-Emmanuel Kant
2. Don't be angry because you can't make others what you want, because you can't make yourself the role model you want.
Thomas
As long as you look down on everything, there is nothing to worry about; As long as you don't exaggerate the situation because of anger, there is nothing to be angry about.
-Turgenev
4, people need to be gentle, don't be too angry, because anger often brings great disasters to irritable people.
-Aesop
Being angry with an idiot risks making ourselves idiots.
Flaubert
6. When you are angry, count to ten before you speak. If you are very angry, count to one hundred.
Jefferson
7. If the enemy makes you angry, it means that you are not sure to win him; If a friend makes you angry, you still care about his friendship.
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anonymous
8. Stupid people only get angry, but smart people know how to live up to expectations. It is better to be angry than to live up to expectations.
-Li Jin "Anger is better than disappointment"
9. There are good times and bad times in life, and it is impossible to have bad times everywhere; There are peaks and valleys in life, and it is impossible to have valleys everywhere. It is a shallow life to be cocky because of prosperity or peak, and depressed because of adversity or trough. Real life needs tempering. In the face of setbacks, if you just complain and get angry blindly, it is a negative and stupid performance.
-Li Jin "Anger is better than disappointment"
10, if someone does something that makes us angry, we will feel very angry and often want to provoke each other in the same way, so that we will feel more comforted.
We will think, "You have caused me so much pain, and I will punish you and give you some pain. As long as I see your pain, I will feel much better. " Many people believe in this childish behavior, but in fact, when you make the other person suffer, he will fight back to make himself feel better. As a result, the pain on both sides deepened and no one benefited. In fact, what you need most at this time is sympathy and help, and no one should be punished.
When you are angry, go back to your heart and take good care of your anger. If someone makes you suffer, go back to your own pain and take good care of it. Don't say anything or do anything at this time, because words or actions when you are angry will only bring more harm to the other party.
-Li Jie, "Don't be angry, you win"