Listen more and talk less, accept everyone's blame, but keep your final decision.

The quality of life is not directly proportional to the time when we come to this world, but to the happiness we enjoy.

4. Pay attention to personal brand: be a person and do things from the heart, not pretentious, not exaggerated, not deceiving, not following the rules. Waiting for death, always thinking about yourself, gossip is not directed at people, and a gentleman is cautious.

The more intimate a person is with books, the more deeply he feels the unity of life, because his personality has changed: he not only observes with his own eyes, but also observes with countless spiritual eyes. Thanks to their noble help, he will travel around the world with love and sympathy. -Zweig

6. Don't be disappointed in the world, grass will grow in a hundred paces.

7. A wise man will never change his current life track for the past. Every time they encounter unhappiness, they can quickly correct their life direction, dust off their past unhappiness and greet the next moment optimistically. So no matter what you have experienced in the past, you should try to forget it and leave the power of life to the present.

8. Threats and reprimands are emotional violence. When someone uses emotional violence against you, bravely say no and ask him to leave.

9. In many hesitations, you did one thing right, that is, go on the road bravely and don't wander in many hypothetical frameworks. That is a big hurdle in life. You made a correct choice, that is, try again and not be afraid of all new things.

10, physical injury will make people chilling, and verbal injury will make people heartbroken.

1 1. In the past, when I was in pain and sad, I would cry, write a diary of thousands of words, and send a text message to someone saying that it was your fault that I became like this. Now, I will only squeeze out a perfunctory smile and say that I am fine.

12, love can be less realistic, after be lovelorn, but it must be realistic. It's all over, each has its own way to the end of the world, no matter how reluctant you are, let go.

13, be sure to find an opportunity to go to a place where no one knows you, cares about you or asks you. No one knows you, it is the best time for you to start to know yourself; Nobody cares about you. This is your best chance to start taking care of yourself. Nobody asks you, so you have room to examine your real needs.

14, if you get married with a casual and casual attitude, then the best way is to have a casual and casual attitude all your life. You can't just marry him and seriously hope to be loved.

15, you may love someone deeply, but you don't want to be with him forever. Because the time together is too long and too heavy, it will exhaust the deep love. The depth of fate is not determined by time. Some people think that waiting for a lifetime is just an empty joy at the moment of rolling your eyes. The so-called fate is that you can seize it as long as you work hard once in your life.

16, truly confident people are not afraid to expose their shortcomings, let alone admit their ugliness. Trying to cover up and whitewash is really a sign of self-distrust.

17, you never cook until later; From the beginning, a person's life at a loss has been in order now; From not used to parting at all to final peace; From being too crazy in love to being cautious now. In this irreversible process, we can only move forward and become another person. This person may be mature or struggling. I just hope you can be yourself that you don't hate. -Lu Sihao

18, because I cherish some people too much, I carefully keep a safe distance. Keep the clouds light, enjoy the intimacy like honey juice, sacrifice a lot of in-depth communication, and miss the spark of escaping the smell of gunpowder.

19, any woman who is too hard to please actually deprives the other person of the pleasure she has paid for you, because you are so amazing that there seems to be a man missing from your life.

20. I have been looking forward to being in the same city with you. Once upon a time, now and in the future, I have been so extravagant. Even if there is no news, there is always a chance to pass by in the same city.

People who take a step back often take a hundred steps. Lv Benzhong.

Take a step back, often a hundred steps. Disciples' Rules Lv Benzhong takes forbearance as the first priority when he is an official, and forbearance is the door to all good things, especially when he is an official. If you can be more patient than diligence, why not do something?

If an official can't take responsibility for himself, he will fail. People who do things for officials and don't compete with others often gain more; People who take a step back often take a hundred steps forward. People who take advantage often get it too early; Today's efforts will be rewarded. You have to think about it. If you can't be a ninja, you will fail. You really don't know the difference between interests and sages.

Officials should first take anger as a warning and do nothing. When they are handled carefully, they will all succeed. If your husband is angry, you can only harm yourself, but can you harm others? Previous people have tasted words, and they are afraid of everything, and those who wait for details are also called it. If you cover it in detail, you will think that people can't slander it.

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Patience should be the first priority in being an official. Forbearance is the key to all interests, and officials should pay special attention to forbearance when dealing with things. What can you do if you can be patient while being honest and diligent?

If an official cannot bear himself, he is bound to fail. Officials often get more benefits by dealing with things without competing with others; Those who can take a step back first can often take a hundred steps.

If you don't ask for more, you will often get more benefits than you originally wanted; Restraint now will be rewarded in the future. Can't help but think about it seriously! Only those who can't stand themselves will fail. In fact, they don't know the difference between profit and cleverness and stupidity.

An official should first restrain his anger. When things can't be done, we must deal with them seriously and thoroughly, and we can't handle anything well. If you get angry first, you can only harm yourself. How can you harm others? The predecessors once said: when dealing with anything, they are afraid of being treated in one sentence, that is, thorough and careful. If you are careful, you can find a way, and others can't slander you.

Brief biography

Lv Benzhong (1084- 1 145), a native of Shouzhou, was a poet, lyricist and Taoist in Song Dynasty. Poems belong to Jiangxi School, including Chunqiu Collection, Wei Zi's Poems, Poems by Mr. Donglai, etc. He has a large number of poems, about 1270. Lu lived a romantic life of poetry and wine in his early years, learning from Huang Tingjian and having a beautiful poetic style. At the age of 20, he wrote the Sect Map of Jiangxi Poetry Society, which made Jiangxi School famous. Later generations regarded it as Jiangxi School, and later praised Li Bai and Su Shi. After crossing the south, sometimes there is compassion for others, sometimes there are many current events, and the poetic style is more vigorous. Although there are only twenty-seven songs, there are also good comments. Wang Zhuo said that the beauty of his words is also like his poems; Xiao Weng's Ci Theory holds that Xiao Weng's ci works are steady and smooth. Most of his poems are short poems, focusing on expressing personal feelings. Mainly write about parting without hating, amorous feelings, rural scenery and homesickness after crossing the river in the south. The style of ci is novel and beautiful, and it is unique.

Even if the whole world does not understand me, I want to understand the whole world.

1, get through it, even the gloomy things have light; I can't figure it out. Even the best things are dark. Everything in the world is interdependent, and yin and yang are opposite. With the foil of green leaves, the brilliance of safflower can be achieved. No matter how many roads you take in life, there is only one road, but it is divided into countless segments. The road is flat and the heart is more beautiful; Rough road, the in the mind is gloomy. You have to understand that no matter which section of the road, there is always a past.

2. When my long hair is fluttering, when I make my stupidity gentle, when I shed childish affectation, when I am content with being ordinary, when I no longer exaggerate my love at the top of my lungs, when I am no longer what I am now, I decide to change. I promise not to sell myself cheaply, I promise not to miss my old friends, and I promise to marry my perfect self to the best future! I will grow up!

Desire is a fire in my heart. Too much desire makes it easy to go wrong. If there is too little desire, there is no motivation. Others say that desire is not good and people want nothing, but this is wrong. If everyone has no desire, that era will not progress and the world will not change. Therefore, the most important thing is not to have no desire, but to know desire. Know what you want and what you can have. Moderate desire is the source of human strength.

4, sometimes the language will look pale and powerless, and no matter how much you say, it will not play much role, but explanation will become an excuse for others. Simply don't say it, in the promise, prove the facts with actions. Smiling people always make people feel positive, and they are more likely to get promoted. When the smiling person smiles at a meeting or date, people will feel different about you and the chances of success will increase!

We all have our own desert. We are all gold and gold prospectors. We are both seeds and sowers. Many times, we can't be shining gold, but we can be seeds of hope. It takes courage to take risks and perseverance to sow shadows. Gold is passively waiting, perhaps interacting with gravel forever; Seeds are active and can come out to face the wind and rain at any time.

6, success is to insist that others can't insist, success is to look down on others, morning is a hope, a dream, no matter how depressed you are yesterday, you will always see the sun rise; No matter how hard yesterday was, there is always hope today. Life is full of motivation because of dreams. I am not afraid that you will take a small step every day, but I am afraid that you will stagnate. Persistence is a kind of perseverance in life!

7. People never pay attention to the complaints of the gyro and keep pushing it, just to make the gyro turn faster and more stable. No one knows that if there are no bone spurs, the top will fall off. A top can only stand when it is spinning. But the gyro won't notice people's pain, and can only complain about its own misfortune. This gyro will fall off sooner or later, because it doesn't know how to push itself. Only by pushing yourself can a person last long; Don't hold a grudge against the person who pushed you.

8. Being strong doesn't mean you can't cry. Being strong is not giving up when crying. People are always selfish, just unwilling to accept this fact. Some things are lost, which makes us unforgettable more than having them. Those beautiful things, when we have them, often turn a blind eye. Only at a certain moment, when you feel that you are about to catch them, regret, guilt and regret will gradually occupy your heart.

9. No matter what kind of difficulties you encounter, you should keep an optimistic mood and try to give life a smiling face. You know, difficulties are a gift from God. Only by understanding them with a smile can you really enjoy God's gift. Don't think about crying when you are in trouble or unhappy. The first tear is a pearl, the second is a crystal, the third is dew, and the fourth is tap water.

10, the whole world doesn't understand me, I want to understand the whole world. The whole world will never understand me, and I will always understand the whole world. I believe that if you understand the green of spring, you will not hesitate; Knowing the drizzle in spring, my thoughts are no longer yellow; Understand the fragrance of spring, the soul will no longer be melancholy; Understand the vitality of spring, life is no longer bleak. I want to chase the world forever, no matter how the world treats me.

1 1. Sometimes, what imprisons us is not the cage set by the environment, nor the pressure imposed by others, but that we imprison ourselves: we can't see the gathering and scattering of dust, we can't see the success or failure of everything, and we imprison ourselves in a narrow space; Can't forget the past love and hate, can't forget the complicated right and wrong grievances, and dust themselves in dark memories; I can't let go of all kinds of troubles outside my body, nor can I let go of all kinds of entanglements in my heart. As a result, I lost myself for no reason.

Cross the world

1, I would like to be blind. Since then, we have no light, I can't walk, and you can't wake up.

I know I like you, but I don't know where I will be in the future. Because I know you won't take me anywhere. And memory lights up your smile. It takes so much effort to be happy.

I want to share everything with you. I want to embrace everything you have. I want to be with you all my life. I love you. I can't resist. I just love you.

4. I want to know what a person is thinking. Compared with what he has done, the ways and means he has done are actually more important. Your desire determines how you speak or do things. Desire is the most basic element.

I want to take advantage of the good times of my youth to be nice to you. Later, I found that only when I am no longer young can I be good to you. But by this time, you have already left. Then I can only be good to myself.

6. Some people hide in their hearts, while others blurt it out. Maybe someone has been watching you quietly: can you wait for me, wait for me to wake up, wait for me to distinguish right from wrong, wait for me to convince myself, wait for me to climb out of the cliff, and wait for me to sew my chest to see you?

7, the beginning of the story is always like this, just in time, caught off guard. The ending of the story is always like this, two flowers bloom, and the sky is far apart.

8, we will all go ashore, sunny Wan Li, flowers everywhere.

9. The prodigal son wandered in the desert. The widowed old lady built a steel fortress in the forest. After the accountant retired, she opened an inn. A free life usually has no other half.

10, I think the world is wonderful. The trees are full of flowers in sunny days, the lake ripples in rainy days, the sun sweeps through the city, the breeze passes through the fingers, the love songs played by every radio station at night, and the shadows scattered by every mountain road are all words you inadvertently wrote, leaving me to read year after year. The world is your will, and I am the only relic.

You are an angel, because it is the bluest sky. You came to my world and replaced the four seasons with joys and sorrows. Smile is the day, cry is the night.

12, yearning is better than missing, yearning is better than letting it go.

13, sat down against the trunk, with trees all over his head, memories appearing obliquely in the gaps between branches and leaves, and thoughts everywhere. Wake up and clap your trouser legs and walk to an unknown place.

14, I have a life. I am willing to work hard and make money so that all the sufferings and hardships in this world can no longer hurt her.

15, some things are obviously worthless, but they are not willing to throw them away. Sometimes I feel anxious when I can't find it. The problem is that they are getting older and older, and I am afraid to look at them gradually. They are packed in boxes and put in corners, just like movies. I can see another heavy rain at any time. A separation, a cup of coffee, a hug.

16, it's easy to despair of the world, but it's hard to love it. You have to learn to move forward, the crowd is constantly flowing, and you are like a shaking scene around you, taking your own color to where you want to go. Changed the night, changed the city, changed the road signs. You stumble and be a person who loves the world.

17, if you miss someone, you will become a breeze and pass by him gently. Even if he didn't feel it, it was all your efforts. Life is like this, everyone has become the wind he missed.

18, all the stumbling and stumbling are due to their inability to change.

19, I hope that when I get up, you can gently help me bounce off the dust that is not easy to find on my clothes. I hope that when I write, the temperature in the teacup at hand will always be my favorite. I hope we won't feel embarrassed when you are silent. I hope the shoes I bought are the color you want. I hope you will think of me when I call you. I hope you just got up when I said good morning.

20. An oil painting figure, wearing a T-shirt with seven or eight holes, crouched in the sunset, took a deep breath of smoke, slowly spit it out, and said simply, "I also want to be a great person, but my mother told me to go home and farm."