2. The older you get, the less you believe. Just like tooth wear. It's neither cynicism nor paranoia, it's just wear and tear. -Haruki Murakami
3. Only when you are rich can you perceive the richness of the world, only when you are kind can you perceive the beauty of the world, and only when you are open can you live happily between heaven and earth.
4. Stay with whoever you are comfortable with, friends and relatives. Stay away when you are tired. It is better to be happy than to please others. People would rather be lonely than against their will; I'd rather regret it than make do with it.
5. Before a certain age, you can live by overdraft, cleverness and luck given by God. However, after a certain age, what can really make you go far is self-discipline, initiative and diligence. -Lu Sihao
6. A tough life needs no explanation. As long as you arrive at your destination on time, few people care whether you drive a Mercedes or a tractor.
7. In this world, not all right and wrong can be distinguished, and not all disputes can be sorted out. In many cases, doing your own thing well is the best answer and interpretation.
8. In this life, you can be noble, but not shameless; People can be not great, but not mean; The mind can be unintelligent, but not confused; Life can be pessimistic, but not world-weary; Making friends can be generous, but it can't hurt others.
9. Don't be afraid to refuse others if your reasons are justified. When a person opens his mouth to make a request, he has two answers in mind. Therefore, it is expected to give him any of the answers.
1. I hope that in every loss, every anxiety, every confidence, every stubborn look, every resentment, I will be accompanied by the growth I want.
11. Spend your time on the things you should spend. Don't be melodramatic every day. You think too much every day, and you don't have much time to work hard. Don't encounter anything trivial, just blx. As long as you really struggle, you will find yourself to be great.
12. Young people, even if they don't mix well, at least their steps are light, and they can take off every burden at any time and fly to a higher platform. Middle-aged people can't. Everything on their backs is pulled into the flesh and blood. What is tied to the bones can't be unloaded again.
13. When people are most powerful, it is not the time to persist, but the time to let go. When you choose to empty your hands, who else can take anything from you! How many people lament the helplessness of fate, but forget that the three most powerful words in the world are: don't care!
14. Your life will never fail you. The wrong turns, the wrong roads, the tears, the sweat and the scars all make you unique.
15. After meeting all kinds of people, you know that in the world, except for parents, no one will pour out their hearts and lungs to you, no one will trust you unconditionally and completely, and no one will always be kind to you. You should have known that the sky will change, and life is so long and so far away that you have no choice but to rely on yourself.
16. When you reach a certain age, you should learn to be taciturn, and every sentence should be useful and weighty. Emotions are invisible, major events are indifferent, and they have their own bottom line.
17. If you don't do something now, you may never do it in the future. Either you don't have time, or because you have time, you will put it off again and again, and rest assured that they will be left there, exposed to the wind and rain, covered with thick dust.
18. You have to force yourself to be better, because many bitches are waiting to see your jokes behind you. So be hard on yourself and force yourself to work hard. In five years, you will thank yourself for being hard today and hate yourself for being lazy and inferior today.
19. Life is gloomy, but it is impermanent. I see through my career, but it's a choice. Love sees through, but it's just gathering and parting. Life and death are understood, but it is a clutch. Cherish the ever-changing moment and cherish the fleeting passion.
2. In this life, people have different opportunities and different karma. Those who have passed, met and left are unique. If you are not greedy, you will have less desires; If you are not angry, your heart will be easy; If you don't ask for it, you will always be satisfied. Meet, please cherish; Don't cross it. Take care.
21. Don't look at other people's faces and listen to unnecessary gossip. How to live, you have the final say; How's it going? I have my own opinions.
22. It's not easy for anyone to be a human being in this life. Being a good person, being cheated at a loss, being a bad person, is blamed by everyone. No matter what age you are, you should keep your books separate, be practical and earnest, be kind, protect yourself, and at the same time, don't be wrong about others!
23. If someone annoys you, revenge is the stupidest behavior. Because the IQ difference is the farthest distance in the world, others do a bad thing, and you follow it, which is equivalent to pulling yourself down to the same level. When someone has a problem with you, please stay away from the villain and keep calm. Don't be angry, but remember: the hardest way to deal with a person is not to teach him a lesson, but to ignore him directly. It's lowering your level to argue with people who are not worth it.
24. Eat well, sleep well, earn money and spend money well. Don't be angry with people who are not worth it, and don't lose sleep over things that are not worth it. Since you are alive, live well and live for yourself every minute. Try to be a happy person, so that others will be happy when they see you.