It is said that when people reach a certain age, they must try to throw away four things: a meal without nutrition, people who don't love you, people who look down on your relatives and false friends.

Some people summed up this view in three sentences, that is, "less is more, slow is faster, and small is bigger", combined with sweeping the streets, breaking up the separation advocated by Japan.

① Less is more, from staking to intensive cultivation.

Before the age of 20, everyone will increase their experience, accumulate contacts and precipitate energy through continuous addition.

After the age of 20, like a hard disk with insufficient memory, don't install everything, but choose carefully, and even begin to deliberately filter out the invalid and useless things in the memory and delete them directly.

The same is true of social relations.

God treats everyone equally. You and I only have 24 hours a day. Why do we always spend a lot of time trying to please unimportant people?

Only shallow people will pin their happiness on others indefinitely because of their inner emptiness.

Only by filtering out useless social activities in life can we live soberly and independently in the bustling and impetuous world.

Set aside some time to spend with your family, make friends, and squeeze out some time to consult seniors who are energetic and willing to grow up with you.

People's energy is limited, and focusing on family members worthy of companionship will improve the index of harmony and happiness; Investing in friends who can help you grow can improve the value of your unit time.

Yes, less is more.

2 Slow is fast, and the direction determines the result.

Choice is greater than effort, which is the reason.

If you are in the wrong direction, your efforts will be in vain, because the other way around is right. In this case, stopping is progress.

The direction is right, speed is the key, there is no fastest, only faster. Take more time to make sure that you have chosen the right direction, just like all kinds of sports events. Even if you start slowly, as long as you don't violate the rules and grasp the rhythm, the result will be the same.

On the other hand, if you blindly pursue fast, you are likely to make mistakes in your busy schedule, and the consequences are unimaginable, because there is no chance to remedy some situations at all.

There is a secret to determining whether the direction is correct, that is, before making a decision, consult more successful predecessors, not self-righteous people, and not to consult some people who don't understand or even fail.

Besides, don't make any decisions now. It is not too late to make a decision after dawn.

Yes, slow is fast.

3 small and big, micro-goals achieve big dreams.

Today, I chatted with my good friends about parent-child reading. A friend asked how to form such a good habit, because he also agreed with the practice of parent-child reading, just like going to the hospital and trusting the doctor.

In fact, there is a very small method, or tool, which can be operated quickly.

I told my friend that when I go home tonight, I can start to "find a beautiful paper, find a beautiful pen and draw 2 1 space." Then discuss with my daughter that I will study with her every day from tonight, and even if I read a page, I will put a check in the blank. If you do this for one day, you will get a reward for one day, such as a hug or playing a game with your child. "

I believe that it will become a good habit to finish 2 1 day, which is good for children and themselves.

I have to mention an amazing book, Reading Manual. Oh, that's amazing. I just recommended this book to my good friend at noon, but I actually saw it in another good friend's office this afternoon.

Sure enough, the law of attraction exists not only between people, but also between people and things.

Share this book again. The main essence is a sentence on the cover: "Your family may be rich, boxes of jewelry and cabinets of gold, but you will never be as rich as I am, because I have my parents who accompany me to study."

In addition, there is an idea in the book, which is a classic of this book. I will share it with you again. "The most expensive school district in the world is your study."

Well, small is big.