Never complain that complaining will make you lose face. Complaining will make people arrogant and rude to you, prompting others to do what you complain about. The best way to win others' help is to praise others.
3. Pay attention to the external image. Things are not what they are, but what they are. Invisible things hardly exist. Beautiful appearance is the best interpretation of perfect interior.
4. Don't express your position in a hurry. Don't be in a hurry to express your position or opinions. You can make people guess you. Cautious silence is the assistant of the wise. Once you make a statement, your decision is easy to be criticized and blamed. If all these decisions end in failure, you will be even more unlucky.
5. Know your own advantages and cultivate and support your best talents.
6. Don't exaggerate. Exaggeration will make people doubt your judgment. Smart people show rigor and sometimes deliberately narrow down their words.
7. Adapt to the hard work of people around you, but don't overdo it. Don't try to show off every day, otherwise you can't surprise people. Showing a little novelty every day will always make people look forward to it and think it is "magical".
8. When you are lucky, be prepared for bad luck. Take dry food and an umbrella. With a little help, the flower of friendship will bloom. Maintain a group of friends and grateful people around you. Some things look worthless today, but they will be worth a hundred times one day.
9. Don't always talk about yourself. If you always talk about yourself, you can either brag about yourself or belittle yourself. The former is a sign of vanity, while the latter is a sign of humility.
10, a threesome must have a teacher, let a friend become his mentor, and combine the fun of talking with the benefits of learning. Keep in touch with understanding people, your words will be praised by others, and you will benefit a lot from listening to others.
1 1, concise, clean and concise language sounds comfortable and pleasant. Good things will be twice as good if they are expressed neatly, and bad things may not be so bad if they are expressed neatly.
12, strong and not fragile. Some people's emotions are often beyond words, which shows how fragile they are. They are often angry, which makes others feel bored and annoyed. Their emotions are more sensitive than eyeballs. They only think of themselves and become slaves to their likes and dislikes.
13, don't live in a hurry. If you know how to arrange your time, you will know how to enjoy it.
14. What is worth starting is worth ending. Smart people always finish what they start.
15, rush back and stop when you are ready. A timely and beautiful retreat is as important as a beautiful attack. Help a person for a long time, even the goddess of luck will be tired. Be careful at the end of everything. Getting out smoothly is more difficult than getting in smoothly. The most important thing is not to win applause from others when you arrive, but to miss you when you leave.
16, whoever wants to get help in difficult times should be lenient with others on weekdays. Sadie
17, the speech is aggressive and may not be reasonable. Sadie
18, if I see far, it is because I stand on the shoulders of giants. newton
19, modesty makes people progress, and pride makes people fall behind. Mao Zedong
20, do a good thing, inner peace; If you do a bad thing, you will feel ashamed. -Han Guangshen
2 1. Believe in yourself before others will believe in you. -Turgenev
When you are angry, count to ten before you speak. If you are very angry, count to one hundred. Jefferson
23. It is always more difficult to reform yourself than to ban others. -Lu Xun
An upright man is open and poised while a petty man is anxious and worried.. Confucius
25, shame is almost brave. Confucius
26, if you are not sincere, you will be tired, and if you are sincere, you will not be tired. Shi Yang
27. Selfishness is an obstacle to success. Kun Lv
28, you have to remember, always be happy to give more to others and take less from others. Gorky
29. A gentleman gives people words, and Shu Ren gives people money. -Xun Kuang
30. It is better to talk than to wait. -Zheng Dehui
3 1. Good temper is the best clothes a person can wear in social activities. -Dude
No matter how angry you are, don't do something irreversible. bacon
33. Forget the past and be selfless. mould
34. Only if you are not proud can you be proud, not arrogant. -Zhuge Liang
35. The spirit of a great man should not be self-deprecating. -Zhuge Liang
36. Don't promise others what you can't do. Once you have promised others, you must keep your promise. Washington
Self-control is the instinct of the strongest. -Bernard Shaw
38. Huge buildings are always made of one stone and one wood. Why don't we kill one stone with one stone? I often do odd jobs, that's why. -Lu Xun
39, don't do it with evil small, don't do it with good small. -Liu Bei
40. The state should take morality as the foundation and talent as the goal. -Kangxi
4 1, people who can't tolerate others don't deserve to be tolerated. -Bo Neikes.
42. Modesty makes people progress, while pride makes people lag behind. Mao Zedong
43. Consciousness is the mother of progress and inferiority is the source of degeneration, so consciousness is indispensable and inferiority is indispensable. -Zou Taofen
44, people help me, never forget; I help people, remember. -Hua
45. When you have power and fame, despicable people dare not look at you with jealous eyes; However, when you plummet, they are the ones who show the greatest toxicity. -"Fables of krylov"
46. Poverty, simplicity and simplicity are exactly where we revolutionaries can overcome many difficulties! -Fang Zhimin: Lovely China
47. It is not enough for a person to have only material life without spiritual life; With a full revolutionary spiritual life, even if the material life is worse and the difficulties are greater, it can be tolerated and overcome. -Tao Zhu: Ideal, Sentiment and Spiritual Life
48. The beneficiary must always keep that kindness in mind, but the benefactor must not keep it in mind. -Cicero
49. No matter how crows decorate themselves with peacock feathers, crows are crows after all. -Stalin
50. People's behavior should be like clothes, not too tight or too particular, but a little loose to facilitate work and exercise. -"Essays of Bacon"
5 1, life can't be deceived, one should live aboveboard. Xuefeng Feng
What a liar gets is that no one will believe him even if he tells the truth. -Aesop's fables
Honesty and diligence should be your eternal companions. Franklin
54. Everything should be down-to-earth, not daydreaming, not in vain, and down-to-earth. If you study with this attitude, the truth will be clear, and if you do things with this attitude, you will succeed. -Li Dazhao
55. If you have a good plan, then take courage to go ahead, don't be discouraged, and don't give up halfway. Taking the curve is not a failure, and there is no need to feel sad. -Selected Works of Tao Fen
56. Being poor and living a simple life is exactly where we revolutionaries can overcome many difficulties. -Fang Zhimin: Lovely China
57, frugal servant life, not only can make the spirit happy, but also can cultivate the revolutionary quality. -Xu Teli
58. Humans also need dreamers, who are obsessed with the selfless development of a cause and therefore cannot benefit from their own material interests. -Madame Curie: Biography of Madame Curie
59. I only ask you one thing: if you can live through this era, don't forget, don't forget the good guys and don't forget the bad guys. -Fu Qike: Report under the gallows
Freedom is the right to do everything permitted by law. -Montesquieu: On the Spirit of Law
6 1, the inevitable consequence of luxury-the disintegration of weathering-in turn caused the corruption of interests. -Rousseau: On Science and Art
62. It is important to get used to places where you can't sleep well at first, which is the way to avoid encountering bad beds in the future. Generally speaking, once a hard life becomes a habit, it will greatly increase the feeling of happiness, while a comfortable life will bring endless troubles. -Rousseau: Amir
63, don't be too obsessed with laissez-faire, completely unrestricted freedom, it has a lot of harm and danger. -"Fables of krylov"
64. It's best not to dream about anything at sunset, but to get into work at sunrise. -Xie Juezai
65. Climbing the peak of science is like climbing Mount Everest. Cowards and lazy people can't enjoy the joy and happiness of victory if they want to overcome countless difficulties and obstacles. -Chen Jingrun
66. Success = efforts+correct methods+less empty talk. -Einstein
67. Some people want more things because of greed, but now they have lost everything. -Aesop's fables
68. The greed for money (a problem that all of us are guilty at present) and the greed for happiness make us their slaves. In other words, we threw our whole body and mind into the abyss. Mercenarism is a nasty disease, but the pursuit of pleasure is even more shameful and hopeless. -Ron Ganus.
69. I always feel that the vulgar goals that people strive for-property, vanity and luxurious life-are contemptible. -Einstein
70. No matter the trend of the times or the fashion of society, people can always go beyond the times and society and take their own correct path with their noble qualities. Now, everyone is running, chasing, fighting for refrigerators, cars and houses. This is the characteristic of our times. But there are still many people who don't pursue these material things. They pursue ideals and truth and gain inner freedom and peace. -Einstein
7 1, happiness, if it only belongs to me, the property of one person in Qian Qian, then get out of here quickly! -"Letter to Botquem"
72. Happiness and happiness in life lie not in money, not in love, but in truth. Even if what you want is an animal-like happiness, life will not listen to you having fun while drinking, and it will always give you a blow. -Chekhov
73. In a threesome, there must be a teacher: choose the good and follow it, and change the bad. -Confucius: The Analects of Confucius
74. Enjoy extreme freedom-this is a dangerous and harmful thing. Without discipline, there is no calm belief, no obedience, and there is no way to protect health and prevent danger. Aleksandr Herzen
75. It is wrong to think that the freedom of artists lies in doing what they want to do. This is the freedom of those who play pranks. Stanislavski: The stage is a place to perform life.
76. If we want to realize our life, we should spend all our time on the activities of life, not on the impulse of animal desire. -Selected Works of Li Dazhao
77. There are three friends who benefit, three friends who suffer, friends who are straight, friends who forgive, friends who listen more, and friends who benefit; Friends make friends, friendly and soft, and friends will be destroyed and damaged. -Confucius: The Analects of Confucius
78. One should not make friends casually. Friends, so there are also. -Xunzi: "On Outline"
79. Simplicity is a necessary condition for works of art; In essence, it does not include any external decoration or sculpture. -"belinsky Literature"
80. The real beauty is that beauty itself can shine. Like fashion is a bad fashion, because her appearance will not change because she likes fashion. -Rousseau: Amir
8 1, the gentleman's trip, quiet to cultivate one's morality, frugal to cultivate one's morality, no ambition to stay in the garden, no peace and no distance. -The Ten Commandments and Zhuge Liang's Collection
82. Looking back at the countries and families of sages in the past, it turns out that thrift was defeated by luxury. -Li Shangyin: "Ode to an Epic"
83. Make friends with good people and get help from friends, and you will become better. The so-called "living with good people is like entering Lan Zhi's room and not smelling its fragrance for a long time"; Make friends with bad people, be eroded by friends, and you will become bad with them. As the saying goes, "living with bad people is like entering an abalone room. I haven't heard about it for a long time." So we need to know how to choose gender; Make good friends, not bad ones. -Xie Juezai: Xie Juezai's The Truth of Making Friends and Selected Prose.
Don't treat everyone with distrust, but be cautious and firm. Democritus
85. Choose your friends carefully! Authentic selfishness will put on the mask of friendship, but set a trap to trap you. -"Fables of krylov"
86. It is precious to get help in an emergency, but not everyone will give timely help; God forbids us to make stupid friends, because a fool who works too hard is more dangerous than any enemy. -"Fables of krylov"
Life attitude famous aphorism
1, the eyes are the lights on the body. When the eyes are bright, the whole body is bright; When the eyes are dim, the whole body is black. (Bible)
2, the relationship between people, only honest will last. If you can make good use of it, life is long. Seneca
By default, you are incompetent, which is undoubtedly creating opportunities for failure! (Napoleon)
4. Things with a happy ending don't start like this.
5. Cherish life and cherish today. -Proverbs
6. Life consists of one day, and one day symbolizes life. -Proverbs
7. We only have one life, but if we can use it correctly, once is enough. -English proverb
8. The world is like a mirror: frown at it and it frowns at you; Smile at it, and it smiles back at you. (Samuel)
9. Life can't be twice, but many people are not good at spending it once. -Lequitte
10, what is failure? Is nothing more than the first step towards a better state. (Wendy Phillips)
1 1. A full life is a long life. We should measure life by behavior rather than time. -Little seneca.
12, attitude determines success or failure, no matter whether the situation is good or bad, we should keep a positive attitude, and don't let depression replace enthusiasm. Life can be extremely valuable or useless, depending on your choice. (Giggs)
13, life is gorgeous in shining and real in ordinary. Burke
14, whoever can enrich every moment with profound content is prolonging his life indefinitely. -Courtesy
15, the shortening of life is directly proportional to the waste of thought. -Darwin
16. Every day we wake up is a new beginning and another opportunity. Why waste time on self-pity, laziness and selfishness? (Kathy Bate)
17, in order to ensure success, you should make serious efforts to keep your physical, psychological and moral health. I can take anything from a person, but there is one thing I can't do, and that is the freedom to choose my attitude towards life under certain circumstances. (Frank)
18, only by continuous innovation can we continue to succeed!
19, a person can't bring confidence to others unless he has confidence. Only those who are convinced by themselves can convince others. (Anonymous)
20. The road is trodden by people, the history is written by people, and every step of people is writing their own history. (Ji Hongchang)
2 1. The leading force in today's world is not force, but innovation.
Almost any situation-good or bad-is influenced by our attitude towards it. (Academia Sinica)
23. The collective feeling will save you from danger and get close to your goal of success.
I'll tell you the secret of my goal. My only strength is my persistence. (Pasteur)
25. The worst bankruptcy is losing your enthusiasm. (Arnold)
26. I am confident that if I live for 200 years, I will hit the water for three thousand miles. (Mao Zedong)
Quotations from famous sayings about life attitude
1, don't say winter scenery to summer insects, you have your life circle, others have others' life circles, and some truths will be shown off in others' eyes. An idiot told you there were eggs! You have to answer, well, it's quite long.
2, bad style is not practiced, stupid style is not practiced, and good style can be said and practiced.
3. The plan does not change quickly, and the change is not as fast as the telephone. Leave room for yourself and others to set goals. But it must be carried out as planned.
Don't think that all people are human, some just look like individuals. Leave them alone. Let them go and stay away is the only thing you have to do.
Try not to argue with others, unless you think the result is important to you, you must convince them.
6. There are two dilemmas in life. One is to put what's in your head into someone else's head, and the other is to put the money in someone else's pocket into your own pocket. Take your time. It's no use worrying.
7. Your world is as big as your heart. You just look forward to a steamed bun every day, and that's it for you.
8. You don't owe your children anything, never. You owe your parents too much, bring them up, keep them from getting sick and starving, and let them get an education.
9. Forgive yourself and others. Leave others a way out in everything. If you really want to beat the other side, don't leave any room and don't give the other side any chance to make a comeback. This is not a contradiction. One is to be a man, and the other is to do things.
10, don't lose your temper easily, it's cowardly unless you trust someone very much. Otherwise, never let others know what you are going to do next.
1 1. The process is as important as the result. Just try your best at two o'clock.
12, saving face for each other means saving face for yourself. If you don't want to stay, don't stay.
13, tell the other party in advance all possible bad situations, and be sincere.
14, don't compare with others, just compare with yourself. God knows you are making progress every day. What will you be like in a year? What it will be like in ten years. It's just that you can keep improving every day. Want to learn English? You only need to remember one word and one grammar every day. It seems that you will become an expert in ten years.
15, don't break the hidden rules, sometimes the hidden rules are more terrible than the rules hanging on the wall.
16, there are only two kinds of people, one is eating people and the other is being eaten by people. Which one do you want to be?
17, words in the way, ugly clothes, is a bluff for ordinary people. Cultivation is king!
18, either you are very powerful or you are very knowledgeable, otherwise you are two knives. This is meaningless.
Attitude to life
1, don't think that you are personally important. Without you, the sun will still rise tomorrow. That's what Murphy said, that's right.
2, feelings are not reciprocal, you care about each other, you don't have to ask whether the other person cares about you, you pay what you want, so you don't have to be wronged.
Only parents and money are reliable these days. Friends and women depend on your luck. It is unacceptable for people to live by luck.
As long as you are willing, you don't have to care about anyone's evaluation of you, as long as you can stand loneliness, otherwise I suggest you go with the flow.
It is a fact that the truth is in the hands of a few people, but don't ignore the theory that existence is reasonable. Unless you have a strong determination to change the world, you have to adapt to life.
6, don't believe in idealism, it is the ruling tool of class, materialism is the last word. This has nothing to do with your religious beliefs. Even if the Bodhisattva is willing to help you, there are many conditions. It's better to ask yourself than others.
7. Unless you want to die, bow your head.
8. The world is absolutely unfair. Either you obey or you tilt the balance to yourself, otherwise you shouldn't blame others, it's useless.
9. Kindness is good, but have you ever thought that you might as well make a career and help more people?
10, there are no good guys and bad guys in this world, and not all businessmen. Everything depends on the situation. Just remember that everyone has weaknesses, and weaknesses are greed and fear.
1 1, don't believe the story that hard work will lead to success. The key is the standard of your success and the direction of your efforts. Trust a man, even if you try hard, you can't have children. Don't believe any theory that can change your life. Birth comes first, luck comes second.
12, admit it if it fails. If you do something wrong, you must admit it. Don't give reasons. That will only make people feel more disgusting.
13. No matter what society, people eat people in essence. Don't naively believe in the existence of Xanadu. Just work hard for yourself and your family,
14, don't gamble, don't take drugs, stay away from gambling and cherish life.
15. It's normal and lovely to believe that you are unique when you are young and that you can change the world. Thirty years old, wake up, man. Before we talk about other things, you can take care of yourself and your family.
16, don't always be immersed in confession, let alone blame yourself for all your mistakes. If you are already like this, go to the hospital to see if you are depressed, or you choose to die, otherwise you will live a miserable life.
17, there is nothing a man can't catch up with, as long as you work hard. Maybe a woman is chasing a man.
18, people who fall in love with each other first will definitely suffer, just admit it. No shame.
19, people are shameless and ghosts are afraid. If you can't learn to be shameless, then you must learn how to tolerate the shameless of others.
20. Everyone has different values. Don't judge others with your own judgment. This is respect.
2 1, have something to say to the knower, there is food for the hungry. Choose to listen at other times, and whoever pours more will be awesome.
22. Don't think you are awesome. In fact, you are nothing. You are not as fragile as a bird.
23. People have a lot of helplessness in life, and there are many problems that you can't solve, or you recognize and ignore. Either you die, it's that simple.
24. Life is impermanent. Don't miss it. Don't listen to what you missed. This is a trick to comfort yourself. Leave it to others if you miss it. Don't choose to miss it unless you can't. Lying to yourself is the least fun.
25. Do your best every day, cherish what you have now, and you will be happy. There is no distinction between young and old on the road to death, and all opportunities are regarded as unique.
26. Practice reading. Don't trust books, but it doesn't prevent you from reading more. Remember to practice.
27. The real thing needs no proof. If you firmly believe that you are right, don't care what others think of you. If you believe that you are a good person, you don't need any proof. In my experience, what is proved is generally much more fake.
28. There is love, but it depends on luck.
29. Don't think you are smart or stupid. It doesn't matter. It will be painful for you to think about this problem. There are no wise men and no fools in the world.
Money is a good thing, but don't live for it. Life is so meaningless.
3 1, what my parents said is right, and it's for your own good, whether you accept it or not.
No matter how the world changes, the core remains the same. It is simply nonsense to want to change the feudal tradition of thousands of years in a few decades.
33, cultivate one's morality, family, rule the country, and level the world. . Remember this order and don't play backwards.
34. To understand others, the premise is that you have to understand others. On the contrary, don't be naive to think that everyone will understand you. The person who thinks you should understand you must pay more attention. Maybe she doesn't understand you the most.
35. You should believe that love will blind some truths, and people in love will magnify each other's advantages. So don't complain when you don't love each other. It's your own fault. You should be prepared.
36. There are no fools in the world. Don't be clever with anyone. You can't make progress unless you are exposed. If you are exposed, you will be humiliated.
37. Only women can bleed profusely for a month without dying, so they are strange animals. You choose to admit it, you admit it, there is no need to sigh like this.
38. People are selfish, especially those who are in love. No matter how generous he seems, you should be careful what you say.
39. Say 3 points, eat 7 points and consider everything.
40. To challenge the strong, even if you all fail, you are also warriors. Don't bully the weak, that is Niu B.
4 1, don't treat the person who pretends to be B as a human being, that's conniving at him. Unless you want something, cooperate with him.
42. A good dog doesn't bite, and a cow X doesn't bark.
43. It is easy for a prodigal son to turn back, but difficult for a shrew to turn back. 10 prodigal son returns nine, 100 bitch is not necessarily good.
44. What the eyes see and what the ears hear are not necessarily true. The word "smart" is written like this: listen with your ears, see with your eyes, don't talk with your mouth, and think with your heart.
45. When analyzing people and things, you should have your own point of view. Without investigation, there is no right to speak, especially the courage to challenge authority. I predict that "authority" will be synonymous with ox X in ten years.
46. The meaning of living lies in learning. You should always be like a dry sponge, constantly learning and learning. The more you learn, the better you will be. You can enlarge everyone's advantages to learn, and you are a cow.
47. It's okay for a man to be ridiculous before he is 30, but don't break the law.
48. Subjective emphasis equals objective lack. If the average person actively mentions his best, then he must be the least. For example, when someone meets a stranger and says that he is righteous, he is actually more unjust than anyone else.
49. I would rather rob in broad daylight than steal. At least some people say you have balls. Stealing is the most shameful act. Don't sneak around even if you steal someone. Aboveboard. No one dares to say that you are not good.
50. Rogues are cuter than intellectuals just because they are cute. Rogues are real, and they are not tired of living. Every man has the same idea about money, beauty and power. If you meet a lecherous, don't associate with him. He is not normal, or he is a traitor. This is a terrible person.
5 1, keep yourself and you will live happier than pretending to be b all day.
52. Silence is the most powerful weapon against reality.
Smoking and drinking are not as terrible as people describe, but you must have the virtue of smoking and drinking.
55. Want to know a man? Drink and gamble with him and see his attitude towards money and wine. Pretend to be B, but don't pretend to be B. Those who can't drink but don't refuse can pay the bill. I can drink very much, but I don't play with him. * * * * lost a lot, and the money came quickly, and I could make friends with a smile. Crying and screaming don't give money.
56. Don't give any woman face except your mother and the woman you love. Aren't men and women equal? You treat him like a homosexual, which is respect.
Young people should not care too much about their health. The disease will always get sick and die. Work more and you won't be tired at ordinary times.
58. A person's level is determined by himself, which has nothing to do with composition. If you despise yourself, you will feel ashamed. You think you are noble, and you are noble if you restrain your words and deeds with noble conduct. Seeing clearly is a constraint, not a show off.
59. Thinking determines action, and action determines the result. So think twice before you do. Once you choose, don't regret it. Just sometimes I don't necessarily remember my own thoughts.
60. It won't do you any harm to use your head more. You must learn a lot, but you don't have to do it. It will come in handy one day.
6 1, you can't blame the government for its bad luck, and you can't blame the society for taking the blame. You can walk at your feet and take your own medicine. Your situation today is caused by your performance yesterday. Don't blame anyone.
62, you can be proud, you can make public, and excessive modesty equals pride.
63. Learn to express your ideas correctly and practice from "I want". The more direct the better.
64. Learn to reject others correctly and practice from "no". The more direct the better.
65. Doing it is better than lying in bed and waiting for ideas.
Be a strong person, don't show weakness, and don't ask anyone for sympathy. We can be envied, but we don't need sympathy We don't need any sympathy.
67. Love a woman, as long as she is not desperate, take her away, and then give it to her, love her, love her.
68. Believe that you are unique, that everything you do is unique, that your love is unique, and that your experience is unique. There is nothing to refer to, because you directed all this yourself.
When people are frustrated, you should take good care of them. Don't indulge yourself, at least psychologically.