This is a world where no one can shake people's hearts by inciting propaganda.
Without sufficient cognition, understanding of the world and correct values, society would not develop so fast.
Carnegie, a master of success, said that people's greatest weakness is that they pay too much attention to other people's opinions and reactions, are full of worries, and complicate the originally quite simple things.
If a person wants to dominate his own life, he must stick to his own path, do what he wants and live a happy life in live high.
Xiao Li, who just entered the art school, was once very insecure. On the physical education class, the teacher said to her, "You look very slim. Why are you so stiff? " Xiao Li bowed his head shyly. She saw that her classmates' movements were beautiful and skilled, but she couldn't even split. Her heart was very contradictory, and she once doubted whether she had chosen the wrong major.
She is also wondering whether she should concentrate on practicing and keep fit like her classmates. But after much deliberation, she decided not to do so. What she is best at is culture class, so she should study hard. It doesn't matter what others say.
Starting from the university, Xiao Li contributed articles from major newspapers and magazines to write his own column and founded a self-media studio. In just a few years, she studied, accumulated and wrote every day, and proved her strength with time and experience. During this period, not only was her culture class among the best, but her health gradually improved.
Everyone should stick to the truth opened up for himself, and not be intimidated by rumors or bound by other people's opinions.
An independent and thoughtful person, the most valuable thing is to stick to his own ideas, not blindly follow others, so that he loses his way on the road of life.
On the road of life, everyone will suffer criticism and strange eyes from others, and at this time, we will inevitably feel angry.
But don't be really angry. Being angry will only indulge your emotions blindly, and eventually you can't control it and become a person you hate.
Dante has a famous saying: "Go your own way and let others talk".
Real education is to tolerate people who are different from you. Only in this way can you keep a peaceful and quiet heart and continue to pursue what live high wants.
Colleague Lily is a vain woman. She always dresses up beautifully every day. She always wants to give people the feeling that her family background is strong or her boyfriend is rich. She always cares about other people's compliments every day, and she will feel very happy.
One day, my colleague Xiao Zhang was scolded by the leader and felt very unhappy. Sitting there, she was very humble. Lily happily ran to show off the limited edition LV backpack she just bought. Before showing off a few words, Xiao Zhang poured a pot of cold water, just like Mars hitting the earth. The scene was once out of control.
In the end, the two were severely criticized by the leaders and wrote a review of 10000.
Lily seems to live in another world. She has some capital but doesn't know how to keep a low profile. She is really unpopular, and Xiao Zhang did not manage his emotions well and lost his clear judgment in irrationality.
The master of life never lets his emotions control him and then makes a move of regret. They only control their emotions and become masters of life.
Sometimes, if you want your mood not to be influenced by others and not to live in other people's opinions, you must re-recognize yourself, list your strengths and weaknesses, understand what you have done well, and how to avoid what needs improvement, otherwise it will become a topic of ridicule by others.
Turn your attention to others and pay more attention to yourself.
If you feel that you are not perfect enough, read more books, study more and enrich yourself, so that you will get better gradually.
When a person's inner world is rich, he will feel full and practical.
As I grow older, I become more and more aware of how important it is to stabilize my emotions in my work and life. When you meet something, take a deep breath, don't worry, don't complain, and try to solve it.
Breathe a sigh of relief if it is solved, and don't explode if it is not solved. After all, the outbreak can only cause more serious damage. The closer the relationship, the heavier the damage.
Everyone knows what you don't like, and you don't like yourself. People who are not completely influenced by emotions and always keep a sober attitude are truly admirable.
These people are strong in life.
Sometimes, other people's opinions can be used as a mirror of our own behavior, and we can correct our goals according to other people's suggestions.
However, if you care too much about other people's opinions, you can only live in other people's eyes and remarks on the way forward. Lack of self-determination will only make your life unable to be free and easy, unable to find the direction of progress, and naturally unable to reach the other side you want to go.