When people really grow up, they will find that there are three kinds of people around them who cannot have deep friendship with them. If you have a deep friendship, it will not do you any good. Unkind people

Another person who is not worth dating is an unkind person.

Kindness is the foundation of human beings. If a person is not kind, no matter how good he is, it is useless.

From ancient times to the present, kindness has always been a quality respected by people.

You see, many famous people have said famous quotes about kindness.

For example, Hugo said: A kind heart is the sun.

Shakespeare once said: A good heart is worth gold.

It can be seen that kind people are popular.

So, if a person is not kind, it is best not to associate with him, and he is not worthy of deep friendship.

People who can’t keep secrets

People who can’t keep secrets can’t have deep friendships.

Some people’s mouths are not just for eating, they can also say a lot of things they shouldn’t have said. Such people are very annoying.

As long as you tell him a little thing, he may spread it to everyone.

There is a word to describe such a person, called "eight wives". When we say that a person talks too much and cannot keep secrets, we will call him "eight wives", regardless of whether he is a man or a woman.

It is worth dating someone who can keep secrets. At least he will not reveal your ancestors for eighteen generations.

Really, when it comes to choosing people to have close friendships with, people who can't keep secrets will only bring you harm, not friendship.

So such people are not worthy of deep friendship.

People who are not trustworthy

Of course, we cannot have close friendship with people who are not trustworthy.

The person who impressed me the most was once considered my best friend, but through one incident, I blocked her.

The year before last, she asked me to borrow money and said she would pay it back in a few months. A few months later, she didn't return it, but she said she was sorry, so I let it go.

After another year, she still didn’t pay it back. This time, she didn't even say anything, and even acted like it didn't happen.

I mentioned it to her later, but she said lightly that she didn’t have it for the time being and would pay it back when she had it.

The money is actually not much, and I can afford to lose.

Seeing that she was so reasonable that she owed money, I blocked her in anger.

I don’t want to associate with such a person. That little money was used as charity.

So, when you grow up, you will understand that you cannot have close friendship with these kinds of people.