Those who talk superficially and talk deeply are foolish. "Book of the Later Han Dynasty·Biography·Biography of Cui Xiang"

Translation It is foolish to talk too much about private things to friends with whom you have only a short acquaintance.

I feel that in all interpersonal interactions, the first and most taboo is "talking briefly and talking deeply", and this is also the case in the workplace.

People need distance from each other, and friends and relatives are no exception. In the workplace, if you have little friendship with people and show your heart to others, it will make people feel that you are not sincere, and if you talk too much, you will be wrong. People who are thoughtful will figure it out, and those who are not interested will be happy.

Why are you afraid of "talking lightly but deeply"? Some people say: Don't leave emotional traces anywhere that can be easily peeked, for fear that vulnerability will be used as a weapon to sting you.