For this problem that puzzles us, Yoko Nakamura, a 9-year-old grandmother, gave the answer in her philosophical book Worth Living.

This book is a summary of Granny Hengzi's life experience for more than 9 years. She has experienced wars, times changes and unhappy marriages, but she still lives every day frankly. The book's insights on work, interpersonal relationship and family education help us solve life problems.

Especially the eight classic sentences, which are worth collecting. When you are confused about "what to work for", you simply and decisively tell yourself that "work is just to make money to support yourself". This is the root of why people have to work.

The playwright Oscar Wilde once said, "When I was young, I thought that money was the most important thing in the world. Now I am old, and I know that it is true."

In p>222, there will be more uncertainties in our life. There will be conflicts between Russia and Ukraine, epidemics will continue to disrupt our lives, and oil prices will soar several times. Faced with the instability and uncertainty of life, only by working to earn money to support ourselves can we protect the people around us and think about life after we settle down.

get used to not complaining when something happens, and solve it by yourself. No matter what happens, you can find a way to solve it.

The hero of "The Old Man and the Sea" didn't catch any fish in San Diego for 84 days in a row. Although he caught a big fish when he went out to sea again, he was only eaten by a shark, but he was still ready to enter a new battle like a soldier. Never complained.

Life can't be smooth sailing, there will always be difficulties, and complaining about endless difficulties only keeps people around you away and makes the problem more complicated.

No matter what happens, tell yourself there is a way, and don't panic. Learning to fend for yourself in life is the ability to live happily. Don't try to get happiness by changing others, but think about "what can I do to be happy" or "how to try to make myself happy here". I think this is the key that should be considered.

Grandma Yoko's husband loves to drink, and spends his salary lavishly on inviting people to drink and eat. Although he said many minor changes, it remained the same.

Grandma Yoko gave up changing her husband. She worked hard and spent every day quietly.

it is very difficult to change other people's personality or behavior. Instead of changing others, try to make yourself happy and take care of yourself.

it is a matter of course that others will not always care about you.

There is a saying in One Hundred Years of Solitude: Life will eventually be a solo trip.

When people grow up, no one will always pay attention to you. "Come and be happy, go and let go." Without relying too much on others, you will be more relaxed in live high.

in any case, don't ignore the things in front of you, which is the most important thing. Your own work, children, housework, no matter what, you can't let your immediate life be messy.

Grandma Yoko's husband is an alcoholic, and her children are sickly. Faced with all kinds of troubles in life, she adopts the method of "sleeping at night and thinking the next morning" to give herself support and strength, and also give herself the ability to solve problems.

life is your own. Only by living every day carefully can we deal with all kinds of problems.

Most things will be solved, and life can only live with a smile.

people often say: one day of sorrow is another day of joy. Life treats you the way you treat life. In the face of difficulties, tell yourself that good things will always come slowly. Don't be afraid, everything will find a solution and life will always get better.

comparing yourself with others makes you feel lost and jealous, which is really meaningless, and it will only consume your energy.

We are often used to comparison, such as life, children, promotion, etc., but we let ourselves enter the strange circle of vanity.

You don't have to compare with others at all. It is said that once comparing with others becomes a habit, all kinds of problems will appear in our life, and we will be trapped in a fog and unable to find a way out.

In fact, each of us has our own life trajectory, and we don't need to demand ourselves according to anyone's standards. Live your life well and pay attention to your growth, which is the real winner in life.

The so-called parenting is actually growth.

what is education? The German philosopher IELTS Bells said: Education is that one tree shakes another tree, one cloud pushes another cloud, and one soul awakens another soul.

In the final analysis, education means that parents slowly influence their children with their own actions. If children want to grow into towering trees, parents should keep growing themselves and keep up with their children's pace, so that children can become better.

Worth Living is a summary of life experience. If you understand these classic quotations, you will be happier in life.

The years ahead are long. May each of us have a life journey worth looking forward to.