Text/Chen Caixia

From now on, I hope you have the courage to move forward and the wisdom to stop losses in time.

Yi Shu once said: "Anyone who feels hard is forcing it. True love makes people happy. If you feel pain, you must have made a mistake. You need to end it immediately and start over."

In fact, in relationships, we must have the courage to move forward and the wisdom to stop losses in time. Don't dwell on the past. In a relationship, be a person who cuts losses in time.

Everyone is an independent individual. I believe that people who are attracted to each other will gather together. As a famous saying goes: Different ways do not lead to mutual conflict. You are also unique in the world, and you have a comfort zone that is suitable for you.

In fact, I have been alone for so long that I have forgotten what it feels like for two people to be together. No, I seem to have always been alone.

It’s good to be an excellent ordinary person, do what you like, love the world, and love life with the people you like. Don't care about other people's opinions and opinions, and don't force yourself to fit in with others, just be yourself! I am used to being alone, but I am actually a little afraid of someone suddenly breaking into my life and breaking my original peace.

Compared with being in a busy place, I prefer to spend time with myself, so that I don’t have to rack my brains to speak, don’t have to take care of everyone’s emotions, don’t have to be afraid of embarrassment or worry about being left alone. My brother used to say that I was the comedian in the family. Wherever I was, there was laughter. When I grew up, I seemed to have become a different person.

No matter if no one cares about you or your skills are not as good as others, you should try to calm down and start doing what you should do, instead of letting irritability and anxiety destroy your little enthusiasm. .

When you find that you are different from others, what you have to do is not to modify, but to learn to accept it. Everyone has his or her own growth map. We must draw our own life map and don’t have to look for answers to our own lives in other people’s maps!

May you have the courage to move forward and the ability to stop losses in time. Wisdom!

So, when a person cannot persevere, he must remember this sentence: "sharpen the edges, fade away the superiority, and calm down the heart."

About the author: Hello, I am Anna, a post-96s generation who walks independently. I am an editor at work and an ordinary recorder in life. Here are my growth experiences and three views. I have gone through many obstacles along the way, and I just want to be what I like. I love writing, running, climbing, and volunteering, and I firmly believe that the best works are those written for yourself!