We are no longer surprised by reports about a 67-year-old mother giving birth. No matter what the final result is, the child has been born. Even if the old man and old woman have to face fines for over-birth, it is their own business. We can see in some reports that the old man is very confident and confident. He said that he had a pension of 10,000 yuan per month and had worked as a lawyer. If he really needed to be fined, he would take up legal weapons to protect his legitimate rights and interests. The editor feels that there is really no need for the old man to be like this. His pension is so high and he is happily having a son in his old age. There is no need to be unhappy about a fine of several thousand yuan.
When it comes to having a baby, we have always advocated that the best age is around 26 years old, and those over 30 years old are considered advanced mothers. It is very dangerous for older women to give birth to children. This old man is still safe at the age of 67, which is really a big risk. There was such a case in our village. There was a fellow villager whose family was very poor. Due to family planning restrictions, he only gave birth to one daughter when he was young. Since the two-child policy was relaxed, fellow villagers have always thought about having another son to continue the family line. In this way, he insisted on having a second child regardless of his and his wife's age of 45.
But the unbelief happened during the birth. This time the fellow was satisfied and gave birth to two sons. However, his wife was not able to avoid the risk during the birth and died. At this time, the fellow almost fainted, and the poor baby at home had no milk to eat. He truly answered the saying that extreme joy brings sorrow, and also answered the saying that if you don't seek death, you won't die. This incident later made the news, and many people made material donations. But what's the use of this? It won't save you for a long time. And once the news about this kind of thing is over, fellow villagers still have to live a real life. Now two years have passed, and his children have grown to two years old, but they live a normal life. In the words of the common people, they are worse than pigs and dogs. Just looking at them makes people shed tears of pity.
Why do you have to have a son? As the saying goes: There are times in life that must come, but there are no times in life, so don’t force it. This is a wise saying that remains unchanged throughout the ages. Some things just can't be forced. The things that come from forcing are either harmful monsters or annoying monsters. Just like this fellow countryman of mine, he has a child, but his wife is gone, and the child is born without the care of his mother. This is not raising children, it is simply pushing the babies into a pit of fire. Not only that, but their eldest daughter, who was originally in school, has dropped out of school to help look after her two younger brothers at home. The food and clothing are not comparable to those of children of the same age. Netizens often say that poor children are ambitious. We have only seen the rich second generation who have no worries about food and clothing, but we have never seen the upright poor boy.
In fact, in the final analysis, our people still have not been able to change their old ideas. Many people live in traditional thinking or in their own random thoughts. If we have experience in rural life, we will know that the most common saying among rural people is that it doesn’t matter if you are poor, there is wealth if you have people. There is also the saying that I don’t care if I don’t have money, but I can’t have both money and children. These are words that most rural people often talk about, sometimes to comfort themselves, and sometimes to persuade others. Comfort yourself with peace of mind, and admonish others. If others listen and believe it, they will follow you and fall into confusion.
Life is life, and it will not change just because we read some chicken soup for the soul that pleases us. We often say that we walk the road by ourselves, and our destiny is in our own hands. Therefore, when we live, we must have a serious attitude. Although our ideas are not guaranteed to be completely correct, we cannot ignore our own true situation and casually use other people's thoughts to decide our lives. As some netizens said, everyone is a human being. Since we are all human beings, we must be responsible for ourselves and bear the consequences of our own choices. Because life is a reality with cause and effect, and in the end you will have to bear the consequences for whatever cause you sow.