"Birds think it is a charitable act to hold fish in the air."
the behavior of birds is a portrayal of the general public. Crosstalk actor Miao Fu's phrase "What you think you think is what you think" seems to be a joke, but it will actually appear in each of us.
but how to crack it? More than two thousand years ago, Confucius left a wise saying to the world: Don't do to others what you don't want others to do to you. It means that no matter what you do, you should put yourself in others' shoes, understand others' feelings with your own feelings, and think about others' situations with your own situation.
In fact, there is another sentence that is also very important, and that is: "Don't do to others what you want."
"If you are not a fish, you will know the joy of fish. The child is not me, knowing that I don't know the joy of fish. "
a person can't fully understand himself when he gets along with himself day and night, let alone know others, so it's easier for him to be biased. Thought of here, we may be relieved, perhaps more confused.
This reminds me of the classic story of fish head soup. A wife loves her husband. Every time she cooks fish, she always leaves the delicious fish for her husband and eats the remaining fish head soup. Before he died, the husband told his wife that he only had one wish, that is, to drink a bowl of favorite fish head soup, but he never drank fish head soup once after decades of marriage ...
Back to the beginning poem, when others send us kindness, it is usually difficult to refuse, but this kindness may be "birds are good to fish", which may be a poison to those who accept it.
if you can foresee it first, the fish don't have to die, and the birds don't have to bear this pain.