1. Kindness does not command soldiers, while righteousness does not command wealth. A kind and soft-hearted person cannot lead the army, and a person who is loyal first cannot be in charge of financial power. The battlefield is a matter of life and death, and women can't be kind at the critical moment, otherwise we can only lose the whole game and lose more lives.
so the general must be ruthless. Loyal people in the world have many good friends. They value friends over money, so they are generous with their wealth, so the righteous can't keep their wealth, and they can't keep it. Because they don't care about money at all.
2. If you don't do it, you won't have trouble all your life. Don't be a middleman, don't vouch for others, and you won't be troubled all your life. To be a middleman, you must know both sides and be friends. It's okay not to have an accident. If something goes wrong, you will be blamed. In the end, things went wrong and friends were gone.
3. Adults are uncomfortable, but comfortable is not an adult. Those who want to do something are generally uncomfortable and can't let their temper lead them. Being free and unfettered every day, generally nothing can be achieved. If you want to achieve great things, you have to put up with what ordinary people can't.
4. Eat other people's food and look at their faces; Carrying people's bowls is under their control. If you depend on others in your life, you have to obey the constraints of others. Economic power determines the right to speak. If you want to be left alone, you have to stand on your own feet. Young people don't listen to their parents, but they depend on them financially. This is not kind.
5. The rich are determined by their fate, while the rich are diligent. Whether a person can be rich or not is predestined by heaven. Whether a person can live a well-off life depends on personal efforts. Sometimes there must be something in life, and there is no need to force it in life. It's enough to be down-to-earth, clear and honest, and do your own thing well.