To pay attention to details, you must have strict requirements on yourself, constantly set some small goals, and then develop habits.

?I used to have a careless personality, and I dealt with many things carelessly. I felt that I could do just about anything. However, after I got married, my wife was very dissatisfied with my habit, so she gradually urged me to do it. I have changed, so I can share with you some of my experiences.

Strict requirements, preferably with rewards and punishments

My biggest shortcoming is that I am relatively casual at home. After packing or washing, the items appear messy, and my wife says I don’t He was too careful (not paying attention to details) and asked me to correct him. At the beginning, the progress was very slow. I only reorganized it after she reminded me. Later, my wife found that the results were little, so she formulated reward and punishment measures for me: if I do well, I will be rewarded with a day off from housework, and if I make a mistake, I will be rewarded. Just give her a red envelope of two hundred. In this way, after constantly giving out red envelopes and having little money, I slowly changed my mind.

? If you want to change your habit of not paying attention to details, the most fearful thing is the lack of supervision. If you can find someone to supervise you, preferably with incentives or punishments, you will find that changes will occur. It's not that difficult.

Set good goals

In the process of changing, I found that those of us who do not pay attention to details are careless and forgetful, so we divide one thing into many If you achieve small goals one by one, the difficulty will be reduced a lot. So the small goal I set for myself at the beginning was that after I came back every day and changed my shoes, I had to put them neatly, and then hang my clothes in the designated place. After this was achieved, I had to take the initiative to tidy the bed or cabinet every day... After completing each goal one by one, I discovered that I could also do things in an organized manner and handle the details perfectly.

Develop a habit

? I have read a theory: when you stick to anything for 21 days, it will become your habit. So every time I make a change, I remind myself that I must stick to it for 3 weeks and see the effect. In the end, I found that it really makes sense.

? The so-called nature is easy to change but hard to change. In fact, it is a self-comfort we give ourselves because we don’t want to change. Therefore, if we want to make our neurotic selves able to pay serious attention to various aspects, Details will definitely require a lot of time and energy. From the very beginning, you must leave no way out for yourself, so that you can make up your mind to make the biggest change. Only in this way can you realize how difficult it is to be reborn, and understand how difficult it is to become excellent.