the core of excellent survivability. This is not a moment of creativity, but the persistence of constantly studying and looking for answers.