My best friend was a confident, beautiful and generous woman. She has a good job and a good family. When she is in love with her husband, she often boasts in front of her friends with great confidence.
I still remember that she once said that whoever can marry such an excellent woman in the future must be the blessing of that man for eight generations, so she was not worried that her husband would betray her at all.
She and her husband met at a friend's party. The man's condition is similar to hers, and she is very kind to them. Not long after they were together, they had plans to get married.
When they got married, they bought a house and car together. After marriage, her husband said that he didn't want her to be too tired and asked her to resign as a full-time wife. My best friend was very excited at that time, and he also boasted that he had married a good man, married love and so on.
However, her "good days" soon ended. After more than three months of marriage, she became pregnant, her mood became unstable, and she was often suspicious. She always said that she had a hunch that her husband must have someone outside.
In fact, at that time, her husband was very considerate to her and didn't betray her, but her girlfriend didn't listen to the other party's explanation at all, and even said that she would go to her husband's company to make trouble.
Her behavior completely erased the last bit of patience of her husband. From then on, the husband and wife quarreled for three days, and the best friend was pregnant.
Husband and wife can't communicate calmly. The final result of the quarrel is that the husband finally betrayed the marriage, and the best friend didn't know it at first. It turned out that after she became pregnant, her suspicion became very heavy. As soon as her husband quarreled, she slammed the door and went home from work later and later. She gradually discovered many abnormal behaviors of men.
For example, when I get home, I don't talk and keep looking at my mobile phone. Sometimes I am so absorbed in the conversation that she can't hear him. Also, my husband actually offered to share a room with her, which made my best friend a little confused. Even if they often quarrel, they won't be apart without Rio Tinto.
In this way, the marital status of the two people basically entered the cold war period. Until the baby was born, my best friend's husband was a little nicer to her, but it was only limited to talking to her about the baby.
Paper can never wrap fire. Not long after the child was born, my girlfriend accidentally found a record of his extramarital affairs in her husband's mobile phone. At this time, she also knew that in fact, during her pregnancy, the man had betrayed his feelings.
Just after giving birth, she was still very sensitive and even began to feel insecure. She didn't find out that her husband betrayed her because of suspicion during pregnancy. She only thought that her husband was looking for another woman because the child was ugly.
Probably because of having children, my best friend found her husband's extramarital affairs, and she was very calm, didn't make trouble, and didn't even file for divorce. She didn't even complain. Every day she always feels that her skin is getting worse and worse, and she is no longer as confident as before.
Even if her husband goes out with another woman, she doesn't say anything, but silently suffers injustice.
My best friend said that her idea was to keep her marriage and move on with her life.
As a result, the quiet life was still broken. The object of the husband's extramarital affair is a woman with a family. After her husband found out about the affair between his wife and her best friend's husband, he went straight to him to do it.
The man also brought two people. His best friend's husband was outnumbered and suffered a little injury. The other party repeatedly came to provoke him. Best friends have no choice. She stepped forward to talk to the man. In order to make peace, she finally spent130 thousand to send people away.
My husband also returned to the family. When he learned that his girlfriend gave the man130,000 yuan, he was furious and cursed his girlfriend. The girlfriend asked her husband, "If you don't pay some money, people will come to your door every day to make trouble. Will you let me live a normal life? "
At this time, the man also realized his mistake. Although his wife was emotionally unstable and suspicious during pregnancy, he should never betray his marriage.
The best friend finally regained her original confidence after her husband apologized to her.
Tu Lei said: "It is selfish to deprive the other person of the right to share joys and sorrows with you."
There are a lot of male chauvinism in real life, and their own conditions are similar. After marriage, I hope to earn money to support my family, dominate the family, deprive my wife of the right to work, and let women teach their children at home.
Asha emotional information:
At first, men put words very beautifully, unwilling to let their wives suffer and so on. However, as time goes on, the wife's social scope narrows, coupled with emotional instability during pregnancy, she will begin to doubt her husband. At this time, it is not because a woman becomes importunate, but because she is in a weak position in marriage and becomes unconfident.
When a woman's self-confidence is gone, she loses her attraction to men. As long as men are not self-disciplined, it is easy for them to betray their marriage.
A truly responsible man should not stop women from working under various excuses after marriage, nor should he put housework and children within the scope of his wife.
Marriage is the responsibility of two people, no one can be absent. Only when husband and wife have always been in an equal position can they live happier and happier, and the feelings between husband and wife will always be stable.